For Kokila to justify her anger on Ahem because he joined hands with his naive wife to some extend it justified. I mean I too feel Ahem should be more reasonable and use his head as his wife is using her heart which only beats for her Rashiben.
In Ahem's defence I will say up till now he is not fully aware of Rashi's deeds towards Gopi. So if kokila want him to understand about Rashi's devious deeds she needs to tell him so, as he is the only one who silently supported her in his own ways.
If Ahem did it for Jigar then this is a different case all together as I love to see them bond. We all know that Rashi is not in Ahem's fan club and only helped her due to Gopi.
To me the main or centre of all this fiasco is Gopi, who despite getting prove of her sister's evil nature towards her ( booth track or even conning jigar to marry her) wishes to turn a blind eye and has dragged her lovey dovey puppy husband into the matter.
Kokila knows that Ahem did not like Rashi and that him taking an interest in helping her is Gopi's doing. Kokila has tried as hard as she could to open Gopi's eyes and brain to understand her sister properly but her refusal of Kokila's advice is beyond believe because now Gopi has included her once dedicated son to run around Rashi's marriage when his own marriage is no where.
All in all Shilpa, it's a nice post