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Posted: 13 years ago
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Me Loves the Koki Fan club esp that Koki Fans have so much to say😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: umfaiz

lovely post hats of to you for saying all this 👏agree Koki is a witness to some of rashis kalkaris 😡which is why she is angry with ahem that he could not make gopi understand that rashi is a trouble maker😡 instead he is supporting her 😕




Thank you so much, it is nice to know that I am not the only one feeling Koki's frustration.


Just want to say I am frustrated for her and at her at the same time. For once I wish she would think things thru before jumping in with both hands and feet.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sandy914

Agreed.. she is more frustrated bcoz every body is more liberal towards Rashi..



Thank you Sandy. Yeah CVs are hell bent on letting Urshi win once again while we bash Koki for her anger.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tangam

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Lots to say Shilpa will be back...
Ok here goes
with all things SNS I am amazed with Koki's charactor
the concept of the charactor , the complex nature not syrupy nice sweet yet those who she loves gaurds fearsly. Righteous and just yet weak when it comes to her own. Intellegent yet loud and a woman who is fallible insecurities and with a inferiority complex that she overcompensates for by trying to be on top always...
Rupal does an amazing job to bring out the complexities and the writer for Koki is amazing ...dialogues are wow...
I feel her frustration...as u say she is never paid heed to when she raises red flags and yet she is left to pick up the pieces when all hell breaks lose...
RaJi...Jiger was justifiably mad at Raashi thiers and I repeat is not a misunderstanding it is a deal breaker...they need to work on it not brush it under the carpet...Rashi has certainly not proved to have understood her mistakes and more over I dont think she takes onus for her bad acts...So what the hell is Jiger Greatfull for...
Gopi...man oh man am I irritated there is a limit to innocence and I think this charactor is not realistic...
She is a subj of abuse...yes but that does not result in someone being so naive I think she is more of a simpleton...So she does notg grasp the complex nature of the situation she is manipulated by her sis who she loves but Koki has warned her...has been more of a mom to her bla blah but bcos of her love for her sis she overlooks everything...so is it safe to say she loves Rashi more than Koki...
My irritations with Gopi are many so lets leave it here cos i could be on a roll
then what happened to the Modi brain...I would be majorley pissed off if my boy were to be so shortsighted and avoided confiding in me (and it is matters of the family).
I am irritated with GoHem that they fail to work on their own marriage...
I loved Jiger and Ahem bonding but am at aloss as to what he is gratefull for ...would have love to see em bonding over jiger making it write with Gopi and Ahem...
Also Koki has always been in competition with Chirag her feeling like the underdog hence setting Ahem to take the challenge however I think she was not upset about the bro hug but what boght that about
Samj seva...the word everyone is angry about well when one is angry you are not very nice with your taunts they are taunts after all and we are talking Koki and her colourful language she does not mince her words...also in this situation I think (and pl hear me out b4 bashing) the word was sorta right they were infact helping Raashi not Jiger (In my opinion they were doing more harm to Jiger..underming his genuine hurt and deserved anger) and to Koki I guess in her disdain for Urshi they are not family they have done nothing to earn that...
Finally I hope the climax of all the build up to the confrontation brings out everyones concern to the table and then things will start eing sorted out..Ahem needs to now start doing some saul searching and contemplation for a quiet sombre man...thus far they have not shown him to be deep he is always in the shadow of one women or the other 1st influenced by koki and now Gopi...




Thank you so much Tangam, your words are so soothing to my anger and frustration. I just wish CVs wouldn't continue to show Koki like this, they have changed her so much from the past, and she just need little more. She needs to think calmly instead of getting angry and jumping to conclusion. I understand that her husband is not supportive at all and she is where she is because she has had to do everything alone, on top of that her own mother admitted to being hard on her when Koki was younge, and this is how she behaves with Ahem, but she needs change this attitude now, he is grown man not a kid.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Harini and Munni. Thanks so much my friends, I really needed your input today.

I am going to copy paste my comment to tangam here.

your words are so soothing to my anger and frustration. I just wish CVs wouldn't continue to show Koki like this, they have changed her so much from the past, and she just need little more. She needs to think calmly instead of getting angry and jumping to conclusion. I understand that her husband is not supportive at all and she is where she is because she has had to do everything alone, on top of that her own mother admitted to being hard on her when Koki was younge, and this is how she behaves with Ahem, but she needs change this attitude now, he is grown man not a kid.



Munni at least today we got to see the love and trust from Ahem, and I am happy about this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shilpa this is a great post and a talking point of the outburst from Koki to Ahem and Gopi.

Koki's harsh words to Gopi was the start of her venting her rage. Gopi was at the wrong place at the wrong time and was the easy victim who would not contest her but will take her hurtful words, harbour them and do things to please Koki just to see her happy.
Koki will be like a volcano erupting spurting lava. She will be harsh, hard and calculatingly cold for the hurt her son has caused her. Her reasons, as explained by Harini, will be selfish. Her words will be damning and painful for Ahem like when she told him how she felt when she realised that he deliberately allowed Gopi to get lost in Switzerland.
For her son to falter in work, be it for a meeting or missing work when Gopi was recoverying, is unacceptable as it is precisely this that keeps her in control of and that allows her to hold the reigns for her supreme Modi status.
Her raging tiger face will rant out her resentment for his support to bringing together Rashi and Jigar and may turn it to look closer at his relationship. This being all due to her knowledge of the ill doings of Rashi and Urmila to Gopi.
Is Koki's anger really wrong?
With Gopi - yes
With Ahem - if she makes him realise his that he has to do things for the right reasons and be honestly open to why he is doing them Koki's anger will be justified.
Shilpa, I think it is too soon for you to quit the show just as it is heating up. Koki's rage could just realign Ahem's NLP putting him back on track to doing things for the right reasons.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey everyone!!
Just wanted to say that I have read and loved everyone's posts!!! I have no more to add but thought I'd let you know how much I enjoyed reading everyone's take on Kokila!!
I do think she is a brilliant mother but she needs to loosed the apron strings and stop feeling that her son making bonds with others is a betrayal of his relationship with her, especially as we know that Ahem did buy kangans for her and in an ideal world Koki would have received her kangan straight away.
Oh well this is SNS so hopefully things will be sorted out between them all sooner rather than later!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: NazmaJ

Hey everyone!!

Just wanted to say that I have read and loved everyone's posts!!! I have no more to add but thought I'd let you know how much I enjoyed reading everyone's take on Kokila!!
I do think she is a brilliant mother but she needs to loosed the apron strings and stop feeling that her son making bonds with others is a betrayal of his relationship with her, especially as we know that Ahem did buy kangans for her and in an ideal world Koki would have received her kangan straight away.
Oh well this is SNS so hopefully things will be sorted out between them all sooner rather than later!!



@bold and the peace maker in this will be gopiji ... and ahemji will be maha impressed when she takes the blame...and mends their relation... and this should teach gopi madam a lesson to stay away from Rashiben and concentrate on her relation with her yummy and delicious and muscular Ahemji😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Shilpa this is a great post and a talking point of the outburst from Koki to Ahem and Gopi.

Koki's harsh words to Gopi was the start of her venting her rage. Gopi was at the wrong place at the wrong time and was the easy victim who would not contest her but will take her hurtful words, harbour them and do things to please Koki just to see her happy.
Koki will be like a volcano erupting spurting lava. She will be harsh, hard and calculatingly cold for the hurt her son has caused her. Her reasons, as explained by Harini, will be selfish. Her words will be damning and painful for Ahem like when she told him how she felt when she realised that he deliberately allowed Gopi to get lost in Switzerland.
For her son to falter in work, be it for a meeting or missing work when Gopi was recoverying, is unacceptable as it is precisely this that keeps her in control of and that allows her to hold the reigns for her supreme Modi status.
Her raging tiger face will rant out her resentment for his support to bringing together Rashi and Jigar and may turn it to look closer at his relationship. This being all due to her knowledge of the ill doings of Rashi and Urmila to Gopi.
Is Koki's anger really wrong?
With Gopi - yes
With Ahem - if she makes him realise his that he has to do things for the right reasons and be honestly open to why he is doing them Koki's anger will be justified.
Shilpa, I think it is too soon for you to quit the show just as it is heating up. Koki's rage could just realign Ahem's NLP putting him back on track to doing things for the right reasons.




Thank you Swasthi, for this wonderful comment and putting things on perspective for me. Initially my hope is that this is what Koki will do, make him realize why what he is doing for Raji is not justified as his own relationship also needs to move forward, and I my hope hinges on all this for now.

If for any reason they turn her negative, it may end everything for me, so I will see where they take this and decide.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971


Thank you Swasthi, for this wonderful comment and putting things on perspective for me. Initially my hope is that this is what Koki will do, make him realize why what he is doing for Raji is not justified as his own relationship also needs to move forward, and I my hope hinges on all this for now.

If for any reason they turn her negative, it may end everything for me, so I will see where they take this and decide.


Shilpa, don't do that.. And I think Koki will not turn negative. Like when Nani explained her mistake during the 'absent-mind' track, Koki will not apologize, but she will feel bad that she may perhaps have been hasty with her words when she comes to know that the kangan for which Ahem missed the meeting was for her. But hopefully, she would by then have drilled home the point that helping Rashi is not the right way to go..
One thing that keeps me going is the SBB video of Vandana aunty's arrival. Koki seems to have gone back to her peak behavior there. She intelligently makes sure that Gopi gets the reward. So whatever happens between Ahem and Koki, she will still protect her brood (Gopi and Ahem) against everyone else. She may be harsh with them for sometime but she will not let them down..

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