What was that!!!!! smacking my head - Page 2

Originally posted by: tangam

@bold So agree with you Sree all of that vibe they had , the undercurrent all gone...the eyelocks seem insipid now...

Originally posted by: Aish3003

So agree with you Sree. My reaction when the episode ended was "Huh?...What happened?" Anyways waiting for a better episode has become a norm now!

Originally posted by: RachP

Maybe there'll be something better tomorrow!

Like Rashi saving Gopi from trouble. Urmila being jailed (man, I'm obsessed with this idea). Ahem and Gopi scenes...maybe????

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

shree i am sorry can't really agree here is my take...

- the couple who were sooo awkward in their own house with a small peck ... slept in separate rooms... one feeling guily and terrified while the other feels sad because of his wife being terrified of the act... do u expect them to sway to the music... with his hands over her waist and her hands on his shoulders...

they are just back on talking terms only to help RaJi...

- they still don't know what they feel for each other...

- they were sharing their feelings through their eyes... Ahemji's eyes expressed more than everything... i agree he was stiff but that is how is character is and he will ease out when he talks about his love to her...

ok if at all they had danced... wouldn't it be a bit off going by their behavior over the last week...

let them come out of their shell... then no one is going to stop Ahemji and his love... and romance of course in Ahemji's style

so please don't smack ur head 😆... here is a big 🤗 from my side

Originally posted by: sree07

hi munni...sns always invokes extreme reactions in me ...the accident track and education track was so awesome that it already set a standard... If those tracks where 10 on 10...current track is not even worth 2 on 10... Having high and low points is fine... but not with such contrast.

agreed gohem is feeling awkward to dance around people... why did they even stand there making fool of themselves... again eyelock.(which is loosing it charm day by day...since CVs started to overuse the eyelocks...) I completely not agree the post kiss reaction...gohem is behaving like a teenage shy lovey dovey couple... Which does not go well with their past interaction., it is not much accordance with their characters i feel...Ahem was not portrayed as someone who cowardly stammers around his wife, he is someone who vent out his emotions as anger...

I can not see CVs spoiling ahems character like this... Make him strong again... Make him stand up for what he believes... (earlier when he did not like gopi he did not leave any stone un turned to show that...even in front of mom... Now when he feels good why hide it... It is not so ahemic...)..

CVs...Please give me my sns back... 😍 dreaming of the day when gohem come together...

@munni... thats for the hug dear.. 🤗

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

sree ... ok read all u views... my answers to similar questions are all written in a long post in this thread... do take ur time and read... we can discuss if u still feel like smacking ur head...

here is the link

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/saath-nibhaana-saathiya/2757831/lovey-dovey-puppet-ahem

page 1 has thread maker apprehensions... page 2 has my answers...

thanks sree... good that u r not feeling like smacking ur head... whatever they might be doing with other characters... they are not leaving the basic traits in Ahemji's characters... they are not going an inch away from his characterization because of which all are feeling frustrated and disappointed in him...

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

thanks sree... good that u r not feeling like smacking ur head... whatever they might be doing with other characters... they are not leaving the basic traits in Ahemji's characters... they are not going an inch away from his characterization because of which all are feeling frustrated and disappointed in him...

even if he confesses gopi about his love and all that... he won't be a loud guy in expressing his feelings like running with flowers in hand... he won't do all that... he will doing all the romancing also in subtle and Ahemlicious way...😳

Originally posted by: sree07

agreed...but...not at all feeling good after seeing him nowadays... He fails to make an impression like old ahem who is so sure of himself. Now it seems he is loosing his self esteem in front of gopi as well as other family members... i get that feeling... We are loosing the old ahem...😭

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

previously he was egoist, angry and arrogant... that is vanished now...but even when he was angry he was still the introvert and shy ... never talked to any one other than his mom ...

even now he is still shy and introvert only things missing are his ego and anger

because of which he seems to be more like gopi and when u stay with a person for a certain period, the goodness is bound to rub in...

@bold ...he never lost confidence in himself,,,, he is always there for gopi, business and his family,,,, he took on his shoulders the job of getting RaJi together because he was worried for gopi

Self esteem definition is a confidence in oneself, a satisfaction of what one is and the self respect that that confidence brings. It is the appraisal or assessment of a person on his self worth.

exactly thats what i meant... He does not have the air of confidence around him which he had in previous episodes... Even when the teddy bear incident, he had a kind of confidence in him which no one could miss... But after the kiss, it just varnished. .. Of course a person could be effected by a kiss, i not denying that. And it is true in case of gopi, she is inexperienced and a touch can send her to la la land forever... but ahem is not so inexperienced .he had a girlfriend who is modern and from pics and FBs they were close .. So he should stop acting like a village girl kissed by a man. Expected a lil more maturity from him and also i would have prefered to see an more confident ahem than the current one.