Ahem and love: up in the air

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Posted: 13 years ago
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On the face of it Ahem seems to be missing the point on what was blatantly obvious, the opportunity to make up and strengthen his relationship or the chance to reduce the discomfort with Gopi, but was it?

Ahem did broach the conversation calmly and spoke softly to enable her to speak without inhibitions. He ensured that he said the right words at the right time but kept a poker face throughout his conversation only to observe her carefully while he played out his tease, by asking her 'why can't Jigar gift Rashi bangles?' He was so tuned in to know every reaction of hers, especially when he stated whom the second pair of bangles were for. What gave his game away was his reaction on hearing that the second pair of bangles will be delayed.
Ahem is a great player of games and at keeping the other person at bay. It comes from his long relationship with his mother in not telling her everything but telling her enough to keep her fine. He knows that Gopi called him only because of making Rashi happy with the intention of helping them to get closer. He has shown that he is on her side with this as at the party he told Jigar to sit with them at their table, particularly to sit in the available seat next to Rashi.
At the same time, Ahem has made himself conscious of keeping her comfortable and smiling. With this awkwardness they have endured after the kiss he now feels that they are in a better place. He shown this through maintaining that they were together side by side thereafter - leaving the kitchen, coming down the stairs and at the party.
The party is not over yet. We could be in for more surprises. Let's indulge in Ahem's game for now as things are up in the air.
Things to note in today's Ahem and love:
1. He now knows that she does not know how to order for jewellery - will this be remembered later when Kinjal's kalakari on the jewellery surfaces?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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RES

*Edited*

Swashti Thank you for this, I needed this today.

Initially I thought what in the world is he doing, why can't he see her pain and disappointment?
I have to say I have never been so wrong about him. I watched it again to take another look and realized he knows her better than what I thought.
So much has happened since the accidental kiss. He tried to do his best to make her comfortable and not fear him, but nothing worked.
He was further disappointed by the fact that she called him but didn't even say hello and talked about Raji only.
When he came and heard his mom talk about the kangan an idea took place in his head to find out about how she really feels about him.
When he mentions the two pairs of kangan, he sees the surprise on her face, he is focused only on her reaction as he pauses before saying the second pair is for mom, he notes her disappointment, and also the fact that she immediately puts it aside.

He got the proof he needed about her feelings and also pleasure of her company when his mom told them to go and get ready. He checked to see how she felt about going with him and when he saw that she was not uncomfortable he made his way out the kitchen and she followed him.

In a way I think its good that he is not buying anything for her now, because it would only be seen as obligation. Like with the sari he bought for her.

No I think when he gifts her something he doesn't want there to be any doubts in her mind as to why he is giving her something.
He it lot smarter than I gave him credit for.
Besides at this time there is no reason for him to give her anything. He is not buying the gift for Rashi from him, but he is buying it on Jigar's behalf.

As for the other pair of Kangan for Koki, I think Gopi would not expect anything less from him, she knows his love for Koki.

In all this they are once again talking to each other and are once again more comfortable with each other. The underlying tension is still there but there is no more awkwardness. This is visible as they descend the stairs together, as he observes her expression when his mom compliments her and as they stand close together during the cake cutting.
I think this deserves our Friday night drinks.

So Cheers!





Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hmmm Swasthi.. backing Ahem ji.. ok ok Carry on..

But Good one :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post swathi , though i feel if he has said it is for his mom then it is , but now tat kokila is under impression tat her dikra is going to gift her the bangles , there are possibilities tat ahem might gift the other pair to gopi and koki may b left wondering why his son hasnt gifted her the bangles yet . I really hope her statement is a path to get to kinjals kalakari , may be in the coming up epis he might think abt it .*fingers crossed*

yeah hopefully the party gives us some good surprises.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah Swasthi...Ahem is being very smart in getting giving Gopi the space to take decisions in the relationship & at the same time getting her to open up to him !!! He is absorbing all her reactions...all her likes...& all her feelings...He is not rushing her & at the same time he is being a partner to her all the time...
Today he saw a glimpse of disappointment in her face & he knows that she still considers him as hers & with this knowledge...how will he keep her happy till the gift comes which is 2 days latter !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I believe in what you have said.. but I was disappointed in the way it was shown ...

Maybe they have delayed all the flashbacks and explanation of Ahem's behavior till after the birthday party.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lovely analysis as usual swasthi...but the whole epi was kind of a letdown...maybe we expect too much...what with all the different scenarios we come up with in the forum...😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What is wrong with this silly 'like' button!😡

Wonderful post Swasthi,Shilpa and everyone else!😃

We need more doses of Gohem,come on CV's!😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great analysis swasthi.. your posts always makes me smile 😃
I hope aham will not go back to his old self again..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent post Swasthi and Shilpa, I have a feeling that when Gohem gets together it is going to be big, CV's is just giving us small doses of Gohem to keep us guessing about Ahem's actual intentions. Anyway, I am looking forward to next week episodes wonder what is installed???

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