Journey of being together - Into Her !!!

As her need was to wash her hair, he made arrangements not only she could wash her hair but he took the responsibility to wash her hair...When she questioned him...he asked an obvious question & when she tried to stop him...he asked her to keep quiet & sit down & went about the task...When he realised that she did not move back...then he held her & helped her settledown so that he could wash her hair...Does he also realise that in their relationship in which she considers herself as an outsider because of his past behaviour that he will need to hold her & build her confidence & trust in him so that she can move into their relationship...

great analysis navya...both ahem and gopi were affected by the hair wash...as were all gohem fanatics😉...what was striking today was that koki did not utter a single word to ahem...but we could see that both ahem and koki were not on the same page...loved gopis expressions during the hair wash...

Originally posted by: navyab

He was very gentle as he washed her hair..he stirred feelings in her & she was visibly effected by it...he did not let any of his feelings out & went about the task...as she expressed pain...he immediately reacted & started caring for her from a close point...thats when he showed that as much as she was effected by the closeness ...he was also effected by the same...yeah it stirred feelings within him but that did not stop him !!!...After ensuing that he was done...he clearly gave her instructions that she was only supposed to rest & not work...He knows her & understands her & hence the instruction...

When his mom was in the room & started to question Gopi, though not a word said...both of them exchanged looks & then he looked into his mom directly...Yeah it was an ackward situation to be caught by his mom who always insisted that he should not bother about such small things & concentrate on work...but today nothing matters to him as much as her comfort...

lovely take on his actions navyab...his subtle actions speak volumes of his feelings...having stirred by feelings for her...i guess this is just the beginning..we are in store for great gohem scenes in future..to remember for ever...😳

Lovely post navyab. Love your journey of being together posts 😊

Sighhh!!!!!!😍 Lovely write up, Navya. Can't write, let alone make words.😆

👏...loved toread the analysis😊

Originally posted by: varshu27

great analysis navya...both ahem and gopi were affected by the hair wash...as were all gohem fanatics😉...what was striking today was that koki did not utter a single word to ahem...but we could see that both ahem and koki were not on the same page...loved gopis expressions during the hair wash...

Thank you Varshu...Yeah both were equally effected...but that did not stop him from taking care of her & in the end both did not flinch when their hands touched...

loved your analysis navyab!!!

I agree Gopi is still not confident in her relationship with Ahem and can't bring herself to burden him or asked for things and that has to change, if their relationship should ever become balanced

Aham is changing, he is sensitive to her needs more often then not, we've seen he notices now when she is worried about something and the parting today I felt he was warning her not to work yes but also I'm sure he sensed that she fears what is coming with the mother/son rift, that's what she is afraid off and she being the cause of it, but more likely he didn't sense that and he hasn't sensed that might be the problem as well with his mother.

lovely and amazingly written analysis navya


will a time come that he can put words to his feelings & tell her not to worry about such small things & he will handle it or will he always stay distant in the relationship unable to put words to what he feels...Will he always leave her at a point when all she needs is few words of comfort !!!!

the man always seems to be short of words ... but not actions in comforting her
he won't stay distant in the relation... he is the one moving forward and gopi is in a confused state... she is still not confident of what the relation holds for them...
time will come eventually when he will be more expressive verbally than the actions/... but that's a long wait