The Transition of Ahem Modi !!!

Well so far for the last 1 year we have seen that Ahem who is the heir to the Modi group as a arrogant adult who could not stand up to his mother to tell her about his love. He gets married to a naive girl who thinks him as her prince & life !!!

As his wife is naive there are so many things which creates problems between them & he takes out his ego & anger on Gopi !!! She is uneducated, comes across as a money digger...She takes back her Vows & goes out of the house !!! All in all he is attracted to her but without any emotion, the attraction does not hold the relationship together !!! Even after all this for Gopi he is her prince & love...she will do anything to keep her love happy !!!

Then came Nani due to whom they start spending time with each other, he starts to understand her...with bhoot track...he was concerned for her...but all thru his ego dominates him & thou he is there he never reaches out to her...he thinks her more as a additional responsibility that he has to live life because of his mom...but then the attraction for each other is still there...incident after incident he is there for her thou not willing but he just cant help it not being there for her !!!!

Then because of a life threatening situation comes her request to get educated...all thru he observes that she is putting in efforts to get educated...he comes searching for her when she was missing one night to find her near the temple studying...that was the 1st time he beats his ego to find her !!! then comes the responsibility to drop her everyday & he starts to spend time with her...then she is accused of copying & he finds her crying in the middle of the night...that tugs his heart so much that he goes to defend her not only to the principal but also with his mom...this is where the attraction moved towards emotion which was tugging him hard ...the time spent with her getting her educated helped him know her ...there is this unknown emotion which was tearing him..pulling him when she went missing..when she was lost & also on her bday...& as her education continued ...his ego could not hold him...he was vulnerable to her...he did show different emotions at diff times such as anger, concern which comes with the right when u r in love….Even without him knowing, he has changed towards her….navratri @ her simple beauty captured him….her voice mesmerized him…her inconvenience troubled him so much so that her comfort became his comfort…he enjoys being with her…

With Rashi trouble came out the actual Ahem who he was…. beyond his arrogance is a man who belongs to his family & wants his family belonging to him…he stood by his brother, family & especially his wife…..The actual Ahem has transitioned out beyond thinking of himself & of his EGO…

Love does so many things to so many people & this is what it has done to Ahem, it was very slow that he himself has not realised….He has accepted Gopi as she is …nave & innocent, he understands her, he cares for her & he feels it is his right to claim her, he feels a sense of responsibility towards her…..This love is not based on Pity ( when Rashi's rest of the truth comes out) or guilt ( when Kinjle's truth is out)…..It is between a husband & wife who now love each other….so when will they reach out to each other ???

Your thoughts???

nice effort to find ahem's transition...but according to me one of the most important fact that made in his transition is ...the confession of gopi on the holi day...just imagine after scolding and hurting a person to maximum she is telling to you that ..." i cant live without you..."it would have affected him a lot...atleast for once he had thought of that...mention that too...,,,

Fabulous thoughts about the changing Aham
me too want to see some thing big to happen between Aham and Gopi which causes Aham to accept Gopi as his wife and life with out any hesitant

Something big has to happen... or else he is not going to open up to gopi and says how much he loves her. I am hope the letter befor marriage or the necklace that kinjal bought

I love your posts. I somehow like the slow progress here. It comes over as real. I mean he was in love and had to marry someone else. It would have been unrealistic if it would have been differently. But I think now the time has come for some ROMANCE .. please😳

wonderfully written..great post
The transition of Ahem is quite slow but still mesmerizing...he's drawing to Gopi gradually and thats a wonderful treat to see...hopefully we'll get the ultimate transition soon 😊

I loved your analysis. You have summarised everything about Ahem. I also think this is the time Ahem needs to speak out his feelings for Gopi, which will be the true feelings in his heart neither due to guilty feeling nor due to sympathy for her. I so wish the current track to be cut down and show us the building up of their relationship. Their relationship was gradually developing in a good way but abruptly CVs changed the track.

Originally posted by: navyab

...all thru he observes that she is putting in efforts to get educated...he comes searching for her when she was missing one night to find her near the temple studying...that was the 1st time he beats his ego to find her !!!

i really like your post very nice post

love the post totally agree love the change in ahem like in yesterday's episode when gopi offered to answer the phone he stopped her cause he knew what ppl were going to say let his anger go on the phone so he changed in deed cause he would took his anger on gopi like in the past, after he does that gopi is worried for ahem which is good to see shes focusing on something else like making her maa ji trust her again and ahem ji i love it when jigar goes to his room and takes out the memoires of rashi the u pillow everything which i knew had to happen everyone knew so gopis worried there is no need to cry but i think in todays episode she doesn't cry as much but i like that fact the cv's are making gopi focus on her maa ji and ahem and the family not rashi much so that good in one way