Originally posted by: ANJ4
This post is very sad for me ... I feel for gopi... I know what it is to have a mother n father... i see mine every day . my auntie died when her son and daughter 3 n 4 ,he got married again, but Did not stay in touch with us... My cousin is now 17 ...we visit alot and she ask about her mother all the time... i sometime tell her the same thing, she never get tired of listening...
i think poor gopi really never had a chance to ask any about her parent . remember in the beginning her mama said how happy gopi's mother would be seeing gopi married and what a nice family gopi was going too.
me too I feel for her, your cousin and the character of Gopi. She must truly miss her mum, your cousin at least people around to provide a platform to discuss, which isn't the case with Gopi, yes Mahma is around but his a hen pecked husband...also his a man, he doesn't know enough about feelings, he says on the phone you always forget your birthday, the question should have been put to her face to face much much earlier, why are you reluctant to celebrate your birthday when Rashi is so happy when it's her birthday, she would have then told about her parents death on the same day, and they could have talked through it, but as his a man that wouldn't happen.
But even if the parents died on Janmastami which is the same day of Gopi's birthday, is it right that they death should keep impacting on her? Of course parents are extremely important to a person but what I'm asking is remembrance memorial take precedent over birthday celebration, being she never knew much about them so the memorial is not going to be talking to people who knew them and remembering her parents whilst they lived but more just feeling sad and aggrieved that she has no parents to take her away from miseries that she has had to encounter for them not being alive. As a memorial/shradh or puja, hasn't been taking place, so it's one soul feeling sad at they passing, everyone else isn't sad or thinking of them only Gopi.
Edited by Nafisa_blossoms - 14 years ago
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