AttentionCVs 'Time for a change'in hetal and jigar

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i seriously need a change in hetal and jigar 's spiritless characters 😡 ... we all know rashi does kalakaris but lets keep that aside for a while ... as for jigar and hetal they must stop taking the crap from kokila which she constantly throws at them ,in particular rashi ... or they must soon disclose that jigar is kokila's son so that hetal's meekness could be justified... if not how long can somebody take those unnecessary snide remarks of kokila 😡 and it is getting on my fringing nerves 😡 ... her constant chanting of "meri gopi vau" and comparing that anpad gopi with rashi and belittling rashi everytime is really so irritating 🤬 🤢 ... it is not that i dislike gopi , i too like her but this 🤬's kokila's comparison's are disgusting ... why not for once hetal retort her 😡 ... how long she will be the "doormat" of kokila ,that too for no reason 🤢.. koki's husband is a vagabond and chirag is a business tycoon but she still takes the abuse from her and "the great kokila modi" who always dictates rules and regulations is herself a 🤬 in many ways and made her daughter also a 🤬 & a brat ,why she didnt treated kinjal like rashi in the name of reforming her but no koki has double standards for her daughter and daughter-in-law 🤢...i wonder how do u guys adore her ... now she doesnt want gopi to gain wordly knowledge 😡 then y did she sent knijal to school 🤢 may be she is scared that if ahem starts loving gopi he and gopi will not depend on her & she will be ignored as a result she may lose her authority in modi mansion coz ahem is the only earning member of kokila's family 😆

And jigar 😡 there is no surprise in rashi not loving him , who will love such a spineless toady husband like jigar 😡 ...he never stands up for his wife ,always follows kokila and ahem like a pomeranian 😡 especially during their swiss tour when kokila punished rashi not to come for sledging ,jigar instead of taking rashi with him or atleast accompanying her at restaurant itself follows koki meekly 😡 , not even supports rashi when kokila scolds her for wearing a jeans 😡 ...i'm not surprised with rashi doing kalakaris , any girl at rashi's place would be peeded-off and try to do something in fact react more strongly than rashi & her stupid scheming 😆 ... koki's behaviour makes me not to hate rashi 😆

CVs plzzz bring some change , grew some spine on hetal and jigar's characters 😆... make them show some courage when kokila abuses rashi ...let chirag's family be separated from parag's and live with their own earnings so that hetal ,jigar and rashi also will be respected as Modis... lets bring an end to kokila's domnation 😡 ...rashi or any other girl at rashi's place would never ever reform until she stays with someone like kokila and it is justifiable also ,kokila will never let rashi reform ... and it will be unjustifiable if u continue to portray rashi as -ve in presence of kokila and her rant 😡... plzzz let jigar to show some dignity ...

rashi is supposed to be -ve character and she justifies it so i have no qualms with her ...she will reform at some point but will they ever show kokila reforming and learning how to reapect dils ,how to respect her husband , how to repect her jethani etc etc etc... *sigh* ... or will they justify kokila's behaviour towards her daughter-in-laws and others till end *sigh*



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Posted: 14 years ago
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you deserve a nice round of applause...👏... i think each and every word of urs is correct.. even though i hate kalakaris and ths tory going back to square one every now and then... i like rashi more... i think eventhough she is portrayed as a grey charecter.. her behaviour is reasonable...

jigar must grow a spine and he should gain some respect.. in his own house jigar is treated like a stranger then how will his wife get some respect there... he doen't even know how to defend his wife... i agree he is a sweet and caring husband but he should be more bold...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fortuneprincess

you deserve a nice round of applause...👏... i think each and every word of urs is correct.. even though i hate kalakaris and ths tory going back to square one every now and then... i like rashi more... i think eventhough she is portrayed as a grey charecter.. her behaviour is reasonable...

jigar must grow a spine and he should gain some respect.. in his own house jigar is treated like a stranger then how will his wife get some respect there... he doen't even know how to defend his wife... i agree he is a sweet and caring husband but he should be more bold...




thanks a lottt for supporting my views 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I was truly shocked when Jigar allowed the punishment to Rashi to stay in the restaurant, because he was thinking of her anyway, they are on holiday, that particular trip up glacier 5000 they were doing just for enjoyment, so why not allow Rashi to enjoy herself, also the jeans, perhaps had Rashi spoken to Jigar that I want to take only modern clothes on our trip and will wear a saree when going and arriving only, perhaps he would have supported her. But definitely, he should have said to Kokila no we are not at home, what opportunity will Rashi have to come on the sledge again, she should come and shrug of his jacket as he intended and give it to her, hold her hand and go outside with her...it's away of making them closer if he supports her when Kokila is on the war path.

I also agree I want some excitement in the serial, so either Hetal reveals, as Suk predicted, that Jigar is adopted and actually Kokila's son, that's why Kokila rules the house, makes sense why else would Aham be older then Jigar when Hetal was married first and them two are so much in love, and they have only one child...Hetal said to Gopi when they were discussing engagement rings, that she was married first and stayed in the house a long time and she went to choose Kokila with Baa...or for Hetal and Jigar both to speak up and tell Kokila point blank she should change her attitude.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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I totally agree with you. And i have said this before that Rashi is the younger version of Kokila. Kokila doesnt respect her hubby coz he is a loser and so does rashi. Kokila had the first heir and made him rich and uses him against everyone to get her status and rashi will do the same. So I dont know why Koki hates rashi's guts cant she see her younger version in her.

Koki tells rashi to respect her hubby and MIL but who does Koki respect. She yells and shuts baa up, does the same to Chirag her hubby and Hetal. She has no respect for anyone of them so how can she expect Rashi to do that. Young people are influenced by their elders. I don't know if anyone noticed but Rashi was first just annoyed with Gopi and didn't care about her but now she HATES her and wants to ruin her marriage and life. The reason behind that is Kokila. She is the one who started the comparison. If she really is proud of her gopi vahu then why doesn't she learn something from her gopi vahu which is to respect he elders and her husband. I have no idea how can parag stay with a wife who disrespects him every chance she gets. Kokila comparing the two DIL will only create more rift between the sisters and make rashi worst instead of making her better.

And jigar is just useless. He is not a kid he is a married. Kokila is not rashi's husband. she cant order her around. The poor girl didn't even have the opportunity to enjoy her vacation. Koki needs to stop treating them like little kids they are are old now. she cant punish them (eg. locking gopi in the store room hungry, not letting rashi come with them). He needs to stop following Ahem also, he should stand on his own feet and stand up for his wife. Hetal too needs to stand up for her son and Rashi.

Kokila only wants gopi to get close to ahem is because her mom declared that rashi is a better bahu because she has a relationship with her husband. Once gopi gets alittle close to ahem, and ahem starts loving gopi and depending on her Kokila will create rifts between them. In the beginning she wouldnt let gopi go near ahem because she feels threatened that she will lose her dictatorship in the house. She wants gopi to study but doesn't want her to become smart because then she will lose control over her.

Kokila will one day ruin this family because a person can stay quite only till a point. Hetal so needs to get self respect and stop smiling at Koki's insults and also jigar. And Koki needs to stop insulting and putting rashi down and instead learn some sanskar from her Gopi Vahu.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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sorry to say...i m not agreeing with this point...koki is not supporting raashi because she know the true face of raashi...koki knows thatshe is doing al lthese just to show off...and make gopi down and not for the family... i remember once that a woman who came for pooja said raashi stole her sandals...that time even hetal was silent but koki defended them and supported raashi...in that evening raashi stole the teeth of nani...koki considers both the bahu equally...she scold both of them for their mistakes...but she doesnt trust rashi and believe gopi blindly...because when she met raashi for the first time ,rashi said a big lie to her and koki understood her very well...the reason for koki 's behaviour to raashi is raashi itself...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: aachus

sorry to say...i m not agreeing with this point...koki is not supporting raashi because she know the true face of raashi...koki knows thatshe is doing al lthese just to show off...and make gopi down and not for the family... i remember once that a woman who came for pooja said raashi stole her sandals...that time even hetal was silent but koki defended them and supported raashi...in that evening raashi stole the teeth of nani...koki considers both the bahu equally...she scold both of them for their mistakes...but she doesnt trust rashi and believe gopi blindly...because when she met raashi for the first time ,rashi said a big lie to her and koki understood her very well...the reason for koki 's behaviour to raashi is raashi itself...



Rashi does everything to show off so she can be the top bahu. What did Kokila do and still doing? The same thing. She wanted to beat hetal at everything and be the top bahu because her husband is a loser. And ok so she is doing that to Rashi because she knows Rashi's intention but she doesnt even look at the kids the same way. Hetal thinks of Ahem and jigar as her sons but Koki doesnt. Koki is no saint at all. And the truth is even if Rashi truly realizes her mistake and tries to be better koki wont like it because then she will lose control. I think the main reason behind Koki's bahvior is her mother. She never gave her love was always strict to her. And yes that kind of love makes some people strong but for someone like koki who was vulnerable and already worried becasue of her dark complexion, it scarred her for life. Thats why she wants to be inconrtol in her sasrul and if from the new generation if rashi is in top then Koki will lose control however if gopi is in top then Kokila will always be the leader.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: aachus

sorry to say...i m not agreeing with this point...koki is not supporting raashi because she know the true face of raashi...koki knows thatshe is doing al lthese just to show off...and make gopi down and not for the family... i remember once that a woman who came for pooja said raashi stole her sandals...that time even hetal was silent but koki defended them and supported raashi...in that evening raashi stole the teeth of nani...koki considers both the bahu equally...she scold both of them for their mistakes...but she doesnt trust rashi and believe gopi blindly...because when she met raashi for the first time ,rashi said a big lie to her and koki understood her very well...the reason for koki 's behaviour to raashi is raashi itself...

I agree with you ...you are so right. And I like koki so much.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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👏 this is for u nigo 👏 ur each and every point is right 🤗

high points to be shown on sns

---> the moment when jigar and hetal lambast kokila and take their family to live separately ,that will be the best day on sns for me

---> ahem slowly falling for gopi and starts depending on her for all small things and stops saying "yes mom and pl mom😆" ..and kokila will be sizzling with anger as she slowly loses her grip on her son *that will be a sight to watch*🥳 ...

---> i want gopi's education to be sabotaged now either due to rashi or her so-called maaji kokila 🤢 which is more likely to happen 😆 and ahem has to accept her as such not by kokila's pressure on him but by himself ..he must truly fall for anpad gopi ☺️ then he must be the one to bring some plan to educate her ..again kokila will be pissed off with this 🤣 ..and slowly and steadily gopi also must be out her grip 🥳

--> kokila's dictatorship throne has to be totally crashed down 😈 ... if possible make rashi positive after chirag's family go separately ...let jigar and hetal scold her and advice her once they come to know of her kalakaris but after that let them live in peace ... let jigar also become a tycoon ,that itself will make rashi positive ⭐️ ..if possible let her have a scion before gopi 😳 ... looking at hetal's family at this stage will itself paralyse that jealousy kokila 🤣 ...

--> let kokila depend on parag alone for a while so that she will learn to respect him 😆 and baa or naani has to advice her on how to mange a joint family ,how to behave with various relations ,how to be a good human overall ,which kokila will never listen unless she was taught a good lesson from ahem and gopi 👍🏼 ..so reform her at some point and reunite hetal's family also & end it on a happy note 😃

they must start bringing some mirch masala to our monotonous sns ..sns has quite a different family set up compared to other serials ..hope they utilize it well...

show some sufferings for "creul-ella " kokila also 👍🏼 who was not even kind to her own son by forcing him to marry a illiterate and stupid puppet-like woman so that he will never love her from the bottom of his heart and she can continue to enjoy her power forever at modi mansion ewww how much more she can stoop low 🤢
hate sns if kokila goes unpunished 👎🏼
Edited by --jas-- - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nigo123



Rashi does everything to show off so she can be the top bahu. What did Kokila do and still doing? The same thing. She wanted to beat hetal at everything and be the top bahu because her husband is a loser. And ok so she is doing that to Rashi because she knows Rashi's intention but she doesnt even look at the kids the same way. Hetal thinks of Ahem and jigar as her sons but Koki doesnt. Koki is no saint at all. And the truth is even if Rashi truly realizes her mistake and tries to be better koki wont like it because then she will lose control. I think the main reason behind Koki's bahvior is her mother. She never gave her love was always strict to her. And yes that kind of love makes some people strong but for someone like koki who was vulnerable and already worried becasue of her dark complexion, it scarred her for life. Thats why she wants to be inconrtol in her sasrul and if from the new generation if rashi is in top then Koki will lose control however if gopi is in top then Kokila will always be the leader.

in bold...if koki is doing anything it is just for her family...not for her mother and selfishness...i agree that she have a complex that her husband is a loser...every wife whose hus has not job have this problem...even though she have nt said any thing against hetal...till now she havenot tried to make problems for her...raashi is not a younger version of koki...jigar is doing a job ,...and she didnt have a condition ask money to ahem...ahem and jigar are two cases...ahem's father dont have a job...may be in his child hood these things may have affected him,...maybe that made him to work hard and earn money...so koki have to give him more confidence...i dont think she show indifference...if she show that kinjal wont have married dhawal...and ahem have married anitha...

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