who is heartless Ahem or Rashi

Today one of the topics made me write this....I have always been with GOpi,liked her innocence..but today i started thinking from Ahem's point of view...Gopi doesnt fit his expectations...hye was made to marry a girl chosen by his mother and leave the one whom he loved dearly and whom he thoght was a perfect life partner ,but got stuck with Gopi because his mom finds a perfect Bahu in her who does all the household chores perfectly...even we want Ahem to just start loving her because they are married and Gopi is a sweet heart...but we have never seen Gopi making any efforts,not did she try to know his likes and dislikes...why expect Ahem to change,why not her...
On the other hand Rashi married Jigar with her own will,nobody forced her to do that,infact she broke his marraige and got into the Modi mansion...nor is she trying to be a good Bahu not a good wife...she doesnt want her husband to touch her...what is the reason for that? As kokila said that its been nearly a year that they are maried she just ignores her husband in every possible way...
I sometimes feel Ahem is at least true towards his feelings and has reasons for his behavior but Rashi doesn't...what do you guys think....

yes its true that he married her because she was choosen by by kokila its her mama's choice but she force aham no its not forcing neither gopi's fault. yes it was kokila's fault to hide some facts now if he had married her without any forcing so he must give her rights of a wife otherwise he is responsible to spoil her life

I would have to say that Rashi is definitely more heartless then Ahem. He at least has a heart to care about his mother. Rashi can't even decide how she really care about. Honestly I think all she cares about is money.

If I really think about it. Ahem really started hating Gopi most after he found out she wasn't educated and people started to make her look like a fool. Everyone contributed somewhat to get to where Ahem is in his hatred for Gopi.

Originally posted by: shobi12500

yes its true that he married her because she was choosen by by kokila its her mama's choice but she force aham no its not forcing neither gopi's fault. yes it was kokila's fault to hide some facts now if he had married her without any forcing so he must give her rights of a wife otherwise he is responsible to spoil her life

Ofcourse it is kokilas fault...she just wanted a good Bahu never really cared about her sons expectations....what really made matters worse was her illeteracy and her portrayal of foolishness ...

Originally posted by: Bhumika18

I would have to say that Rashi is definitely more heartless then Ahem. He at least has a heart to care about his mother. Rashi can't even decide how she really care about. Honestly I think all she cares about is money.

If I really think about it. Ahem really started hating Gopi most after he found out she wasn't educated and people started to make her look like a fool. Everyone contributed somewhat to get to where Ahem is in his hatred for Gopi.

yes,very true...i am not supporting Ahem here,that whatever he is doing is right or Gopi is wrong ,but i think,gopi should have given some efforts ...she did nothing..today,when Ahem was so angry and was packing his clothes...all Gopi wanted to do is give him Tea...now comeon,have some commonsense ,the person is so irritated with you ,doesnt want to see your face and u are making him drink tea...even i was irritated...this really makes things worse...Gopi needs to learn these things,know what her husband wants

Koki didn't force ahem. Even if she did,its still shen who agreed to marry gopi therefore he is heartless to treat gopi the way he is treating her. I think rashi and ahem should have got married and gopi and jigar. rahem and gogar! Lol

Originally posted by: hamzanuha

I think Ahem & Rashi are heartless in their own way.

Ahem - Despite knowing Gopi is uneducated & simple, he's cruel to her in every way possible. He says he'll abide by every decision of Koki, then conveniently forgets Gopi too is her choice.

Rashi - She mistreats Jigar, mistaking his mildness for weakness. She has no qualms about using him & his family for her & her mother's ends. She forgets that there's a give & take in any relationship. She's not averse to taking anything, as his wife, but is not prepared to give him any more importance in her life.

Totally agree Rana, they both are heartless in their own ways. I couldn't even believe that in today episode when Rashi was talking her mom -- Urmi didn't give her the birds and the bees talk. May be then Rashi would have gain sense.
I understand that Ahem was somewhat cornered into the marriage with Gopi but Rashi she literally forced herself onto Jigar..

Kokila loves her son so much that she forgot to realize anything about his future after her death. A marriage does not only mean being compatible with the husband's entire family. Just as nani says, the marriage is built between a man and woman first. Kokila never understood it....even when she was looking for bahu she wanted a girl who would not be able to seduce her son by her beauty. I don't say it....its what Koki said when the serial just started. So basically, she wanted her son to spend the life with someone he was not attracted to. Things don't go that way. Kokila was being too impractical about love and relationships. Now Ahem is suffering! I would not blame him.

both are heartless and mean to gopi .