Why Aham was rude to Momy Dear

I got the khabar better say udti udti khabar that Aham was rudest ever towards his dearest mom.
Bt why ?
Can anyone analyze his so called force on mom?

I tried to compare his attitude with koki 4 anita n 4 gopi
here he was so eager to send gopi away from him that he almost broken his mom's heart, even after knowing how much she loves gopi.

And when he was abt to convince his mom for anita he never forced koki coz his feelings for anita were never so powerful that can ride him mad.

Bt his feelings for gopi has overpowered him, he knew that. And he cant control his attitude with koki coz he was mad for his feelings towards gopi which are more powerful then for anita.

So m stil feeling he is forcing himself to keep his heart safe n secure from falling 4 gopi by sending her away.

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

I got the khabar better say udti udti khabar that Aham was rudest ever towards his dearest mom.
Bt why ?
Can anyone analyze his so called force on mom?

I tried to compare his attitude with koki 4 anita n 4 gopi
here he was so eager to send gopi away from him that he almost broken his mom's heart, even after knowing how much she loves gopi.

And when he was abt to convince his mom for anita he never forced koki coz his feelings for anita were never so powerful that can ride him mad.

Bt his feelings for gopi has overpowered him, he knew that. And he cant control his attitude with koki coz he was mad for his feelings towards gopi which are more powerful then for anita.

So m stil feeling he is forcing himself to keep his heart safe n secure from falling 4 gopi by sending her away.

very nice analysis Sadhli, but how long will he keep that up eventually he will have to admit his feelings to me he was rude as well as blackmailing kokila.
Tomorrow is going to be a hurtful day get ready for tears

Thanx suk. Thats y i m biggest AD here.

Ok Sadhli! your analysis seems reasonable. But I am strongly convinced that the CVs did not do this much of character development. They want us to sympathize with Gopi and cry buckets for her. If she was just let go from MM, it is still pitiable. But if her hopes are raised and then she has to leave, it is becomes down right pathetic and then the audience cry for Gopi and curse Aham. That is the only thing they want. So I will never credit CVs with forethought.

Whaat I don't get is if he can force his mom to send Gopi away now then why did he not put his foot down earlier and said that he will not marry anyone if not Anita.. Why did he have to agree.for the wedding and turn into such a jerk.. What was her fault and who gave him the right to ruin that poor girl's life and treat her like a doormat? We get attached even when we spend some days with an animal but Gopi is a living and breathing person.. Does Aham really have no heart? I sorry for ranting but am really upset with him..

To give him credit, he thought that his mother was bringing a modern wife. He trusted his mother. In fact, his first thought when he knew Gopi was illiterate was that his mother was cheated. He may have a point, but his execution was all horrible. that is what makes us feel even worse for Gopi.

KINSHUK LUVS ANISHA, AND HE BELONGS TO HER ALSO!!!!!!!! (i was dared by my Anisha Di to write it b4 every post tilll sunday)

Aham cannot bear Gopi...Again he used the term Ghawar...He said he believed his mom would keep up the promise and send her back....

I agree here that CV's dont have the brains to think so much and do it on screen...They are just getting the audience to sympathise with gopi...And though Gopi has proven that she is a gud Vau, she cannot prove that she is a good wife...For Aham, his wife should be well educated enough to stand equal to him...If that is the case, why doesnt he take steps to educate her???Ok this is just my remotest possible imagination...

Both Kinjal and aham need to understand what kind of background Gopi is from and being what she is is not her mistake....I would not say Aham can readily accept her and love her,,,,No that cannot happen right away...But he should start by respecting her for who she is...But to do that, he should let go off all his ego and try to see what kind of a person she really is.,...

I also think he is angry with himself for getting attracted to a girl who is against his imagination..

Anyways both the bro and sis combo has to understand that though education is an essential factor, only that is not the criteria to judge a person...Lets c..

@bee, i do agree that cvs are just making aham's character as biggest villain n gopi as crying machine so that we can feel for her.

@fiza, agree with u too bt here m just saying aham never stood against his mom even for anita, when he was in love with her bt here he broken her mom's heart as Gopi's qualities has overpowered him

Chennaigirl, u said it right he is angry coz gopi is opposite to his imagination.