If Gopi Think

If Gopi thinks she is right then she doesnt have any prob in speaking up infront of all... Then why Gopi is not speaking infront of Aham when she knows she is Fully Right. Why is Gopi taking all the abuses from Aham when she knows she had not done anything incorrect... Why she is not clearing all the doubts of Aham... If she is not able to make her place in Aham's life then she should have told Aham about what he is thinking is wrong as Gopi thinks she is his wife.....

Originally posted by: prikiashi

If Gopi thinks she is right then she doesnt have any prob in speaking up infront of all... Then why Gopi is not speaking infront of Aham when she knows she is Fully Right. Why is Gopi taking all the abuses from Aham when she knows she had not done anything incorrect... Why she is not clearing all the doubts of Aham... If she is not able to make her place in Aham's life then she should have told Aham about what he is thinking is wrong as Gopi thinks she is his wife.....

Is it because he is to be 'god' to her? How can she talk back to 'god'? (My only frame of reference here is Khabi Khushi Khabi Gham were the mom yells at the dad about not be able to look at him as a god anymore or some such dialogue. Do you know which scene I'm talking about?)

i know what ur talking about... today she stand up for what is right without fearing of anyone.... then why is she not clearing her Pati Dev doubts, i means isnt that her prime duty to do so...

ashi the situation in both the cases.
As wt hapened im temple where gopi stood 4 wts right w/o hesitating, the reason was her self belief that wtever she is telling is corect n she does nt afraid of anyone 4 telling wts right as per her views.

Bt in case of her patidev, she thinks herself a burden on aham's life, a prob 4 him, some one who is ruining his life 4 that she is loosing her self belif that she cn be a gud wif 4 him. Nd due to that she could nt stand 4 her self n cnt clear aham's doubt as she is in doubt of being a problem of his life.

he doesn't want to listen. the ladies standing there in her snake speech wanted to listen. that is a big difference. his always taunting her and abusing her verbally has made her start to think that it is her fault that he is so unhappy. Regardless of she didn't hide anything, he doesn't like uneducated people which she is.....so in her mind that automatically becomes her fault...........she has tried to say something to defend herself.....but she doesn't get a chance to utter more then a few words. So there is a difference here, she may have been confident in her truth about snakes, but there people standing also had a desire to listen (minus Rashi and her buck tooth mother)

agree taral..once again....
here all were ready to listen what she is abt to speak....but Aham is just Loking at her with his Volcanic eyes like will eat her kacha is she utters a word.....

Originally posted by: prikiashi

If Gopi thinks she is right then she doesnt have any prob in speaking up infront of all... Then why Gopi is not speaking infront of Aham when she knows she is Fully Right. Why is Gopi taking all the abuses from Aham when she knows she had not done anything incorrect... Why she is not clearing all the doubts of Aham... If she is not able to make her place in Aham's life then she should have told Aham about what he is thinking is wrong as Gopi thinks she is his wife.....

Because he has scared her has verbally and physically abused her. He has embarrassed her in front of others.. basically she is a victim. She can talk to kokila because kokila wants her to speak up and kokila knows gopi is very naive and taken advantage off

koki knows when aham had lied about his wife not at home when she was there... that day koki only introduce gopi as aham's wife....

also, Gopi thinks she is aham's wife and her uttermost duty is to keep him happy... then why she is not opening her mouth n clear herself cuz that way aham will be happy by knowing what is right n wrong even if he doesnt start to love gopi...