I need a bit of help can u help me please

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi everyone, I know this is odd to start or talk about my issue, but I needed some help from people. I am a biology major in college and I am in my 2nd year here at a university. I am in Ochem (organic chemistry), which by all means is a extremely difficult class....im sad because 2morrow I am getting my exam back and I dont know how to react. I did horrible on the first one and unsure how I did on the second one. I am soo anxious about it I can't sit still, I want to know my score.

I worried that 2morrow if the result is bad I will feel depressed and sad and feel like failure. I dont want to feel like a failure because I have put so much effort in this class and I really strive to be successful. I really need some advice in how to react to the exam. I hate to see myself fail in a class that I put soo much effort in and I am scared that if I don't do well, I won't succeed in a health-care career.

Please help. Comments are appreciated.

Thanks.

Karishma

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Posted: 17 years ago
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It sounds lame, but I get worried very easily and I am soo anxious of this exam getting it back that I can't think of anything else but the exam, I am so uptight and worried. 😕 Don't know what to do.

Please help.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karishma06


Hi everyone, I know this is odd to start or talk about my issue, but I needed some help from people. I am a biology major in college and I am in my 2nd year here at a university. I am in Ochem (organic chemistry), which by all means is a extremely difficult class....im sad because 2morrow I am getting my exam back and I dont know how to react. I did horrible on the first one and unsure how I did on the second one. I am soo anxious about it I can't sit still, I want to know my score.

I worried that 2morrow if the result is bad I will feel depressed and sad and feel like failure. I dont want to feel like a failure because I have put so much effort in this class and I really strive to be successful. I really need some advice in how to react to the exam. I hate to see myself fail in a class that I put soo much effort in and I am scared that if I don't do well, I won't succeed in a health-care career.

Please help. Comments are appreciated.

Thanks.

Karishma

hi karishma,i took my time as i thought raksha would have been ideal person to advice you but she seems to be offline .i have not understood the portion i have highlighted in red....u mean to say that you will getting your results and u r unsure about the results?

Most of us in the forum have gone thru this situation at one time or the other...u have to take consolation that your preparation has been good and you have put in your 100%.the results may be good or may not be .you have done your duty and that is what matters.exams ,the anxiey behind it,the elation on getting good marks, the sorrow on seeing bad results will be with us till we pass out of college.at that point that is our world, but later it is how we coped with that situation is what matters.

take care,if not ,join atleast, be with the party mongers in the navratri thread.😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hey we've all forgotten or maybe most of us have.. how it feels to give a test and feel tensed again..
Don't worry about it.. you tried your best.. you studied hard and what ever you've done.. You will be fine.. be positive and use your energy into doing better the next time.. You will do fine.. and You will survive..
take care..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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kashimira sweety..

I know what it is like to be insecure about things... and most off us have been going trough the same thing.... but hunny , leave it... stop thinking about it.... cause stressing yourself wont chance the out come...so leave everything in the hands off god... and trust yourself...

another thing: if you flunk tom... dont give up...and chance your attitude ... remember 1 thing.... you are/ can be the best... ...failing is a part off live... but we need to learn out off it... and work on that... and to succeed, you most learn to fight and work for it....


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Posted: 17 years ago
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wow, great words Shali 👏

im also veryy stressfull if its a school thing.
but leave it to god.
we cant do anything exept for give our bests.

and im also sure tht god will help you,
just take His name 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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thanks everyone for your advice 😳 .

Last night I couldn't sleep thinking about the exam. I was soo tense, and then this morning I went crying to my class. My teacher will distribute the tests after class, so i went to the computer lab to get online and calm myself down. 😕 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Do not worry as you said you have put your heart and soul in it. It can not go wrong.trust yourself and have faith in yourself before you have faith in GOD. As everyone says GOD only help those who help themself and in your case you know how hard you have worked..so results can not go wrong..just relax and trust your hard work :)...you will do fine. Do share with us how did it go :) Good Luck!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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One of my professor once told me, that if you truly believe that you put your entire effort into something, you should have feel bad about the outcome, because you gave it your best.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: shabari

hi karishma,i took my time as i thought raksha would have been ideal person to advice you but she seems to be offline .i have not understood the portion i have highlighted in red....u mean to say that you will getting your results and u r unsure about the results?

Most of us in the forum have gone thru this situation at one time or the other...u have to take consolation that your preparation has been good and you have put in your 100%.the results may be good or may not be .you have done your duty and that is what matters.exams ,the anxiey behind it,the elation on getting good marks, the sorrow on seeing bad results will be with us till we pass out of college.at that point that is our world, but later it is how we coped with that situation is what matters.

take care,if not ,join atleast, be with the party mongers in the navratri thread.😊

shabri thanks I would have replied. But I was with my best freind whole day today as her mom was ill and passed away. I returned home late and loged on at night.

Karishma do not worry. yes I am a chemistry major with masters in chemistry. I can tell you organic chemistry is one of the hardest subject work hard and try your best. If you are not feeling well about it join study group or go to TA's or find a tutor in worst case scenario drop it and take it again.. i wish I can help you. but it has been so long and I have forgottten all. My son too is taking OCHem at UTaustin and repeating it as he dropped it first time. So do not worry you are not alone. I too had difficulty with it.

Good luck dear let us hope you get good score this time that will make us all happy.

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