who better hubby nahar or jai my ans on 2 - Page 2

i like both of em but jai better

jai so far never been a good husband..but nahar at every turn proves that he is the best..always takes care of his wife

Jai Walia... 😳

NAHAR!!! OBVIOULSY FOR BEST HUSBAND!!!

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Nahar anyday, I don't know about Jai, b/c at first he didn't accept his wife.

After watching him dance with Kirti. Nahar seems very caring and loving husband in real life too.

I know what ur trying to say, and I agree with u to some extent, at the moment Nahar can be stated at a better husband but I would still choose JAI WALIA on the poll, and I'll explain why. Although nahar is a very supportive and caring husband, he got married to the person who he chose. U have to see the circumstances in which Jai and Bani got married in, the start of their relationship was on the basis of compromise and betrayal. I dont think Jai has gotten a chance to show his supportive and caring nature yet, I mean they haven't even directly confessed that both love eachother, yet Jai has shown some support when Bani has been insulted, for example Ranveer got a slap when he tried to insult bani in the whole Sahil-Rano elopement situation, he slapped Jigyasa when she maligned her regarding their child. He showed his caring nature by portraying his concern for her aswell as her child. He also forgave Pushkar and pia for the sake of Bani, coz it would upset her if he remained enemies with them. So basically he has been supportive, how much more supportive do u want him to be, he didnt even want to get married to her, so it would obviously take alot of time for him to start trusting her, it wasnt easy for him to believe that Bani was after his money, but obviously for the track to proceed he had to. trust is not something which u can pend immediately on someone, it is a gradual process. People usually trust the people they love, he placed his trust on someone he thinks he does not love, but only trusts, he has learnt to trust bani. ofcourse ur trust in someone is going to be questioned or doubted for that facted if ur constantly brainwashed and instigated against someone by the likes of an evil sister or nephew. Another thing is that nahar loved saloni, so when he found out before their marriage that she used to love neel, he was willing to sacrifice his love for her happiness, in the same way now that jai has found out bani used to like pushkar, he might try and unite them, and doing so after marriage is even worth the credit, this will show how caring he is (but I hope pushkar and bani dont get together).

So basically what Im trying to say is that considering the circumstances, the much love, support, concern that Jai walia has shown towards bani shows that he is a good husband, and given the chance he will prove to be a better one than he is now, better than nahar or not??? u guyz can decide, as of now he's trying to come out of heartbreak after heartbreak, but still he has not shattered.....he is a strong character, and has good appearance and acting skills, but doesnt mean Im blinded when voting for a particular poll, I vote for who I think is better in my judgement,considering who has been given the right situations etc to be supportive etc.... if nahar and jai's marrried life started similarly and they were both bound by choice, then maybe I would think otherwise......but for now my vote is to JAI WALIA..

SRY IF i OFFENDED ANY1, BUT I JUST WROTE WHAT I THINK ON THIS TOPIC, COZ EVERY1 SAYS NAHAR IS BETTER,WHICH I WONT DISAGGREE WITH AS EVERY1 HAS THE RIGHT OF CHOICE, BUT I JUST WANTED TO POINT OUT THE SITUATION FOR WHICH WE MAY THINK THIS.......EKTAAAA READ THIS AND MAKE JAI MORE CONSIDERATE AND SUPPORTIVE..!!

ANYWAY FEEL FREE TO MAKE COMMENTS ON WHAT I'VE WROTE, IF U THINK OTHERWISE THEN JUST POST WHAT U THINK.!!

i have written this in KS forum also and i know people here also give their healthy opinion about it
as this is healthy discussion to understand more and have fun more so no offence


i will still go for nahar
i know both have different setuation when they married but look at this also when neel told him that he loved saloni he was unhappy but than he talked to her and listenwhatever she has to tell him.
at the same time when jai saw bani in mandap he got angry but didn't he realize why should bani is getting married to him as she was always against pia 's marraige with jai , so why she is here in mandap what circumstansis force her to marry him , he did not let her say anything and accused her for the reason she was not reapocible . at least he shoul dhave given her chance to tell why she did that, and than had to react but no he was very angry about all thsi so he treat her badly why actually bani also had reason to get angry with him .
all the time he was teling her that he wants to divorce her and she did not refuse for that but when bani asked for divorce he was heart broken.
on that c night also he said it was mistake but did not care to ask bani what does she feel .
as i like one most important thing about nahar is whatever his poblem is he atleast clarify with that person and ask that person and understand better .
but jai just listen other people and jump on conclusion and to hide his anger and sadness he turn towards drink and i always believe that only week person take support of alcohol, instead of fighting with it and clarifying with other people discussing he just avaoid problem that's what bother me, as the problem has to be solved but cannot avoid as if you start avoiding it keep creating more truble for you.
now in miscarraige setuation he heard people and and i know he was heart broken but atleast he does not even felt that he should go and meet with bani or pushy as he was there, i know he was totally shatered and any body can break down in this kind of setuations.
i think he is very cofused person he does nto know what he feel or what he want .
as so many times he support but same times he didnot listen to her side of story too, on so many matter he has insulted her very cheaply no good husband can do that.
when he was giving all kind of priority to roshani he did not think what will bani feel and when bani did somethign he was totally heart broken and jaidas mode
if he has really trust her he would have seen the fact behind bani's tears, when he first told truth and than denied about it
though i tell you i like his character very much and he is very good actor he is my no. 1 favaorite actor. so without any comparision you ask me who is best i will go for jai but here we are talking about better husband that's why i will go for nahar

still i am telling all this comaprison is for better husband and that's why i choose nahar ,
my heart still start bitting veyr fast when i see jai walia .
so i knwo all jai lover willbe behind me with broom .
this is just my opinion and any body can disagree with it and happy as we are doing here healthy discussion as i always believe in that
so no offence you can write what you feel i willbe happy to hear

Nahar because he cares for his wife Saloni where as Jai always insults his wife Bani.
But Jai is attractive one though his acting skills.

I think nahar

cause jai trust jigyasa bout tat bani had an abortion even though he knows shes evil