saloni's favourite-a laughing stock life - Page 2

Saath Phere is the basis for love & trust. We may like 100s of people but we love once person unconditionally. When one says ' love you ', it means you accepting him/ her in total with all good or bad - just loke a mother loving her child. In my opinion, communication is very important. Saloni should have waited for Nahar's explanation. When Nahar let's her go with Neel, who supposedly her past love, Nahar 's past not even alive and Saloni doesn't know all the facts. I feel Saloni NEVER trusted Nahar on the other hand Nahar trusted her blindly. In my opinion, its Saloni who is at fault. But, most of the soaps on ZEE are female oriented=> Nahar is NOT leading role but more of supporting role and he will be proven wrong and made to apologize to Saloni when Saloni is shown as woman with very huge heart to forgive her husband (who is at no fault). We, the viewer, just watch & enjoy.

I don't think anybody is wrong among Saloni & Nahar. Saloni always asked nahar the secret behind white color & purani dyodhi, but he kept hiding, until the last moment, from there kuki kaki got her best chance to win over nahar-saloni relationship. give saloni some time & i m sure she will get back home, she surely loves him, but she is confused if nahar loves her or kirti. nahar kept on visiting purani dyodhi, always got mad at saloni on the mere mention of it, or white. nahar confused her by not telling the comlete story, how long should she waited for, she was insecure & left. i think nahar should go, tell her the truth & bring her back home, but i m sure this will come, but not soon, wouldn't that be the end of the serial??

Originally posted by: kbakshi

I completely agree with Mrs. Asha Rao. You need a patience to understand the situation. you do not take the words of one person. You got to find out yourself what is the truth. Saloni has shown her immaturity. She should have asked Bhabo, Tara and Brijesh and analyse the truth. She can solve other peoples problem but she failed to solve her own problem.Kuki kaki is outsider to her. Brijesh and Tara has shown more confidence in her. She should confide with them before she takes any step.

hai bakshi, u hv expressed your views in better way than me. It is a question of marriage life before taking a final decision to be with nahar or leave him. she shd hv discussed with tara [being a good trusted member right from the day she entered in their family] and ascertained the facts from them about different story given by nahar and kuki kaki. but kuki kaki very cleverly taken vachan from saloni that she will not reveal about her [kaki] the story she said about nahar. . thanks for supporting my views.

Originally posted by: bangaloreu

Saath Phere is the basis for love & trust. We may like 100s of people but we love once person unconditionally. When one says ' love you ', it means you accepting him/ her in total with all good or bad - just loke a mother loving her child. In my opinion, communication is very important. Saloni should have waited for Nahar's explanation. When Nahar let's her go with Neel, who supposedly her past love, Nahar 's past not even alive and Saloni doesn't know all the facts. I feel Saloni NEVER trusted Nahar on the other hand Nahar trusted her blindly. In my opinion, its Saloni who is at fault. But, most of the soaps on ZEE are female oriented=> Nahar is NOT leading role but more of supporting role and he will be proven wrong and made to apologize to Saloni when Saloni is shown as woman with very huge heart to forgive her husband (who is at no fault). We, the viewer, just watch & enjoy.

Bangloreu, u hv mentioned a good valid point, the story shd not be a female or a male oriented but shd justify who is at fault. I am sure the ending will be shown as saloni sympathetically consider nahar's request to forgive him [who is at no fault] and go back to him as if she has forgiven even a criminal. I support nahar bcos he requires sometime to gain full faith on saloni [she too has hidden so many things from him] and the tragedy which has taken place in his life may require some time to forget and it is in the hands of saloni to support him [from that trauma].basically ladies shd me more matured and understanding .bcos whole day after spending a hectic work in the office husband expect some relief in the house and chandni made his life hell and saloni being good wife all these days shd not hv shown so much curious about his past which will hurt him more instead of healing. she shd thank god for giving a good husband like nahar who was very caring where as she was crying in her parents's house the humiliation she suffered at the hands of her sister and bhabhi's illtreatment and sometime from her mother also.

Asha Rao I 200% agree with you....

Saloni is behaving like a very ungrateful lady,forgetting the support of her loving husband on every difficult step of life...looks like she is really dumb and have double standards.
I really disappointed with her behaviour.

Originally posted by: dotraj

Ms.Asha Rao

I 100% agree with you.

Saloni has every right to hide whatever she wants and she is angry that Nahar didnt tell her abt his past

Who will marry a girl who runs away to some hotel without informing anyone? It is Nahar who believed her and married her

Inspite of knowing Neel's and Saloni's past love, he was the one who supported her to sing @ the Governor's party.

Inspite of Kaki's dhamki, he remained silent but always supported Saloni during Bua's marriage

Nahar has directly & indirectly helped Saloni so much and Saloni instead of being thankful she is running away from him.

I just hope she realises her mistakes soon and gets some flashbacks where Nahar has supported her and joins him back.

dotraj, thanks for supporting my views.

Originally posted by: ramas

Hai ramas, for your kind information I am 60 yrs old lady , I have a son,married and also have a grand son. We all hv seen how saloni's parents with great difficult got this alliance. In some life there are some past incident and one shd learn to live in the present and look forward toward future instead of doing postmortem of a persons' life. by gone are by gones. as long as nahar is caring and loving her she shd restrict her interference in digging his past life. she shd hv some patience. she has been cheated by kuki kaki which I presumed earlier when she planned these two to send them out before her birthday. kuki kaki has taken the advantage of her curiosity in knowing about that darwaaza and saloni became the victim. kuki kaki is more dangerous than kaveri. she has become again a burden to her parents as it is these old people are facing lot of problems saloni added more problem to them . she shd be more diplomatic if not shrewed otherwise misleading information has spoiled her life due to communication gap between nahar and saloni.

I am also married and have 17 year old son. A trust is a must in any marriage. if your partner wants to know part of your life. You should satifies her curisoty. Should not get angry or refuse to answer. that will make another person more curious. I want know my husband's past regardless of whatever it is. Your past affect your future and present. It haunts you too. True one should live in present to be happy. But some people can't help it.

i still believe that saloni is not 100% to be blame. I donot understand women standing against women.

1. If nahar loved her so much he should have told her. then this will not happen.

2. saloni will not be burden on the parents. on the contrary she will help her parents get back their house and will support them.

3. Why send kakisa to Saloni back. why can't Nahar , Tara or brijesh go.

4. Nahar has to explain everything to her. and bring her back for the love of her.

When your own husband lies about other woman in his life even if it is his past girl friend that hurts alot. it feels like who can you trust. saloni asked him about this secret first to Nahar then she went to kakisa. They knew that someone gave her the key to dodi that someone will tell saloni everything. So why refused to reveal the secret. Also how Nahar freaks out when he sees white or paiting supply any woman will be scared and suspect the worst. I am not against Nahar. he loves her alot and he will do anything for her.

Hai ramas ,your remark on me that how a women standing against a women is not agreed to. just bcos I am a women it does not mean that I shd support a women even though she is at major fault compared to the ratio of less percentage of mistake done by nahar. Even now I stand to my word that nahar may be at fault but it is very less compared to the mistake of saloni. In other words saloni's mistake is 80% percent and nahar's is only 20%. U hv mentioned that u wanted to know whatever your husband's past appears to be little dominating/nagging type on him [which will be misused by others to mislead on husband as kaki sa did]. we cannot expect our husband to give minute to minute progress report of his past or present activities. MY husband does not like some colours and I too dont like some colours but we never get into that deeply to investigate why he does not like it. He purchase saree for me the colour which I like and I give him gift of his colour choice. even the day today cooking also some hv choice why shd we get into argument and make him unhappy. Once I purchased my favourite colour shirt for him and he bluntly refused to wear it as it is not his kind of taste and gifted to somebody. Instead of arguing with him I felt bad that I made a mistake of making him unhappy with the choice I made. just bcos u love your husband that does not mean it gives licence for women to investiagte the matter why he dislike that colour.etc etc.

In one way I agree with u that women are against another women. That is the category of kaveri and kaki sa . though saloni acts some time extra smart still nahar has been very supportive to her like for eg her going to hotel, police arrest of saloni in the honey moon place[that too when she is newly entered in to nahar's life] she was sent to jail and the whole story were published in newspaper, hiding shubra's pregnancy to nahar [[they came to know at the time of marriage] her father lost job and her brother though he got a job in nahar's office still he was ungrateful to his sister and blamed her that bcos of saloni he is not getting the job as he is branded as brother of a murderer, and saloni trying to save her sister's prestige [shubra] from that ugly events and inspite of all these nahar has been supportive to her. no husband in real life will support so much.She can understand the pain of her family members and protect /hiding the facts to her husabnd then why not she protect nahar in the same way and remain in their house.saloni is discriminating the events of tragedy of parents to protect and indirectly exposing to public that nahar is cause for leaving the house. Is it fair on her part to act in this way. There are people who wanted to break their happy married life and kaveri could not succeed in breaking it though their family faced some humiliation but kuki kaki succeded in her plan. but ultimately who became the laughing stock and made their happy life a mockery. it is saloni. she could have remained in their house for some more days to find out who is telling the truth about chandni.

Finaly I would like to add one thing that it is not saloni who has to forgive nahar to accept him but it shd be nahar who shd forgive saloni for the blunder mistake she made listening to kaki's word for granted and made nahar's life a more controversial. I wish saloni shd be made to realise her mistake making nahar life more hell than chandni by listening to the story said by kaki and shd feel guilty . and ask apology from nahar. this is my view whether u agree or not. .