saloni's favourite-a laughing stock life

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I am surprised to read many post supporting saloni and blame nahar for the mess.In my opinion saloni is used to the life of getting humiliation from her bhabhi kaveri and jija sa in her in laws. she could not withstand the god given happy life to enjoy for long time. she expects nahar shd tell her everything bcos they had saath phere. has she ever asked her conscious sharing her past or discussed her problem to nahar. the answer is no. She is irritated on nahar that he did not tell about his past life [of chandni] did she ever tell about neel to nahar about their love affairs to nahar . it is rewa who said to nahar and poor fellow he even arranged for marriage of saloni with neel..Just imagine a newly wed lady after pravesing[entering] in their house what r the humiliation they faced in the society. [like saloni going to hotel on wedding day and was in jail for few days. when nahar asked saloni to tell the problem she was not ready to say instead she requested to nahar not to insist the reason and she will tell the truth when right time comes. [till now the right time has not come ] did she tell about shubra's pregnancy to nahar and she was fooling nahar that her friend is admitted in the hospital.
what was so urgent to open the darwaaza on birthday when the party was going on. secondly she did not trust her husband what he said about chandni but trusted that kuki kaki [who once upon a time was hating her]. she is protecting that womanizer jija who is betraying his wife and she never tell about him to anybody.which is being witnessed by her everyday. but she is trying to investigate nahar's past and above all her curiosity is how chandni died.In what way chandni's death is concerned to her, nahar is loyal and caring to her. why she did not try to investigate who is telling the truth about chandni bcos nahar and kukikaki says different story about chandni. she shd hv got correct information then take the decision to quit that house. In my view she shd have been supportive to nahar who has under gone terrible trauma with chandni. she has a fancy of making her life a laughing stock in front of kaveri and made nahar's life also a laughing stock in front of jija sa who wants to take revenge on nahar. a very ungrateful lady. Inspite of her bad personality she got such a good life in their house but she ruined her life on false presitige.
She is asked a question to her parents that anyyay karnewlaon se anyay sahene aur bura hai.then why did she bear the insult of kaveri when she blamed saloni that she stole 4 lakhs from her almirah. kyon saloni anyye sahiti thi.why she did not proove that she has not stolen anything from kaveri. when nahar is in need of her support she ran away.Is it not disgusting. let's see how the story develops further now. but absolutely no sympathy for saloni. she shd hv given some more time to nahar to tell his past as he gradually gaining faith in her. but she never discuss any matter openly with nahar to find out a solution to her problem but when nahar was in problem she left him half way.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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that so true.but i think kakisa was pushing her towards the door.but i think when you have somekind of problen with your husband you cannot think about anything elas.saloni is such a good natured person like devi in real life you donot found these kind of characters.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think Asha rao You like nahar and prejudice against saloni. Asha are you married? if you are not then you will not understand how one feels when she finds out that her husband cheated her and hid so many things from his past life. You don't see any difference in marrying to widower vs. unmarried man. Saloni married Nahar knowing he is unmarried. Your husbnad is your life. A minute detail about your husband you find from someone else will hurt you more. Nahar should have told her if he loved her so much. Saloni loves Nahar so much too and she will forgive him eventually.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

I think Asha rao You like nahar and prejudice against saloni. Asha are you married? if you are not then you will not understand how one feels when she finds out that her husband cheated her and hid so many things from his past life. You don't see any difference in marrying to widower vs. unmarried man. Saloni married Nahar knowing he is unmarried. Your husbnad is your life. A minute detail about your husband you find from someone else will hurt you more. Nahar should have told her if he loved her so much. Saloni loves Nahar so much too and she will forgive him eventually.

Hai ramas, for your kind information I am 60 yrs old lady , I have a son,married and also have a grand son. We all hv seen how saloni's parents with great difficult got this alliance. In some life there are some past incident and one shd learn to live in the present and look forward toward future instead of doing postmortem of a persons' life. by gone are by gones. as long as nahar is caring and loving her she shd restrict her interference in digging his past life. she shd hv some patience. she has been cheated by kuki kaki which I presumed earlier when she planned these two to send them out before her birthday. kuki kaki has taken the advantage of her curiosity in knowing about that darwaaza and saloni became the victim. kuki kaki is more dangerous than kaveri. she has become again a burden to her parents as it is these old people are facing lot of problems saloni added more problem to them . she shd be more diplomatic if not shrewed otherwise misleading information has spoiled her life due to communication gap between nahar and saloni.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Ms.Asha Rao

I 100% agree with you.

Saloni has every right to hide whatever she wants and she is angry that Nahar didnt tell her abt his past

Who will marry a girl who runs away to some hotel without informing anyone? It is Nahar who believed her and married her

Inspite of knowing Neel's and Saloni's past love, he was the one who supported her to sing @ the Governor's party.

Inspite of Kaki's dhamki, he remained silent but always supported Saloni during Bua's marriage

Nahar has directly & indirectly helped Saloni so much and Saloni instead of being thankful she is running away from him.

I just hope she realises her mistakes soon and gets some flashbacks where Nahar has supported her and joins him back.


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Posted: 19 years ago
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Me too! I wish Saloni realizes her mistake.

Nahar has always been such a supportive and mature person/husband !

She was ready to marry that padma thakurain's son because of her parents and society and would be probably kicked around the house by that wicked lady if she was married to him..
She doesn't realize the difference between Nahar's fly. and kaveri/kuki kaki/padma thakurain.. That's litle stupid..
Hope they get back together soon..

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hai ramas, for your kind information I am 60 yrs old lady , I have a son,married and also have a grand son. We all hv seen how saloni's parents with great difficult got this alliance. In some life there are some past incident and one shd learn to live in the present and look forward toward future instead of doing postmortem of a persons' life. by gone are by gones. as long as nahar is caring and loving her she shd restrict her interference in digging his past life. she shd hv some patience. she has been cheated by kuki kaki which I presumed earlier when she planned these two to send them out before her birthday. kuki kaki has taken the advantage of her curiosity in knowing about that darwaaza and saloni became the victim. kuki kaki is more dangerous than kaveri. she has become again a burden to her parents as it is these old people are facing lot of problems saloni added more problem to them . she shd be more diplomatic if not shrewed otherwise misleading information has spoiled her life due to communication gap between nahar and saloni.

I am also married and have 17 year old son. A trust is a must in any marriage. if your partner wants to know part of your life. You should satifies her curisoty. Should not get angry or refuse to answer. that will make another person more curious. I want know my husband's past regardless of whatever it is. Your past affect your future and present. It haunts you too. True one should live in present to be happy. But some people can't help it.

i still believe that saloni is not 100% to be blame. I donot understand women standing against women.

1. If nahar loved her so much he should have told her. then this will not happen.

2. saloni will not be burden on the parents. on the contrary she will help her parents get back their house and will support them.

3. Why send kakisa to Saloni back. why can't Nahar , Tara or brijesh go.

4. Nahar has to explain everything to her. and bring her back for the love of her.

When your own husband lies about other woman in his life even if it is his past girl friend that hurts alot. it feels like who can you trust. saloni asked him about this secret first to Nahar then she went to kakisa. They knew that someone gave her the key to dodi that someone will tell saloni everything. So why refused to reveal the secret. Also how Nahar freaks out when he sees white or paiting supply any woman will be scared and suspect the worst. I am not against Nahar. he loves her alot and he will do anything for her.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I completely agree with you asha rao. She should have shown more maturity
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi All

I think Saloni had got Shock of her life when she got to know abt. Nahar's Past. And definitely for a wife , Husband's love and Trust are the Most important things.

Now here the difference ... When Rewa told Nahar abt Saloni. Saloni had already planned that Neel as her Past. But Nahar has kept her dead wife in his Present too.
And aprt from that all other family matters lije jija sa flirting with maid and Shubra's pregnancy were not such big incidents in Husband-wife relation as compared to emotional relation of husband with somebody else...

Nahar has done everything as a good husband and he loves Saloni a lot ... But the thing is if we love somebody then we need to share everything with that person ...but if Past is bad ... don't share it but in that case if u don;t want to share ..take that out of ur Present life too

What I think is The biggest mistake that Nahar did is he has not get rid of his Past ... and kept it as part of his Present and had not shared with his wife and Saloni has full right to know abt his husband's present

The most hurting part of any wife is Enotional attachment of her husband with some body else... and again Nahar as not told her the full story .. that why he killed her wife .. what was that incident...

Thats' what I think :)

Anu

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi All

I think Saloni had got Shock of her life when she got to know abt. Nahar's Past. And definitely for a wife , Husband's love and Trust are the Most important things.

Now here the difference ... When Rewa told Nahar abt Saloni. Saloni had already planned that Neel as her Past. But Nahar has kept her dead wife in his Present too.
And aprt from that all other family matters lije jija sa flirting with maid and Shubra's pregnancy were not such big incidents in Husband-wife relation as compared to emotional relation of husband with somebody else...

Nahar has done everything as a good husband and he loves Saloni a lot ... But the thing is if we love somebody then we need to share everything with that person ...but if Past is bad ... don't share it but in that case if u don;t want to share ..take that out of ur Present life too

What I think is The biggest mistake that Nahar did is he has not get rid of his Past ... and kept it as part of his Present and had not shared with his wife and Saloni has full right to know abt his husband's present

The most hurting part of any wife is Enotional attachment of her husband with some body else... and again Nahar as not told her the full story .. that why he killed her wife .. what was that incident...

Amnd at the time when a person if going thru all this mental tensions ... his / her braine starts thinking abt all what we listen like what Kakisa said .. saloni belived her ... she needs some time

may be now she will rethink abt whole scenario and realise that Nahar loves her alot :)
Thats' what I think :)

Anu

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