Nani's motif for coming

Nani was brought in the house to bring wisdom to the Bahus and Take care of Malti. Not to ruin the happiness of the family by creating misunderstanding and unnecessary tension. Seriously this old lady is worse than Malti's mom. I understand where she is coming from but she needs to grow up as its 21 Century. What do you guys think?

I am with you on this. I remember before nani ma came Toasty was so happy that nani ma will come help her with some work in the house but to me it feels like nani ma is just giving orders and passing taunts all the time making life more difficult for everyone especially Toasty. She could have easily made kadha and laddoo by herself. And she is the one who should be responsible for bringing food/water/kadha etc to Malti, why Toasty or Nitika. If they were to do all these things then nani ma is not required.

We can continue to say that nani ma has a good heart and good intentions but I am not seeing them getting translated into anything positive (talk about positive energy in the house😡). In fact, it's just bringing in more stress and sadness.

Originally posted by: MamtaB

Nani was brought in the house to bring wisdom to the Bahus and Take care of Malti. Not to ruin the happiness of the family by creating misunderstanding and unnecessary tension. Seriously this old lady is worse than Malti's mom. I understand where she is coming from but she needs to grow up as its 21 Century. What do you guys think?

It's just the way each individual choose to look at things...everyone's perspective will be different. There are so many characters in a show and each one of us will relate or like one character better than the other depending upon our taste, upbringing and principles in life.

I personally have very low tolerance for conservatism and dictatorship. I see nani ma as an egotistical person who first defines what is right and wrong and then wants every one to follow her accordingly. If not, she will be brutally critical, mock you in the face and use her veto power (not earned but received by forceful demand taking advantage of the situation) to take decisions against your will.

As I said in another post elsewhere, just because one is older doesn't automatically makes them wiser too!! I can't help noticing the difference between nani ma and dadaji...both are from same era but dadaji has molded himself so well to modern times yet maintaining his wisdom and maturity.

As for nani ma's comment on Toasty "tumhare ma-baap ne kuch sikhaya nahin" (something like that?) In my opinion, Toasty's parents especially her dad have really brought her up well, to come from a small modern family and not only adjust but bring happiness and life to C-parivar is highly appreciable and is no small feat!!

I agree that Nitika not cleaning up after herself is bad manners but that doesn't mean she should leave her job. In a similar situation, my mom will probably be mad at me for doing that and ask me to wake up 5 minutes early so I have that extra 5 mins to clean up after myself but she won't tell me to stop going to college/job for this reason.

Haven't we seen other men in C-house leaving their plates on dining table when they finish with breakfast and leave for sari shop in the morning???

Originally posted by: abc113

I agree that Nitika not cleaning up after herself is bad manners but that doesn't mean she should leave her job. In a similar situation, my mom will probably be mad at me for doing that and ask me to wake up 5 minutes early so I have that extra 5 mins to clean up after myself but she won't tell me to stop going to college/job for this reason.

Haven't we seen other men in C-house leaving their plates on dining table when they finish with breakfast and leave for sari shop in the morning???

Originally posted by: abc113

It's just the way each individual choose to look at things...everyone's perspective will be different. There are so many characters in a show and each one of us will relate or like one character better than the other depending upon our taste, upbringing and principles in life.

I personally have very low tolerance for conservatism and dictatorship. I see nani ma as an egotistical person who first defines what is right and wrong and then wants every one to follow her accordingly. If not, she will be brutally critical, mock you in the face and use her veto power (not earned but received by forceful demand taking advantage of the situation) to take decisions against your will.

As I said in another post elsewhere, just because one is older doesn't automatically makes them wiser too!! I can't help noticing the difference between nani ma and dadaji...both are from same era but dadaji has molded himself so well to modern times yet maintaining his wisdom and maturity.

As for nani ma's comment on Toasty "tumhare ma-baap ne kuch sikhaya nahin" (something like that?) In my opinion, Toasty's parents especially her dad have really brought her up well, to come from a small modern family and not only adjust but bring happiness and life to C-parivar is highly appreciable and is no small feat!!

Originally posted by: megustajalebi

That's up to Chedi. He can either remind her to take care of her responsibilities, so no one has a chance to complain or he can tell her to quit her job.

Chedi had/has nothing to do with it. He didn't have problem with Nitika leaving the plate behind and after Toasty gave him her promise, he didn't have any second thoughts about Nitika going to work until of course nani ma came up with her own version of situation.

And as I said above, why have double standards, when men in the same family are allowed to leave their plates behind on the dining table before leaving for work in the morning why can't Nitika do the same??

i think only those can understand nani ma's action who has lived with old people like her...and experience how they work and how they are...

and about nitika's case i actually agree with nanima's WORRY...that right now all seems fine but in future...if nitika does not start taking her own responsibility things can go out of control...its not bad she is workign out...but if not in family work atleast her personal work she should take care about...