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i am a little disgusted with the spineless behaviour of ved. i am now thinking in this household where often people are questioned labbeled asked to pick sides at any moment , you need to have support. toasty suffered when tej chose family over her, and other than that she has been the supprot system , tej has actaully stood up for her before marriage -wanting to get maried, her job, asking for more money for her, pashu - toasty malti comparing, apart form the vote he has stood up and really i feel tej toasty have a love stronger than any couple in the family so could manage these hitches.
howevercoming to ved, he humilaited nikki parents out of pressure, the whole family pressuriesd him to admit love, family aided to seek apologise, couldnt do in his own no own words, just ilu isnt enough, no apology to parents, family went, i ddnt see him. when pita came back he is silent, crying, had toasty not stopped him he would have phoned her nikki the same night and refused!!
even after help form brothers he stands and just crys, no courage to stand for the owman he professes to love?
yesterday even a day after nikki assured him that i am with you in this we will toghter , will be your strenght he isnt motivated, tej had to push him ,while nikki her parents were humilated a second time he just stood numb, nikki dad was abs correct , is this the guy who would actually protect, support his daughter? is this love when you can bear to see the girl her parents humiliated as and when humanely possible??
even after nikkis parents departure, strange toasty ddnt even g after them to apologise, dadaji ddnt say i gave them my owrd also that if chedi expects ved to keep his word, dadaji expects chedi to keep dadjis word to nikki parents nope none of that .
only tej had the guts to actually call a spade a spade, but now i dnt want any one to fight veds fight, i feel it is better or nikki to be alone than to be married to someone who dsnt even for once think of her humilaiton who justwallows in self pity and loves being in the victim mode, she dsnt deserve such a spinelsess person.
am sorry if too harsh but that the way i feel ved chartacter is being butcherd now. even if i accept he is that cant say anything to elders, repsect, adarsh, bhagwan maa baap phlosophy, yet what about the pyar he has for nikki, then niki is always second, she will always be after family, she isnt family?
an educated relatively modern girl will she be able to live with the feeling that although my hubby loves me a lot he is so simple that he will never in my life speak a word for my support, my izzat is not his duty, i have to bear the insults as he will do so, is she getting married to tej and toasty that both have a duty to speak protect support her?
toasty was so suspicous of the sudden change now why isnt she questionong moving with the flow?
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