But then isn't that exactly like the chaturs - As long as you understand us, agree with us, we will behave well with you otherwise we will yell and scream. So her dad agrees with her, so she is ok with him but her mom doesn't so she is subject to tantrums.
The trust issue is obviously there but toasty is eligible for minimum respect. Who gave them the right to throw out toasty from the home ? After marriage the girl considers her sasural her home ... No one has the right to evict you from your house ... If someone can do that, then it means it was not your home to begin with ... They didn't listen, didn't talk except make accusations and throw her out.
... And for that Toasty should be angry at them not her parents. The chaturs don't trust women. They are essentially punishing her for malti's past actions. Why should she jump around in hoops to earn respect and make up for something that happened when she wasn't even there.
These are not children. They are grown up adults. Why should toasty excuse their despicable behaviour in the name of understanding but refuse to understand her mother's anger or her sister's pain.
Toasty may say the right words now and then but she is essentially a typical doormat. She doesn't mind doing all the work, getting verbally abused as long as at the end of the day somebody gives a few scraps of kindness.
You want to be Mahaan for your sasural ? Fine ... go ahead! ... But that does not mean you get a free reign to rant at your mayka. If you cannot answer back to the people who misbehave with you then you have no right to turn around and yell at the people who defend you.
I agree with both the view presented here but I am more inclined towards Bips. I mean if I were in toasty's position I would not be a doormat for my sasural people to walk on whenever they want. I am a human being and I expect minimum courtesy from my sasural.
When a girl gets married then there should be a minimum trust and respect that the sasural people should bestow on the newly married girl. Fine the Chaturs had issues with women in the past. But did they even ponder as to what might have gone wrong there. Nope. Instead all they do is to emotionally torture(talking rudely and purposefully taunting people for any and every small mistake of theirs counts as torture to me) their new bride and voila what does our bride do. She takes every insult and every rude comment saar ankhoon pe. You know sometimes I hate these things in Indian serials. It is like they reinforce the mentality of Indian common people that the new daughter-in-law should bear every hardship with a smile and earn the trust of her in-laws. Hey what about you people cutting some slack for the new girl. No sireee, the DIL has to slog long hours, put up with indifferent behavior, pacify everybody in the house for no mistake and don't ever put forth your wish.
And the moment Sudha or Dimple take Toasty's side and try to defend her rights which she should have done in the first place, she is like all mahaan and she scolds them. Why what for. Because they are speaking for you when you should have done it. At this point I would be majorly disappointed if they show Toasty crawling back to her sasural to do their menial work without the family giving her the proper apology. Let me see what the creatives show then.
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