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Posted: 18 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: ani11

Thanks Palliviji😊

I had heard a story when I was young that there was this man who treated his old father in a very bad manner.he put him up in a servant's room,gave him old rags to wear and some broken utensils in which the old father ate his food.

One day the old father died and his grandson kept the old rags and the utensils.When his father asked him why he was keeping those rags the child said that daddy when u will be old like grandpa i will give u these rags to wear and these utensils to eat ur food because that is how old people live.

Our children learn from us.


Ha maine bhi yeh story padhi thi kahin, ya pata nahi koi hindi movie me dekha par bahot achhi story hai.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh man...i guess such ppl exist...i remember couple of years back my gramma was reading the paper and it had such story in it...the father had gotten the son married and the son and wife werent good to him, treated him like a slave. when they had children they moved him to the kitchen or something b/c they wanted his room for the new child. one day the wife got mad and told her husband that she cant handle all this and he needs to take the father out of the house, he is slow and a burden on them so the son took him out the lake. when he was carrying him to the lake the father pleaded to let him go and said i also did this to my father and look what happend to me, you are doing the same, take me back home, stop this now or your son will do the same to you one....i dont exactly remember what happend but im pretty sure he brought his father back home on hearing that!

i think its true in many cases that ek maa baap dus bachon ko paal poss ke bara karte hain magar dus bache ek maa baap ko badi umar mein nahi sahara desakte!
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Posted: 18 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Jaadoogar

Ohh I missed this nice poem, Anitaji it is so true....and last lines are so painful.... I saw my father when he had to work after retirement but told me to concentrate on study only. You know Anita ji aaj nahin to kal, 30 yrs age mein nahin to 45 yrs age mein samajh to aataa hai ke humne kaya kiaa apne parents ke lie aor kaya karna chahiye ya kaya karna chahiye thaa... Jitni jaldi yeh samajh mein aa jaaye apne lie acha hai kyunke woh insaan lucky hai jisse parents ki zindagi mein samajh mein aa jaaye aor kucch acha karne ka maoqa mil jaaye warna zindagi bhar ek kami rah jaati hai.

yess very true Ahmed,if u are not able to do anything for ur parents the guilt remains with you till the last day.

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Posted: 18 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: paljay


Ha maine bhi yeh story padhi thi kahin, ya pata nahi koi hindi movie me dekha par bahot achhi story hai.

my father told me this story.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh man...i guess such ppl exist...i remember couple of years back my gramma was reading the paper and it had such story in it...the father had gotten the son married and the son and wife werent good to him, treated him like a slave. when they had children they moved him to the kitchen or something b/c they wanted his room for the new child. one day the wife got mad and told her husband that she cant handle all this and he needs to take the father out of the house, he is slow and a burden on them so the son took him out the lake. when he was carrying him to the lake the father pleaded to let him go and said i also did this to my father and look what happend to me, you are doing the same, take me back home, stop this now or your son will do the same to you one....i dont exactly remember what happend but im pretty sure he brought his father back home on hearing that!

i think its true in many cases that ek maa baap dus bachon ko paal poss ke bara karte hain magar dus bache ek maa baap ko badi umar mein nahi sahara desakte![/QUOTE]

thats absolutely true

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Posted: 18 years ago
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yaha bahut emotional chal raha hein..ani nice thread..
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Posted: 18 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Chalavanth

yaha bahut emotional chal raha hein..ani nice thread..

haan yaar parents ki baat ho to emotional ho he jaata hai.

Thanks and kuchh likho bhi to😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: ani11

haan yaar parents ki baat ho to emotional ho he jaata hai.

Thanks and kuchh likho bhi to😊

koshish kerti hoo..ani..emotional honein ki itcha nahi hein yaar...kyoki

jub bhandh toot gaya too baad aa jaayegii .....😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all.

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. -- Mother Teresa

Edited by ani11 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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DETERMINATON

In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with the Long Island. However bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.

Roebling could not ignore the vision he had in his mind of this bridge. He thought about it all the time and he knew deep in his heart that it could be done. He just had to share the dream with someone else. After much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up and coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built.

Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome. With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge.

The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to walk or talk or even move.

"We told them so."
"Crazy men and their crazy dreams."
"It's foolish to chase wild visions."

Everyone had a negative comment to make and felt that the project should be scrapped since the Roeblings were the only ones who knew how the bridge could be built. In spite of his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever.

He tried to inspire and pass on his enthusiasm to some of his friends, but they were too daunted by the task. As he lay on his bed in his hospital room, with the sunlight streaming through the windows, a gentle breeze blew the flimsy white curtains apart and he was able to see the sky and the tops of the trees outside for just a moment.

It seemed that there was a message for him not to give up. Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife.

He touched his wife's arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers again. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.

For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife's arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man's indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their team work, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.

Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.

Often when we face obstacles in our day-to-day life, our hurdles seem very small in comparison to what many others have to face. The Brooklyn Bridge shows us that dreams that seem impossible can be realised with determination and persistence, no matter what the odds are.

Even the most distant dream can be realized with determination and persistence.

Edited by ani11 - 18 years ago

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