Originally posted by: Swar_Raj
Always remeber, sometimes a friend who helps you can be your enemy too as he did not let you struggle. So always take healthy criticism in a positive way😛
That depends on the definition of friend. And yes you are right, if criticism is positive one should take it the right way.
However, sometimes immature behaviour, inflated ego, vindictiveness and negative outlook of life make people come out and criticise what they feel is right.Unfortunately that cannot even be termed as criticism... it becomes then character assassination.
One positive criticising friend is any day better then these negative people who have done nothing but harm. I guess they need the positive criticising friends more.
You know i person can be matured at 10 years also...and one can cross 40 and still be immature.Its i guess the genral outlook of life and how they are brought up that makes this difference.
I am glad Diwakar, or Sameer or Sanchita have the right set of parents who know when to hold the hand, when to let go and when to rebuke.
Thank you very much but I would still stick to what i said. You see its my POV.😃
Swar Raj ji..i do not know your age..but i would highly appreciate if u refrained from calling me kiddo... I guess I am past that age now.thanks.