Replies from the Dev Team : UPDATED - Page 7

Teenindia-USA,

Appriciate your paitance and writing skills.....mind-blowing..... 👏

This thread has really raised the TRP rating of the forum. 😉
Joke apart, Why do we visit the forum? this is completely our own choice. We share views, experiences, jokes, happiness, sadness, knowledge and do some brain exercise by participating/posting/creating threads. Its like a family, it does not necessary that all the time the family would run smoothly. there has to be difference of opinion, conflicts..... among the members; love, friendship, affection..... among the members; does it mean that such human emotions will lead to division or favourism/groupism? It should not and it has not. Members have expressed their concerns (plz do not term thm as allegations or charges)and the moderators have responded. Now plz avoid judging who is right or wrong. The forum is running on certain rules/regulations/guidelines; let us respect these and understand the role of mods.
Plz please forget what had happened and why had happened; lets start afresh. We will fight, we will debate but within the specified guidelines.
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I tried to be quiet but I think now I can't anymore. I don't understand how we get warnings etc. I also got so called warning from Priya sometime ago after my commnets on retro, which I consider very rude to me. Everyone knows that I never use any bad words for anybody. If chatting is the problem all other do more than that and fortunately the time I am given warning (thanks to priya not with warning meter) in those days I wasn't chatting either. Only thing I can see was that day I did say something to criticize the selection of songs on retro special & couple of days ago not supported Sunitha's comeback.

Looks like we are not supposed to criticize anything here that's it. I am sure I will get warning this time with meter. But I think I am up to the point to say let's all just leave who are not happy from here ourselves before we are froced to be out.

I am not a good writer so want to make clear no hidden meaning here whatever I said I mean direct. and please don't try to misinterprate my words for anything which I didn't mean.

I am sorry to say this at this point but could not see it happening to other member. I have complete faith in 'sach jyada dino tak chupaya nahin jata. aur ek darwaza band hota hai ishwar do darwaze aur kholta hai'.

Thanks to all the work that development team & Mods do for us. Thanks to the forum that I got few good friends here. If anything happens that we are out from forum we can always keep in touch outside of the forum.

Thanx for the replies Bhasker, I appreciate 😊

I feel now the Dev team know what are the reasons whether for misunderstandings or for the mistakes........of members or mods...... I feel we will change for the better to make the forum enjoyable to all 😊

"Teenchonki Jai Ho..."

Hum app ke sath hain.... 😃 😃 😃

Ok since all the answers are given by Bhaskar........ Now I will clap for Adi and Jaya's remarks here
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Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Ok since all the answers are given by Bhaskar........ Now I will clap for Adi and Jaya's remarks here
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Abhi: I have just begun catching up on all that has been posted here but just hoped that you read BiDi's post saying: " If someone makes a pun/joke/ comment/ dig, if you do not like it, report to the moderators or ignore the comment. Please do not reply back/ quote to that comment/ post, unless you agree with it.

Those with sarcastic humour/ caustic humour/ funny witty comments, please take care not to attack members or make members target of ur comments. "

I hope you are not making any sarcastic remarks with any puns......😉😆 ....oh and ofourse, no puns intended on my part either .......😆

My updated post

Hi I just want to say I like Jaya's post, and adding points with my view:

Also i have not read thru all the pages something I mention is out of place I apologize, yet after reading some pages wanted to voice my opinion:

As a Neutral Party,

Since Im not a part of any particular group expect indianforums.

Questions to ponder?(off topic)

why are some of us taking this virtual life so serious?

(I know i myself havebeen in past on line alot yet not just 4 sa re since I visit many sections.)

why are mods/members sodefensive? is it some power struggle?

I mean mods they work 4 free and we members are here 4 free.

The mods 4 most of there part try there best(they are humans and to "err is human')and like Members, here 4 most part are looking to relax and leave there worries and enjoy.

Is it so hard to coexist? Our there egos here?

The topic was started to say why people left? and what shouldbe done to bring greater participation? That should havebeen the goal not these unnecessary bickerings that I see. Also, I think we got abit off topic, when we started joking(which is ok since luv masti myself). Yet we should have stuck to the topic, and had masti elsewhere(since thats when I saw things were going haywire)

Groupism:(just my opinion right or wrong)

Its like one set of people say something another set get upset. Also, I know some are saying there are not groups, yet as an neutral observer(in sense one whose not in any group) there 4 sure our groups, which is nothing wrong since these people have similar tastes and enjoy(the idea is to enjoy and why not, those who dont like what a group or topic has to offer than just go into a topic that interests u instead of complaining)

in sa re some have said that certain people are not allowng others, well if u take part they will slowly 4 sure take u in, and lots of new people are part of that group. (again, its more that people either do not like the topics or have nothing to offer so feel left out) so why not make a topic that u like and sure people with similar tastes will join)

In short Variety is needed,

Respect is neededby members and mods and that is something which is earned

co existence-we need to get along as members and take crictism in stride(that is if there is a topic on a singer etc u like u should handlr the neg view as well) I know when there were things on Paresh I took them in stride only time i would say anything is if the person was getting out of line saying things on Paresh that had nothingtodo with singing since I respected those whodid not like his singing. (yet saying something on his teeth, hair mother in law..is irrevelant)

attacking members/ridiculing them should notbe allowed( since ones self respect is important) now if we are saying as teasing and humor amongst pals thats ok.

Well these are some of my views, and if anythung repeated, or makes no sense I apologize

ps/ these are general statements I have no issue with any mod, member, etc... (I only say something when I see that people)

note: I have nothing against any member or mod

so all have a nice day and some words of inspiration

A new day has just begun
time to bask 'neath the sun

Yesterday is dead and gone
to a new day you belong

Rejoice and be glad
there's no need to be sad

Leave your burdens behind
allow only good to fill your mind

Make the best of this new day
only good will come your way

Have A Good Day!

Originally posted by: Surpremi

Abhi: I have just begun catching up on all that has been posted here but just hoped that you read BiDi's post saying: " If someone makes a pun/joke/ comment/ dig, if you do not like it, report to the moderators or ignore the comment. Please do not reply back/ quote to that comment/ post, unless you agree with it.

Those with sarcastic humour/ caustic humour/ funny witty comments, please take care not to attack members or make members target of ur comments. "

I hope you are not making any sarcastic remarks with any puns......😉😆 ....oh and ofourse, no puns intended on my part either .......😆

u hv started just catching .......pls read through........ I never make fun of friends unless I get consent........thanks