Mohini, please check your pm. I have answered your pm.
apparaohoare,if Mohini is instigating, does that mean that you too jump into the fray and start insulting back? Being sarcastic is making you as bad.Please do not indulge in petty fights to get back at other members. Leg pulling and bantering does not give anyone the liscence to trade insults.
Sorry Minnie ji,
My policy is " An eye for an eye". I don't care if the the whole world goes blind due to this. But sorry cannot follow the Gandhian Principles here.
This is nothing new from Mohinis. So, what did the Mods and Global Mods do about it. NOTHING. So please don't make empty promises. We have heard it all.
Sometimes, it is better to cross check facts and then speak Mr. Rao.
What facts are you talking about Priya? I have the facts. This so called esteemed member has been sailing between 40% and 60% warning for the last 2 months. Atleast thats what you all have been feeding me. Does that mean that she was a saint for the last 2 months. HELL NO. So what actions were taken. Please reply. Why isn't 60 going up any further. If instiagating a fight does not get someone a warning, then shouldn't I do that too.[/Quote]
Appaji, You yourself say that the member is sailing around with 40 to 60% warning, and yet you yourself so far don't have any warning....does it not speak volumes? We don't like to hand out warnings or ban people at the drop of a hat. No one has been blameless here. Provoked or otherwise, terrible comments and pinching sarcastic rebuttals have come from both sides. The number has been so enormously high that many a times even before we can chance upon such a post, it is buried under 100 other such posts. We have been imploring everyone, if you have a problem, contact us. We don't have a magic wand, but we can help and do want to help.
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Rules apply equally to all and will be done so.
Could not understand the true sense of this statement. Do you mean to say that I was getting special treatment till now. 😉 [/Quote]
Errr.....I am sure you don't really want to find out 😆. We wouldn't want to shatter your illusion 😉
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Dont want to follow Gandhian principles, fine. But you dont need to give insults and stoop down to levels of those who trade insults.
So what is the solution, accept everything? I did that too. In that thread someone openly called me a looser. And my answer was" OK, accepted. I don't want to start a war with the Einstein's of this forum", and thats how Einstein came into the thread. What else do you all expect us to do. Kiss their ***.[/Quote]
No, but we don't expect you to get down to that level either. Mohinis was wrong, but so was Surma bhopali and others who started the whole thing. This is a vicious cycle. Once started, all you can do is go round and round and get mucky. And unless you all get a kick out of it, I don't see how this is benefitting anyone other than leaving a very bad taste in the mouth.
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Street fights are best left there. If anyone finds any posts which is instigating or insulting in nature, please pm any Mod online who will help you out. This will help in keeping the fun in the section. Inst that what we all come here for.
Don't even get me started on this. I have stopped "Reporting" or PMing to the Mods. I have seen the outcome. Whenever I PM any mods, thats only for chatting. [/Quote]
And then you say we don't help.....is that fair?
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So lets rock the section.
What else can you expect from a PRO HR MOD? 😉 😆 [/Quote]
Hmnn...well, as it happens, I know for sure that other than Jem, Priya, me, Vijay, all are staunch Debo fans. Bhaskar, I don't know, but I think he too likes Debo a little better than Vinit (hats off to you Bhaskar, even I don't know whom you like, and you guys call such mods biased? ). We try our level best not to bring that onto here most of the time. It's not fair. But what you all forget is that we too are members here first and then mods and we too have a right to like/dislike someone. For example, I don't like HR ( though I love some of his compositions - music has little to do with the person himself), I like Debo, I too get annoyed when regional comments get tossed up and I want to write about it. I want to discuss what my pov is. But when I come here, all I see is fighting, personal attacks and an awful atmosphere. Had I been just a member, I might have just left. But being a mod, I try to do what I am supposed to do. And that is not only me, but every other mod on the forum, more so with the others who are a regular here almost 24/7. And being crucified for that is an extremely painful thing.