Go on Moderators! Ban Everyone! - Page 5

Originally posted by: adwarakanath

Thanks for the support. The decision to leave is entirely yours. I will not force you.

Abhi, I'm elder to you by quite a few years and I make my own decisions. Have never been forced into anything. The decision is entirely mine to leave.

I have loved being a part of the forum, loved interacting with a lot of people on the forum and have made a whole of friends apart from knowing more about music.

UNFORTUNATELY, I NEVER KNEW THAT THE MOMENT I WOULD TURN INTO A GOLDIE, IT WOULD BE CLOSE TO THAT MOMENT WHEN I WOULD BE SAYING GOODBYE TO THE FORUM AS WELL .....

YES IT'S UNFORTUNATE.

Originally posted by: s.priya

Thank you. What misbehaviour are we talking about.

dont know about you, but as I see it IF rules dont permit swear words like female dog being used against a fellow member. Four letter words starting with F are also not permitted. Those who use such words are given warnings and if they persist in continuing, are banned.

These rules are equal for all.

This forum is meant for discussion. So if you like Debo and I dont, I have as much right to say so, as you do. If you want to argue with me on the merits of my likes and dislikes, we can do it, staying within decent behaviour and language.

Is it necessary in a debate that if you do not agree with someone, you must call the person names.

What if someone called you names. Would you like it. Would you like it if someone used such words for your female relatives. Think about it, Sir/ Madam.

We are here to help you all. That all includes everyone on the forum, be it AD or anyone else.

We knew AD had apologised, so the ban imposed by the system was reversed.

We did not want to bring all this out on the forum, in deference to his age and in keeping in mind the fact that we all here like each other, have fun posting here and did not want this incident to mar the fun in the forum.

All this is understood and accepted. My question is then why didn't you forget the whole thing as well? Why do we see this Ban _Removed_member Apologised...thing publicised on his AV?

We logged on after all this was past, but we still got to know about it bcz of the AV. Abhi did not tell us any of this, it was your Av. When you say, he has apologised, Why not accept it gracefully and move on?

Originally posted by: fm_qazi

Simplyskud,

I already talked about this with Mod in PM, they are telling it will take 15 days to remove it automatically. So AD will be shown in this forum as culprit for 15 more days. I do not know what kind of development team which can not change it. Actually the mod who put this should apologize to AD, If I were in AD place, I would take that phrase very sersiously because it is character assasination.

Agree whole-heartedly. This is nothing but the worst form of derogatory character assassination I have ever seen on any forum. I'm a member of a number of forums and this looks to be one of the worst managed ones .... and this is the plain truth.

Originally posted by: s.priya

Thank you. What misbehaviour are we talking about.

dont know about you, but as I see it IF rules dont permit swear words like female dog being used against a fellow member. Four letter words starting with F are also not permitted. Those who use such words are given warnings and if they persist in continuing, are banned.

These rules are equal for all.

This forum is meant for discussion. So if you like Debo and I dont, I have as much right to say so, as you do. If you want to argue with me on the merits of my likes and dislikes, we can do it, staying within decent behaviour and language.

Is it necessary in a debate that if you do not agree with someone, you must call the person names.

What if someone called you names. Would you like it. Would you like it if someone used such words for your female relatives. Think about it, Sir/ Madam.

We are here to help you all. That all includes everyone on the forum, be it AD or anyone else.

We knew AD had apologised, so the ban imposed by the system was reversed.

We did not want to bring all this out on the forum, in deference to his age and in keeping in mind the fact that we all here like each other, have fun posting here and did not want this incident to mar the fun in the forum.

I know rules are equal but application of rule is the main point. I know what did AD told, even AD realised in the same post. I do not support waht AD told. But I want to ask you, Are you guys not partial? How can mod see those topic where there is HR bashing and keep sleeping where there is Debo/ID bashing. We stopped even replying those people but still they kept trying us to drag in fight. What type of action did you take against the initiators?

Originally posted by: simplyskud

Sorry mods for ignoring the pms and not replying to them. Now that everything is right here and in the open, why cannot we have the entire discussion here and not on PM ??

Bhaskar, if I would have ignored your PM, I wouldn't have got Abhi here. Same goes for you, priya. I had raised the concerns here, I wanted the answers here as well.

Apart from that, I still haven't got an answer to why the threads were 'trashed' when they could only have been closed ?
Why is that weird signature about apologizing and ban removed still appearing for Abhi. You ask us guys to get over it when you should be the first ones to lead by example. By making that siggy viewable, you expect us to forget and forgive everything ???

Duh !!! Ridiculous !!!

I prefer discussing here too.

Originally posted by: musicpulse

All this is understood and accepted. My question is then why didn't you forget the whole thing as well? Why do we see this Ban _Removed_member Apologised...thing publicised on his AV?

We logged on after all this was past, but we still got to know about it bcz of the AV. Abhi did not tell us any of this, it was your Av. When you say, he has apologised, Why not accept it gracefully and move on?

When a ban is removed after the apology of the member is accepted, the words are left there so that we, as members of Dev. Team know why and how the ban came to be revoked. This is normally removed in a couple of days time.

We have accepted his apology very gracefully. We have absolutely nothing against him.

We like him as much as we like any other member here. He is a knowledgeable person and we dont deny it at all.

Will pm you later, rather than continue this on the forum.

why so much imp to AD? he is not angel😉 just like rest of the ppl who have been banned. Mods are just doing their job. They became mods for a reason.

Amogh8188: smartestdesikid is still around. look at his posts before you become vocal. grass always looks greener on the other end.

Originally posted by: Bhaskar.T

They are also closed. Check your facts before making these statements.

AD is not banned. He is very much here on the forum too. Stop all these things now.

Originally posted by: adwarakanath

Thanks for the support. The decision to leave is entirely yours. I will not force you.

Abhiji,

I have talk to Priya on that issue in details last night my time we went very detail on all those points, i guess we have come to a point now they also have to show little more respect to all and again abhii, please we want move ahead let step forward. We all love you please stay with us here.

Love ARR

Originally posted by: simplyskud

Sorry mods for ignoring the pms and not replying to them. Now that everything is right here and in the open, why cannot we have the entire discussion here and not on PM ??

Bhaskar, if I would have ignored your PM, I wouldn't have got Abhi here. Same goes for you, priya. I had raised the concerns here, I wanted the answers here as well.

Apart from that, I still haven't got an answer to why the threads were 'trashed' when they could only have been closed ?
Why is that weird signature about apologizing and ban removed still appearing for Abhi. You ask us guys to get over it when you should be the first ones to lead by example. By making that siggy viewable, you expect us to forget and forgive everything ???

Duh !!! Ridiculous !!!

Lets get one thing clear. It is true Abhi is a very good memebr as to posting music related stuff. I have no doubt about that. But that does not mean he can use the language he used in that message. Those 4 and 5 letter words are just not allowed here on IF. Just because he has good music knowledge he can't be allowed to post anything and then get away with it.

Next about the tag. Well he was banned and then unbanned. So it is quite natural that the tag will remain.

Originally posted by: s.priya

When a ban is removed after the apology of the member is accepted, the words are left there so that we, as members of Dev. Team know why and how the ban came to be revoked. This is normally removed in a couple of days time.

We have accepted his apology very gracefully. We have absolutely nothing against him.

We like him as much as we like any other member here. He is a knowledgeable person and we dont deny it at all.

Will pm you later, rather than continue this on the forum.

Thank you Priyaji for responding...yes I would appreciate if you can discuss it with me and lets get this over with. I will try to get full co-operation. Communicating is the only way out of this crisis.