Respecting Elders - Page 5

Originally posted by: rare2005

respecting elders also means not using them to extract votes.

respecting elders also means not expressing your half-baked loved in public in front of your parents.

respecting elders also means not yelling at a much older lady.

Vinits walk out was a disrespect to ID .. he was the one who called him his son and gave him Rs50/-.. So we all know what sanskar he got.. and they are the one we will talk about not debos wife or mother as they are not in lime light.. when u want lime liht u have to face critisism.. their fmily never

Originally posted by: *JaLpArI*

Originally posted by: writer

Vinits walk out was a disrespect to ID .. he was the one who called him his son and gave him Rs50/-.. So we all know what sanskar he got.. and they are the one we will talk about not debos wife or mother as they are not in lime light.. when u want lime liht u have to face critisism.. their fmily never

Originally posted by: tina2006

listen you can justify all you want. I don't think unbias opinion is going to come out of you. you are going to keep on justifying something which is unacceptable. For me what is wrong is wrong and what is right is right. you are going to keep on argueing for the sake of arguing.

excuse me...i never took anyone's side...maybe u din't read what i said...i said neither of them were right...

Originally posted by: *JaLpArI*

i dun think it's rite to say that ismail started this...he walked out because he was just totally heartbroken after nihira's exit...and when he saw more injustice being done on debo he jus cudn't control himself...

but what the three did din't have anything to do with any kinda injustice...if they really felt sargemapa was unfair then they din't have to do sucha tamasha on public television...they cud've jus quit without all the hype...but whatever they did was also disrespectful too..here everyone is saying that vandana was disrespectful...but whatever vineet...himani and hemu did was also disrespectful to debo...ismail darbar...the north east indian ppl...the public sitting in front of them...and all the ppl watching them...which was much more disrespect than what vandana had showed...

Originally posted by: *JaLpArI*

i dun think it's rite to say that ismail started this...he walked out because he was just totally heartbroken after nihira's exit...and when he saw more injustice being done on debo he jus cudn't control himself...

but what the three did din't have anything to do with any kinda injustice...if they really felt sargemapa was unfair then they din't have to do sucha tamasha on public television...they cud've jus quit without all the hype...but whatever they did was also disrespectful too..here everyone is saying that vandana was disrespectful...but whatever vineet...himani and hemu did was also disrespectful to debo...ismail darbar...the north east indian ppl...the public sitting in front of them...and all the ppl watching them...which was much more disrespect than what vandana had showed...

just a quick point...u said that if they had to quit they shudve left without the hype, well in that case y did ID leave in such a hype and with all that drama, i think it can be argued both ways but im not taking any sides because i feel that there is probably a whole other side to this that we dont even know about because we are shown some edited version and we base all our views on what they want us to see. and belive me i dont have anything against ID cuz i do think hes the best judge becuz he seems to be the most genuine

i agree with mdroy 110%

Originally posted by: mdroy

Firstly, the viewers only get to see what zee shows them.

Secondly, all three disrespected Debo as he is older but treating him like
that on camera.

Assuming the worst case scenario that Vandana called vineet a bloody
wanna be Rafi clone (which would be rude but accurate), so what? Who
does vineet think he is to assume that he is a better singer than Debo? if
he had said this to Rajiv, this would make sense though still too late since
you already signed up for the rules of this contest.

I would be shocked to hear Vineet's father suggest that Debo should stick
to singing in a brothel in Lucknow but who knows what his motives were?
Perhaps he himself is a frequent guest of these places and would
appreciate Debo's fine talents there.

From almost the beginning of this contest, I have thought the Vineet was
a little wierd and then as he got mroe smug and obmoxious, I blamed HR
but perhaps I should have looked closer to home. Maybe the apple did
not fall from the tree.

BTW, I did not even know that vineet had a father in the picture. Same for
Debo. These guys have been harping about their mothers for so long, I
thought that both of their fathers were dead or perhaps the parents were
divorced.