Respecting Elders - Page 3

Originally posted by: jay_delhi_guy

Whatever Debuz wife has done was fair enough.

I feel its vinit who should know how to respect Debu.
Debuz wife was just pointing this mistake to Vinitz guardian and its really really appreciated.

HR/AS and the other 3 should feel sorry and appologise for what they have done.

If this is sanskar of vinit's father [mother excluded bcos she maintained her decency by asking apology to public] what else can we expect from vinit. He has showed his true colour to the extent of teaching ID a lesson to make walkout. Atleast ID has a reason to leave the show but what about vinit. what is the reason to make walk out, Is debojit not entiltled to reach top one when he geneuinely got good number of votes from his region.

Originally posted by: asha rao

please dont give half part of story which will suit vinit ,the other side of the story you have not seen I think, here is the other half part of the story just see once again the repeat telcast on monday 10.30 morning. vinit's father was telling her ask your husband to sing in the kotah .vinit's father not only said the word kotah ,he also said that 'you bloody keep quiet' for which vinit's mother was controlling vinit's father saying ' woh aurat hai thameez se baat karo' then he kept quiet. debo's wife lost temper when her husband is being humiliated in this way so she said that yeh log apne aap ko mohd rafi samaj rahe hai .This raction from her is spontaneous feeling. it was not an unparliamentary word, why shd vinit's father use the word ' bloody' it was wrong on the part of vinit's father.

although i agree that vinit should not have said anything about debu and i understand that vandana got emotional at this, i think people need to get one info correct while ur justifying ur postitions that vinits father did NOT say bloody to her, and vandana rather said bloody and vinits father said "dont say him bloody" and then vinits mother told him not to argue with her and im not saying either party was correct even though i feel that yes vinits mom said a bit too much and went very low however we should keep thte facts straight.

Originally posted by: mp_142

So if Debojit's dad will say something to him or his wife then she will yell at his dad too.I m just saying that why does he show off that he respects old people by going to Ashram.
someone has also said that Vinit should apologise to Debo. FOR WHAT for walking out then ID should be the first to apologise.By walking out he has insulted mentors decision,other participants,the stage and top it all the music coz he knew that debojit was not singing well and only people who don't understand music voted for him.

u can't compare elderly people at the ashram with vinit's parents!...these are people who have no1 else in the world (or any1 who cares enough at least)...that's like saying that people who work with underprivileged kids should never say anything to rude children who r misbehaving 😕

and as far as the "elders" issue is concerned...let's not forget that debo is 12 years older than vinit (i personally think that debo is probably older than 29 even!)...so in that case- maybe vinit should show a little more respect to debo

Originally posted by: mp_142

So if Debojit's dad will say something to him or his wife then she will yell at his dad too.I m just saying that why does he show off that he respects old people by going to Ashram.
someone has also said that Vinit should apologise to Debo. FOR WHAT for walking out then ID should be the first to apologise.By walking out he has insulted mentors decision,other participants,the stage and top it all the music coz he knew that debojit was not singing well and only people who don't understand music voted for him.

A elderly person who has no respect for ladies and uttering the word 'bloody' he deserve to be retorted like that only. visiting ashram is to help old people and not listening to their abusing language from them just bcos they r old people it does not give licence to them to utter any unparlimentary word.

If you think that debo is making show by visiting ashram in that case let me ask you is vinit also did the show by visiting the street children showing affection for them and helping them . this is also another type of show of vinit

Here the question of music does not arise, when AS and HR gave 6 marks for debo [JL gave 9 marks] then he was angry that these two are planning to remove debo also. so he was angry but still he was sitting till the last performance was over. whereas these three walked out before the show began. that is wrong on their part whether u agree or not that is your problem. [ID has always given more marks to most of the participant and never made kanjus like HR and AS.

ok vinit's parents saying that stuff to vandana is just as ambiguous as HR using the f* word for hema's mom. as far as one could c on the telecast, it was vandana going wild. true, she had her reasons but none of the 3 ever said that they thought o fthemselves as a better singer. i personally don't think she should have behaved the way she did, even if she was offended. especially considering the fact that vinits parents were right in front of her. if she can get offended for debu don't u think his prents could also get offended for the stuff she said about their son. i thnk its very possible htat vandana was the first one to start, considereing how emotionally charged she alwaysss is. she might have gone through rough times but who there hasn't. the culprit is gajji as he should have edited this out. i don't quite get what he wanted to show with it. debu is supposed to be the hero of the walk out spisode isn't he? i guess thats the anti- climax 😉

Originally posted by: asha rao

A elderly person who has no respect for ladies and uttering the word 'bloody' he deserve to be retorted like that only. visiting ashram is to help old people and not listening to their abusing language from them just bcos they r old people it does not give licence to them to utter any unparlimentary word.

If you think that debo is making show by visiting ashram in that case let me ask you is vinit also did the show by visiting the street children showing affection for them and helping them . this is also another type of show of vinit

Here the question of music does not arise, when AS and HR gave 6 marks for debo [JL gave 9 marks] then he was angry that these two are planning to remove debo also. so he was angry but still he was sitting till the last performance was over. whereas these three walked out before the show began. that is wrong on their part whether u agree or not that is your problem. [ID has always given more marks to most of the participant and never made kanjus like HR and AS.

people please get your facts straight---vinits father did not say bloody to vandana, and if you dont believe me watch the video carefully, the word "bloody" came out of vandanas mouth first and vinits dad said "dont say him bloody"...im just clarifying, not taking any sides. 😊

the fact is both vandana and vinit's parents were defending their loved ones...and watever happened that day on the sets was bound to make ppl angry...especially the relatives of the ones participating...

but if vinit's dad actually said that thing abt the *kotha* then that was very shameful coming from an elder person...and going to a girl who's prolly his daughter's age...if ppl say that whatever vinit, himani and hemu did shud be forgiven because they're 17...then vandana shud be forgiven too...because she's much younger than vinit's parents...

and as for debo showing so much respect for the elderly...than i think he's respect is genuine...and not just to get votes...you can't compare his respect for the elderly to what vandana did...because that's a completely different situation...

i agree with you. i feel lot of debo's supporters are finding excuses for vanadana disturbing behavior. I have seen episode on line and i did not see vinit insulting debo other than the walk out. out of all the relatives debo's wife need to practice what her husband preaches...all that ashram and helping and respecting the elders. in all this debo is the sorry person out of all because he is stuck in a awkward situation

Originally posted by: bollywood_queen

there are many topics already open about this...in those there are various other sides to the story including possible provocation by vinit's parents

from what i have heard so far (haven't seen the episode yet), i think that vandana should have just tried better to control her anger...however, we can't really comment on this without knowing the full story

what the heck are you talking about. it seems like debo's fan's don't have guts to face the truth. debo is a contestent and vinit & debo are of same generation you need a some sort of reality check here.

Originally posted by: bollywood_queen

u can't compare elderly people at the ashram with vinit's parents!...these are people who have no1 else in the world (or any1 who cares enough at least)...that's like saying that people who work with underprivileged kids should never say anything to rude children who r misbehaving 😕

and as far as the "elders" issue is concerned...let's not forget that debo is 12 years older than vinit (i personally think that debo is probably older than 29 even!)...so in that case- maybe vinit should show a little more respect to debo