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roshaeldsouza91

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: faayey

Beautifully written Namz.. 😉
I absolutely agree..bichari Sanchi, she is going to be very stressed from now on..no wonder she wants to get a divorce an all
Now i think that the real prem kahani starts after he leaves her😍

@faisa- omg faisa you used hindi words... wow thats gr8

hmm absolutely correct... the actually prem kahani(lubb story will start now..)😉

good faisa keep it up... 😃

Edited by roshaeldsouza91 - 13 years ago

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Faisa

@Faayey

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: roshaeldsouza91

@faisa- omg faisa you used hindu words... wow thats gr8
hmm absolutely correct... the actually prem kahani(lubb story will start now..)😉

good faisa keep it up... 😃

Really hahahaha that's awesome yaar thanks Selvi i feel super cool now😆

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Faisa

@Faayey

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: rashsharma40
namz awesome post yaar .. I also believe indu should let her go... let sanchi miss him and he doesnt have to change or do anything extra for her . it is just tht sanchi needs some space. aur indu mujhe paata hai tumharey dil ka haal ... pyaar mein toh gade bhi pari lagte hai . hehehhe

Good point Rashmi..

but then again i dont think he will actually be able to let her go so instead he might just stop showing that he cares for her and instead hides his emotions behind the curtains😭 i think that should be enough space to give her time to think outside the box on what really matters and those who really care about her😊 besides with Tiwari on her back trying to get the house back i wonder whats going through Sanchi mind😔

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Shridevi Gaddam

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

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Namz,

If I can have my say, I would never have wanted it.

But you know what? the way you put your thoughts, suddenly it brought to my mind, the Raskolnikov and Sonya relationship in Crime And Punishment. The circumstantial similarity is not there at all, but the relational context is there.

Raskolnikov wants Sonya to treat him as man even when he tells her how he committed the murder. Why of all people he chooses to go for Sonya. Because societally she doesn't have a status, she is a fallen women and can therefore have a heart to condone him, understand him as she is a kind person which he gets to know through her father and what a societally privileged person cannot do for him, Sonya can accept him easily. Raskolnikov, the thinking man he is, spots a partner, companion for himself quite wisely. He doesn't want anyone to join him from the so called moral world and so chooses Sonya from the amoral world to be his support system in the event of his breakdown.

But once that part is done, the confession, sympathy and commitment of support from Sonya, Raskolnikov, does a volte-face. Now he shuns himself from her in seeming antipathy towards her. Her presence instead of giving support to him, burns him with remorse. Whatever he wanted out of Sonya, when she actually gives in her truest spirit and in all kindness, the existence under such kindness becomes abhorrable to him. His health breaks down completely due to his realizing remorses. And yet her staunching support, makes him confess his remorse before her, who was supposed to be the last person ever before whom he was going to accept that what he did was wrong.

Likewise, yes; Indu became serious and started feeling how he is out of place in Saanchi's world when he was staying at her house. And now he has all mixed notions towards Saanchi like Raskolnikov. Consciously thinking something else and unconsciously thinking the exact opposite. If what you suggested, is gonna happen, then it will be like Raskolnikov's unconscious winning over his conscious mind with Indu going away from Saanchi.

What may trigger it in present circumstances. I guess the forceful marriage was to have Saanchi accept that Indu is her lord of her destiny now. But when Indu sees the fiesty woman he married, bowing down to him, not because of his lordship qualities, but because of societal pressure, he may feel it stabbing enough to completely break the relationship where something else outpowers him. Indu is too brazen to take things in compromised manner !!! Negation is absolutely going to be his rather than going for sharing the booty with someone else.

I know I am not showing any redeeming points for Indu and instead have chosen to boost his ego with my desired outcome. But guys who will want redemption? one who has sinned. What sin has Indu committed ? None. Forceful marriage. Pyaar aur jung mein sab jaayez hota hai. After war, there can be remorse at the outcome, so much that one may want to renuciate everything. then let it be so! Indu has not harmed Saanchi so much that she cannot have her own life started. If she became a consequence to Indu's Ishq, then my friends, here are the great words from the greatest poet of all Mirza Ghalib.

Ishq par zor nahin. Hai hai yeh woh Aatish Ghalib

Jo lagaye na lage, bujhaaye na bane

Edited by shridevigaddam - 13 years ago

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suki11

@suki11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Awesome post Namz!

I agree with everyone here who believes that Indu has to give some space to Sanchi for her, to realize his worth and begin to appreciate both him and his love. Which is going to pretty hard for him to do when they are compelled to live together! But I suppose its not just physical space Sanchi needs from him, he needs to leave her be both mentally and emotionally to.

Firstly he has to stop this whole 'dharampatni' business, and just call her by her name, he doesn't need to lower his own self-worth by adding any titles to her name either.

Then when he sees her struggling with any problem he again needs to leave to her own devices to solve it. He married a strong-willed, feisty woman who craves independence, like a blind man craves to see the sun, so he needs to allow Sanchi to assert herself. She is perfectly capable of looking after herself in most situations, and Indu needs to prove to Sanchi that he both knows and respects this fact.

If Sanchi requests aide from him, only then should he come to her rescue, and again only if she is not asking him to do something that demeans him or their marriage. Indu might struggle to stand by when Sanchi is in difficulty but sometimes with people like Sanchi, by doing nothing for them you are doing the most for them.

Plus Shri I love your take on INSA! I wonder if we will have a twist on the Raskolnikov and Sonya scenario though. Maybe later in the show Sanchi will do something that makes her fall in her own eyes, and feel unable to turn to anyone but Indu. And when he supports her, and proves that he still loves her, she will feel ashamed at how she treated his love for her.

Because you know personally even though I adore Indu's character, I still nevertheless agree with a lot of things Sanchi has done to him. Yes they were cruel, manipulative and vicious things but they were mostly a fitting reply to his own harsh crimes against her.

The one thing I have hated about Sanchi though is her treatment and arrogance towards his love for her. No one or anything is more precious or important then the power of Love. And Sanchi had no right whatsoever to undermime and degrade Indu's love for her. I still can't believe that she acts as if she worth more than the value of his love for her! How anyone can be arrogant enough to think that their own personal value is higher than emotion and power of love is beyond me!

At the very least the most I want Sanchi to acknowledge at the end of this track is that she was wrong to dismiss Indu's love so carelessly. She should understand that is was no worthless stone to hurl into the gutter, but was instead the most precious gem in the world. Because that is what Love is; the most priceless and valuable thing in the whole entire world.

And Indu needs to have it drummed into his head, that one should never play with another's self-respect. As by doing so you are at the end of the day only lowering and scarring your own self-respect.

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Namita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Brilliant Shri, you are always welcome to add whatever is on your mind...lol
You know the last part you wrote, I love coz that's exactly what it should be. Indu changing on a subconscience level, yet keeping all his qualities we love intact. I guess we will find out in the next few weeks!

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Namita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Bravo Suki! Looks like the general consensus is to leave Sanchi alone. Give her emotional and mental space...after all...let it free, if it comes back its true love, if not then never was!
Agreed with all, he should totally stop with the "Dharampatni" title...its like adding fuel to fire. It will burn everything. Suki, I too have never liked Sanchi's arrogance that she is above love. She doesn't practice what she preaches...what an oxymoron!!!

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suki11

@suki11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

@Namz, what you have said is 100% true! Indu himself needs to have faith and belief in his love for Sanchi! If he believes that his love is true he should let her go, and if it is indeed as powerful as he says, then Sanchi will definitely find her own way back to him!

As of now everytime Indu refers to her as his wife, or states that he cares for her Sanchi either smirks with self-satisfaction over her hold on him, or glares at him as if has cursed at her!

Another thing I hate about Sanchi is how blind and dumb she can be in regards to Indu sometimes. She keeps taunting him saying that it is 'written clearly on his face that he is afraid of loosing to her', but she doesn't actually see what is so obvious for the rest of the world to see.

Yes Indu is afraid, but not of loosing to her, he is instead afraid of loosing Sanchi herself! Ugh she can be such a fool sometimes! Why else but the fear of losing her compel Indu, to rush a marriage with her? Why else would he force her to marry him, and thus bound them together for seven lifetimes? Why else would he say accept me as your husband and I will leave this election battle?!

My God when will Sanchi wake up to this fact!

@rash I forgot to say before, I love your prediction of Indu challenging Sanchi! Rather than see him go all abusive and insulting like before, it would be awesome to see Indu get his true revenge on Sanchi. As nothing, will sting or drag her down more, then falling hopelessly and helplessly in love with Indu!

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Namita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

I've always said Sanchi doesn't have a single romantic bone in her body! She is ignorant and very egotistical when it comes to love. I can't stand when she belittles Indu's love for her. Hence the reason I get so royally pissed at her. Love is the most precious thing in the world yet she things she is above it. No offence but most people who have that attitude loose out in romantic love in their lives. What did Sanchi think she could do without a divorce? Legally she is married, whether she likes it or not. Companionship, is important later in life. left alone, lonely is pretty sad.

Edited by Namita.Murti - 13 years ago