Meri Nahin toh phir Kisi aur ki bhi Nahin!

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Hi all, we have all been on an emotional roller coaster along with Indu and Sanchi for the last two weeks. We have been hurt, mad at Indu, hated him, loved yet at the same time we are proud of Sanchi for standing up and being her strict self. Whatever the misgivings these two character's have, one thing is certain, we love our INSA. On that note, my post for today is about their passionate "hate" story. The concept here is "opposites attract". We all INSA fans keep saying that they are a perfect match for each other, but of course they don't know that. They are too busy with their tu tu mein mein.

They have such intense hatred going on, what is going to happen that both start realizing the potential value of each other. One thing is certain that both will see each other through. Can't help romanticizing about it. Sanchi issi bahane, will be thinking about Indu. Yet, today Indu didn't seem happy. Why? Is his conscience kicking in without him realizing it? Is it bothering him somewhere that uska pyaar adhura reh gaya, his love is incomplete? Would anyone be happy in that instance? Indu does have giant ego, which Sanchi deflated pretty badly but is it reason enough to start hating her. How is it he can't see all the wrongs he has done? I guess I have answered my own question, the day he does, it will pave the road to his redemption

Indu said "Agar meri nahin toh phir kisi aur ki bhi nahi"….for a while there I thought that he was just obsessed like a spoilt brat but then I realized he is a "Deewana". He doesn't believe in "letting go, if she comes back she is yours but if she doesn't, she never was". He just knows one thing that he loved her and she betrayed him. I know what he has done is wrong but I am trying to figure out his love and emotions behind all that rough, tough exterior. Imagine the extent of his love if he doesn't want Sanchi to ever marry to even think about someone else.

I absolutely love Aniruddh Dave aka Indu Singh, not trying to condone what he has done but wanted to post something about his emotions. Feel free to tell me that I am wrong and this is not Indu and get down to each from La La land! But the hopeless romantic in me came up with this.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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My thoughts. INDU SINGH - his character and his equation with world

In the past in his love-state, Indu Sigh seemed obsessive and irrational in all manner for liking Saanchi.
Now in the present time of Hate-state, Indu Singh is actually seeming passionate and how much he had loved Saanchi.

Basically, he cannot let himself devoid of any thoughts about Saanchi. First it was thinking about possessing her, marrying her relentlessly. Now he possesses her, has married her, has peace that he got what we wants on material level. But he is totally UNHAPPY.
He never questioned himself or bothered even to think, if he will be happy by forcing someone to marry him ? May be marriage means to him a monogamous relationship automatically linking love developing within marriage. Old fashioned thinking...the traditional set up...ladki pasand hai...to kuch karne se pahle shaadi hona chaahiye.
Now he has realized that Saanchi does not like him or love him, but he cannot let go the idea of being married to her. Because he needs her to be attached to him in one or the other way. Knowing very well that Marriage is an institution that cannot be ignored, he tries to lock Saanchi's fate with him, with or without love.
He thinks since he cannot get Saanchi to love him or acknowledge him as her husband, playing defensive Indu Singh himself decided not to honour that marriage thinking Saanchi will beg for it.
And according to his calculations, once that happens love will also happen.

So the problem is all in his thinking that LOVE needs to end in MARRIAGE or the Vice versa MARRIAGE leads to SPOUSAL LOVE. This is all what is going on his mind. Indu is not expressing this in words, but his soliloquies, his solitary walks, his set face, his calculations on Saanchi's next steps all show HIS OWN INTERNAL FIGHT WITH HIS BELIEFS.

He never acknowledged Saanchi's New Age thinking.
Marriage should be relationship which is beyond love, a promise to walk together.
Marriage needs communication which means acknowledge of to and fro throughts between the two.
Only then it will lead to HAPPINESS that he is looking for.

The day Indu Singh sheds away his old fashioned thinking, he will open his communication channel with Saanchi,
The day Saanchi accepts that old fashioned thinking does have fundamental strengths and promise (like her dream of her mate to be together in all her dreams) and see it as a PROP and not Impediment, she too would allow herself to be supported by Indu Singh as she marches ahead with her "Ruk Jaana Nahin"

Liked the way Indu Singh said today, "yeh kaisi shaanti hai ? Yeh toofan ke pahli waali shaanti to nahin ?"
Better Indu Singh be ready for the TOOFAN and the change it will force upon him.

From all angles, I see lot of DEPTH in Indu SIngh's character. Contrary to his comic-obsesssed-crazy exterior, Indu is actually a thinking man. He is magnanimous enough to think big and far ahead from all totally bull-dozing all childish/petty impediments on the way. He sets his own goals as per his tradional thinking. And since he is the one who is following OLD Principles, I want Indu to be magnanimous to become the pillar strength to NEW AGE Thought and energy. I want Indu to actually show Saanchi that he understands her more than any one as she is everything who is trying to throw away his body of beliefs and in process show Saanchi that she cannot DISCARD his body of beliefs in that easy manner.

Am now waiting for them to bridge their gap. 😃
On any given day, Indu Singh has far more maturity than Saanchi about how to deal with this world on a practical level. He lacks what Saanchi has...the focus, the reason, the purpose, the initiative.
On any given day, Saanchi has more energy and vibrancy of the new age than Indu Singh to question the old world dogmatic thoughts. She lacks what Indu has...the knowledge of the ways of the world, the rootedness to the world (being firmly established).
Edited by shridevigaddam - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bravo Namita!

Bravo Shridevigaddam!

Both of you seem to have an insight as to who Indu really is! Couldn't have said any better. Both of them have a lot to learn about each other. Until they do, they wont come together or grow as characters! they have a long and difficult journey ahead. They have each other but in their hatred, they cant see anything positive!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Obervation by shridevigaddam and namitha .What I feel is sanchi should stop using her manipulation ideas with others feelings who truly love her.If she had used her manipulative mind to make indu realise his mistakes .This all would have never happened but instead everytime she only made a fool of indu and hurt his ego by going public.And indu most importantle should stop being very agressive to the people whom he cares and loves.So the two of U stop fighting with each other bcoz It is kind of irritating and also losing interest towards the show for me as a viewer .Kindly consider this as viewers request atleast show some cute insa scenes and not fighting and humiliating ones
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow amazing take on Indu @Shridevigaddam!
I have been thinking since I saw him unhappy, you my dear nailed it. :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ham log yahaan itne sundar sundar proses likhke... Indu Singh aur Sanchi ki pyaar-nafrat main Phd kar rahe hain.. i wonder if even the CVs would have dwelt so much into their characters as we do..

and namita and shridevi...beautifully written ...so well that i don't even know what to add to it anymore... 😍
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Posted: 13 years ago
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good writing Namita! and Shridevigaddam!

Indu Singh fell in love with saachi at the first sight. He just wanted to be friends with her . After poster kand saachi was extremely rude to him and blamed Openly Indu singh for it. How stupid of her ... it was very much obvious that poster kand was only harmful for Indu singh's reputation and not Prabal pratap.Indu Singh got impulsive and insecured for saachi when he saw her with prabal pratap while his suspension was on and started doing all wrong things one by one .
I saw one initial episode in which saachi was riding back home and two guys were eve teasing her . when cops saw them they caught them . SAANCHI JI TOLD THE COPS TO LEAVE THEM AS THEY WERE NOT EVE TEASING HER.
WAH WAH WAH... daya ke devi
If she can show humbleness towards EVE TEASERS 😈 .
She could have always given benefit of doubt to Indu singh in poster kand.
I always felt that she was extremely rude to Indu singh in every episode after that. 😭😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lashy

ham log yahaan itne sundar sundar proses likhke... Indu Singh aur Sanchi ki pyaar-nafrat main Phd kar rahe hain.. i wonder if even the CVs would have dwelt so much into their characters as we do..


and namita and shridevi...beautifully written ...so well that i don't even know what to add to it anymore... 😍



@ Lashy,
You are so right ! 😆
We always try to give meaning to what we like. Lekin uff ye CVs...

@ rashsharma40
Agree

The CVs cannot make Saanchi so obtuse in sensitivity.
I am so waiting when Indu instead of being stubborn and powerful, now uses his maturity to show Saanchi her flaws. Why does he show the traits to us and not her. But maana padega, yesterday he showed maturity with his Maami's laddu and that other's girl's chilli powder sprinkle..I forgot her name. Even in jail he was showing maturity. There was balanced anger before his mother, real anger before his friends and manipulative anger before the press.
Am not sure if CVs are paying attention to Indu's character in detail now or they had all this in plan. It seems so considering the repetitions...but then there should be a growth to story.

Edited by shridevigaddam - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shraddha, PHD? Kya baat hai! Soch soch kar pagal huwe jaarahen hai hum.

Rashsharma - I agree, Sanchi was just plain rude to Indu afterwards, maybe she actually did trust him. I have always wondered, Sanchi ko Indu se hi problem kyun hai :(
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Posted: 13 years ago
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namita- kya baat hai kyaa baat hai loved reading it...
shridevigaddam- beautifullly writtten..

sabne itna chauchakk likha hai mujhe kuch kehne ki zarurat hi nahi padhegi..
but i'll just say one thing... hamare indu ji bhauklaaya hua hai ki ... sanchi uski biwi hokar bhi uske saath nahi hai... and deep down he feels that he might lose her complete ... jo bhi kaha gusse me woh keh dia.. per REH HI NAHI SAKTA USKE BAGAIR...
JUST OUT OF FRUSTRATION HE IS DOING THESE THINGS.. he feels ussey khushi milegi but aur frustation add ho raha hai usme...

he just cant stay away from her... agar ek din na deke ussey toh dekhte hai kya hoga...

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