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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well, Anami is right and she asked Satrupa the right questions. Satrupa looked guilty and she is guilty.
I could not empathise with Satrupa anymore.

It was good to see Baldev not breaking the door hero style. He got the work done by guards. Looked realistic.

After living with Anami for so many days, it seems Baldev stopped being too indifferent to her.

Anami running away with Laddu. Hope she will land in a safe place for the time being. More than Anami Laddu is in danger.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Well, Anami is right and she asked Satrupa the right questions. Satrupa looked guilty and she is guilty.

I could not empathise with Satrupa anymore.

It was good to see Baldev not breaking the door hero style. He got the work done by guards. Looked realistic.

After living with Anami for so many days, it seems Baldev stopped being too indifferent to her.

Anami running away with Laddu. Hope she will land in a safe place for the time being. More than Anami Laddu is in danger.

2day wen satrupa accepted that she did a mistake & feels bad i felt so nice & thot atleast she really cares 4 anami & is not giving any excuse but nah again she did that wen she started blaming anami & giving excuse how & why she did that!!thats the only thing which is making me not 2 like satrupa as mother & human being even a flawed human being.👎🏼
and really this sudha is evil reincarnation.hopefully laadoo is safe

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Though I felt a bit emotional for satrupa today seeing her crying with baby cloth, still I can't accept what she did..how can a mother stay mum and play a cruel prank when her own daughter was dying each second for laddoo..Anami is right in asking didn't she feel an inch of sympathy seeing her daughters pain..I really can't understand how a mother can be so selfish..i just can't digest it.
mother's love is always portrayed as unconditional and purest.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I expected Satrupa to be cool. But she exactly does what a frustrated Sudha does. throwing and breaking things.
Satrupa wants all her faults to be forgiven in a jiffy. And what an insecure woman! Cant she wait?

No doubt Anami leans on adhiraj for comfort and peace.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I expected Satrupa to be cool. But she exactly does what a frustrated Sudha does. throwing and breaking things.

Satrupa wants all her faults to be forgiven in a jiffy. And what an insecure woman! Cant she wait?

No doubt Anami leans on adhiraj for comfort and peace.

@bold bang on. these things r not making me like her. wenever i think no shes not like this she proves me wrong & does the sumthing worse.
anami is rite satrupa is not fit 2 b called a mother.now i doubt if she ever luved vatsalya like her son & not more as a heir.no mother can see her kids tears and she let anami go thru that pain.and its not like shes doing it 4 anami's well being.i cud'd understood if she had 2 do this 2 save anami or 2 show sum1 true colours like sudha's and she tried 2 prove that.i cud'd even sympathized wid her even if hadint approve her ways.but this left me in bad taste.

i like anmai but yes sumtimes i do feel shes not rite. she shud'd listened 2 adhi or gaytari if not satrupa as wid satrupa i can understand her being sceptic given satrupa's kaands wid anami & pandit family.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@bold bang on. these things r not making me like her. wenever i think no shes not like this she proves me wrong & does the sumthing worse.

anami is rite satrupa is not fit 2 b called a mother.now i doubt if she ever luved vatsalya like her son & not more as a heir.no mother can see her kids tears and she let anami go thru that pain.and its not like shes doing it 4 anami's well being.i cud'd understood if she had 2 do this 2 save anami or 2 show sum1 true colours like sudha's and she tried 2 prove that.i cud'd even sympathized wid her even if hadint approve her ways.but this left me in bad taste.

i like anmai but yes sumtimes i do feel shes not rite. she shud'd listened 2 adhi or gaytari if not satrupa as wid satrupa i can understand her being sceptic given satrupa's kaands wid anami & pandit family.


Agree with you. Satrupa was watching Anami depressed and dying like a fish out of water, yet she was postponing bringing Ladoo home on some pretext. A mother will try to reduce pain, not increase it for selfish reasons. Yeh kaisa pyaar hain?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nooo.. Satrupa isn't asking to be forgiven in a jify!!! All she is asking is to give her a chance to be able to make things right! Yes, Anami's behavior towards her made her selfish and hungry for her love, when she was getting it.. it's wrong when you are looking at it from a third person point of view.. but, if you look at it from a mother's point of view.. who has been deprived of her daughter's love, and who had been longing for it.. it makes sense! Her way of going about it was wrong, but not her intention! Anami has the right to be mad at her, but she keeps misunderstanding her and is quick to jump to conclusions about her, which is what lands her in unnecessary drama and trouble! And that Adhiraj seems good for nothing!! Instead of trying to explain things to Anami maturely, he too is going by the same beat as her! Seriously! Smh..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Nooo.. Satrupa isn't asking to be forgiven in a jify!!! All she is asking is to give her a chance to be able to make things right! Yes, Anami's behavior towards her made her selfish and hungry for her love, when she was getting it.. it's wrong when you are looking at it from a third person point of view.. but, if you look at it from a mother's point of view.. who has been deprived of her daughter's love, and who had been longing for it.. it makes sense! Her way of going about it was wrong, but not her intention! Anami has the right to be mad at her, but she keeps misunderstanding her and is quick to jump to conclusions about her, which is what lands her in unnecessary drama and trouble! And that Adhiraj seems good for nothing!! Instead of trying to explain things to Anami maturely, he too is going by the same beat as her! Seriously! Smh..

Satrupa actually was giving pain to her own daughter by hiding laddoo for attaining her affection..what sort of love is that.. giving pain to someone for getting close to them..it's not a usual behavior it's a psychic behavior ,its not love..I just can't digest it, and the lady has the audacity to say I did this for you anami.. like seriously!!!I agree with Anami,no mother wd believe someone did such a thing to her daughter to gain her love..if we justify satrupa here then it's equivalent to justifying all those obsessive lovers..and you only said you wd feel wrong when you are looking from a 3rd persons view and Adhiraj is a 3rd person here..so why blame him..do you think if anyone else was in place of Adhiraj, they wd have supported satrupa..no I dnt think so, be it Dadi,baldev,panditayein they all would have blasted on satrupa that's what I feel.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara


Satrupa actually was giving pain to her own daughter by hiding laddoo for attaining her affection..what sort of love is that.. giving pain to someone for getting close to them..it's not a usual behavior it's a psychic behavior ,its not love..I just can't digest it, and the lady has the audacity to say I did this for you anami.. like seriously!!!I agree with Anami,no mother wd believe someone did such a thing to her daughter to gain her love..if we justify satrupa here then it's equivalent to justifying all those obsessive lovers..and you only said you wd feel wrong when you are looking from a 3rd persons view and Adhiraj is a 3rd person here..so why blame him..do you think if anyone else was in place of Adhiraj, they wd have supported satrupa..no I dnt think so, be it Dadi,baldev,panditayein they all would have blasted on satrupa that's what I feel.



I'm NOT trying to justify what she did to Ladoo, nor am I saying she did that out of love!! All I am saying is.. she did it because of her insecurity! She finally was receiving the love from Anami which she longed for, she saw what conditioned it.. Laadoo disappearing made Anami come close to her, which she longed for! She just wanted the exchange of love and affection to last a little longer.. and all she could see is getting that from her. True she manipulated the situation and after it was going out of hand, she realized her mistake! And besides, she wasn't going to keep Ladoo away for long! It was just a matter of few days.. but, she did what a love hungry mother would wld do, who is blinded by her goal without giving the consequences of her actions a thought! What she did was wrong true!!! I never said it was right, but when you think about it from a psychological point of view of a person like Satrupa, and keeping her story in mind, you would understand why he did what she did.

And in all honesty, if Anami had tried working to mend and build things with Satrupa, for the sake of Vatsalya, stayed mad, but not hated her soo much, then Satrupa would not have had to take this step. Satrupa never showed her vulnerable side to Anami.. always took things in stride.. even though Anami's behavior would be killing her, inside.. she tried talking to her, showing her love, tried to build a bond with her, but no! Anami would fight it. but this time Satrupa melted. She cared to get love back from her, cherishing the closeness.. true it was selfish, keeping her miserable without Ladoo, but the pain brought her closer to her.. you can't really blame her when you look at it from a psychological point of view.. but, morally yes, it was wrong.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover



I'm NOT trying to justify what she did to Ladoo, nor am I saying she did that out of love!! All I am saying is.. she did it because of her insecurity! She finally was receiving the love from Anami which she longed for, she saw what conditioned it.. Laadoo disappearing made Anami come close to her, which she longed for! She just wanted the exchange of love and affection to last a little longer.. and all she could see is getting that from her. True she manipulated the situation and after it was going out of hand, she realized her mistake! And besides, she wasn't going to keep Ladoo away for long! It was just a matter of few days.. but, she did what a love hungry mother would wld do, who is blinded by her goal without giving the consequences of her actions a thought! What she did was wrong true!!! I never said it was right, but when you think about it from a psychological point of view of a person like Satrupa, and keeping her story in mind, you would understand why he did what she did.

And in all honesty, if Anami had tried working to mend and build things with Satrupa, for the sake of Vatsalya, stayed mad, but not hated her soo much, then Satrupa would not have had to take this step. Satrupa never showed her vulnerable side to Anami.. always took things in stride.. even though Anami's behavior would be killing her, inside.. she tried talking to her, showing her love, tried to build a bond with her, but no! Anami would fight it. but this time Satrupa melted. She cared to get love back from her, cherishing the closeness.. true it was selfish, keeping her miserable without Ladoo, but the pain brought her closer to her.. you can't really blame her when you look at it from a psychological point of view.. but, morally yes, it was wrong.



Agree with you! Nobody can deny what Satrupa did was wrong but her intentions were far from malicious. They were done out of desperation and craving for her daughters love and it's all fine for the fictitious world to say mothers are always selfless but in real life they actually are HUMAN. What Satrupa has done in the past is outright wrong. Can it ever be justified? Probably not but you cannot deny that she really really wants Anami's love, she needs it I feel. Remember when Vatsalya wrote in his diary 'my mother is only alive with me'. Whatever happened with Satrupa in the past we don't fully know but we do know that no mother would be ever at peace knowing that they gave their child away. Look at the situation she's in, her young son was killed and her daughter hates her. This would break anyone but somehow Satrupa lives and to be honest, the only time she looks happy is with her kids. One will never get back so how can she not crave the others love? When she saw that finally her daughter is showing some affection, Satrupa became vulnerable and made a mistake.

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