Fed up with this brat named Anami - Page 2

Originally posted by: DV_LVR

A court would give sudha equal rights on property once DNA test proves novrottam is related. The courts wouldnt throw it out.

Originally posted by: DV_LVR

Vatsalya grew up in a family loved and adored by all and also trained right from birth on how to be royalty, anami grew up with a poor pandit family that lives on others rituals and the fact that her own blood didnt want her.

I am very much surprised your expecting poise from anami at this stage 😛

Originally posted by: Santiago24

DV.. I didnt mean poise as in grace etc.. I meant poise in the context of being balanced.. a balanced head.. pov etc.. 😊

Originally posted by: Mangothyme

It's the war between nature and nurture I think.

Anami's good qualities and likability was at its highest in Benaras. It was directly due to the daily influence of Murari Pathak and Madhoo. But there too she was arrogant and did her own thing without listening to anyone. She never stopped calling Madhoo, Pagli Panditayen even though she asked her to. She took Ladoo to fight fake sanyasis which Madhoo did not want. She always did what she felt was right, but she was good because the parvarish or nurture was good and most of all she was loved, accepted for who she was and was a valued member of a family without any conditions.

Anami's true nature is coming out in LM without the parvarish or the nurture of the Pathaks. She is not as nice or likable in LM. She is also facing a lot of expectations like how to be a heir and be a member of a royal family without proper training and most of all love or acceptance. The fact that Anami's Tevar is what Satrupa her birth mother found in common with her and not her kindness or sense of justice is nature at its most basic which is not a very nice character trait. It is the trait that made Anami cut off the tutor's hair and Satrupa paid her off and never corrected Anami. Madhoo Pathak would have slapped her. Satrupa has expectations of Anami but does nothing to bond with her. You need to bond with someone to give them a sense of loyalty, of belonging. The LM wasis have failed to give her that except Dadi.

Anami would have got angry at anyone who dared eat from Murari Pathak's plate except Madhoo. She is fiercely loyal and protective of her, she feels nothing for Satrupa. Loyalty and love must be earned. After 17 years of nothing, Satrupa cannot expect that from Anami especially when she threatened her and the Pathaks every time. Anami looks for approval and acceptance from Satrupa, even today in the dining table she was looking at Satrupa. Everyone wants to be needed for themselves. Baldev was about to leave and stopped because Vikram told him he needed him after so many years. The day Satrupa shows her vulnerable side and shows Anami she loves her, not because she LM heir or Vatsalya replacement but because she is Anami, she will get her loyalty. That day Anami herself will throw Sudha out.

Originally posted by: DV_LVR

Vatsalya grew up in a family loved and adored by all and also trained right from birth on how to be royalty, anami grew up with a poor pandit family that lives on others rituals and the fact that her own blood didnt want her.

I am very much surprised your expecting poise from anami at this stage 😛

Originally posted by: DV_LVR

A court would give sudha equal rights on property once DNA test proves novrottam is related. The courts wouldnt throw it out.

Originally posted by: bips

Ummm... No... Right on ancestral property is NOT given to a child born outside of marriage... And lal mahal's entire property is ancestral...

An illegitimate child can only claim a share in father's own income outside of ancestral / family property... And baldev has no job and hence no income of his own.. He is living on family money..

Hence nurottum gets a big fat zero...

And sudha as the other woman has even less rights than nurutoom.. She can only claim maintenance for daily living expenses which LM people are already giving her... No property for her too

Originally posted by: emmaringo2

So you are saying that the poor pandits are SO poor that they could not even afford to give Anami proper values or teach her how to behave? Being rich or poor has nothing to do with whether a person's bratty or well-behaved. Usually it is the rich kids who are obnoxious, disrespectful and bratty because they get everything in life easily and have no sense of values. But here the opposite is the case.

And just like Vastalya, Anami also got the love and adoration of everybody in her vicinity. Her adoptive parents love her, her brother loves her, the people love her. So what's her damn excuse for being a totally irresponsible brat? Sorry but your argument fails completely.

Originally posted by: Santiago24

DV.. I didnt mean poise as in grace etc.. I meant poise in the context of being balanced.. a balanced head.. pov etc.. 😊

Originally posted by: bips

Ummm... No... Right on ancestral property is NOT given to a child born outside of marriage... And lal mahal's entire property is ancestral...

An illegitimate child can only claim a share in father's own income outside of ancestral / family property... And baldev has no job and hence no income of his own.. He is living on family money..

Hence nurottum gets a big fat zero...

And sudha as the other woman has even less rights than nurutoom.. She can only claim maintenance for daily living expenses which LM people are already giving her... No property for her too