I noticed the following things-
1. Sudha was not married to baldev,when she was sent in mental asylam.Narottam born already and when she escaped from asylam,Satrupa already entered as Baldev's wife and was pregnant.While Satrupa knew about Sudha,the same might not be the case for Sudha,as she looked unaware of Baldev's marriage and Satrupa's presence in LM.
2.Sudha was total pshychotic..when gayatri told her that Baldev asked about narottam when she was expecting that asking for herself,she clearly said that N is Baldev and Sudha's son bit he is not sudha that baldev asked about him but not her.
3.Sudha was,is obsessed with Baldev.She can't even bear baldev's concern for her own son,when it is a matter of his concern for her.No one but only things related to Baldev can pacify or calm her down.She was even ready to give the same honour to Gayatri as she is her 'GOING TO BE SAAS' and baldev likes to obey all what she says so she too wanna do the same.
4.All sudha wanted to know was about Baldev only..she did not even bother to see or ask about her only son Narottam.
5.Gatyatri and all LM people (including Baldev) knew the mental unstability of Sudha and her obsession with Baldev,so whether they accept her or not they were bound to send her in asalyam.I am not saying they were white but that was the only option to deal with Sudha and her problem..May be Sudha did something to enter LM forcefully,so they were also planning to do something like that already..I guess due to her mental state,and as Narottam is their blood,so there was no option left for LM people to keep him with them..But to make sure he and his mother can't demand property,they make him like that,i guess..
So the thing is it is very critical to decide whether we should sympathize Sudha or not..only time will tell when all the truth comes in front of not only Anami but also us.Till then we can only imagine,guess but cannot come to a concusion.
So untill then,have patience and wait for the story to reveal..warna maja kya rah jayega serial mein??😉😆