The hands you take and the hands you leave Part 63-Updated page 149 - Page 31

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Posted: 7 years ago
Yes Anami hasn't accepted LM as her own except for Vatsalya and bringing justice to him. That doesn't mean she has the right to decide what she wants when she doesn't know the full history. She is not poison either hope she recovers and learns. Pujan and co now rejoice for they don't have to do anything.

Hoping they don't drag Sudha story till her vanvaas and sh decides to stay in LM to keep her honor
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Athene



Yeah I saw that. f**k it man. Everything I say I'm glad didn't happen, happens the very next episode.

SP's freaking influence is starting to show. Slow entry for Sudha. The sudden raining of kumkum everywhere. The kumkum being thrown on Sudha instead of Satrupa.

Not only that just look at the mistakes. Satrupa and Baldev are dancing and there's kumkum smeared on Baldev's sherwani. Then when Satrupa throws kumkum on him, his sherwani is suddenly clean. And with so much kumkum flying like crazy how come everyone isn't red?

no it not landed on shudha
it passed from shudha but landed on satrupa
check the video
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Posted: 7 years ago
Today's episode was more of a word-war action paced.
The whole entry of Sudha was shot quite brilliantly with beautiful cinematography.

Somehow, I feel despite Sudha being the ominous villain, she will have to eat her words.
"Itne saalon baad, Maa Durga, LM mein aayi hai, bali tho chadana hi hoga."
She never said who.

What we noticed today is that - it were the people of LM who were creating the chaos. They were the one playing with the colours. Throwing it on each other, dancing in mirth. Yet it got splattered on Sudha. Her face was sprayed with the Lal Rang as if she were the culprit. While the people of LM remained untouched. Anami, and Narottam came afterward, yet again untouched.

We are yet unaware of what has happened in the past. What lead to these compromises and deals being made.

Today somewhere along the line, Baldev disappointed me.

Yes. Maybe we are jumping to conclusion. Might be Narottam is not even his son. Might be Sudha is playing him. Maybe it's all just a facade for vengeance. BUT.

You know I detest this old proverb, which I have heard relentless times from elders.
" Whether the thorn falls on the flower, or the flower falls on the thorn - At the end, it is the flower which always ends up hurt."

If the people of Lal Mahal have the slightest of doubts that Narottam is Baldev's son and yet had the audacity to abandon her - then that's it. There it is, the degradation and dishonour of our society. Women, themselves are promoting it - like Badi Miya ki madam.

Yes, Anami perhaps did a cruel thing. Yes, it is almost like bringing an ex in front of her mother. Yes she might not be understanding Satrupa's pain. Maybe like they say, Sudha is using both Narottam and Baldev.

But if a man thinks he can spare loving glances, spend days around with her, encourage her to give her heart to him, her trust to him, initiate intimacy with her - and then suddenly realizes and thinks about her sound being, health, behaviour yada yada, only when it comes to stability, trust or companionship like marriage from his side... He is a bane to this society. Such thinking is what makes progress helpless.


Anami cannot be blamed right now. She is naive and proud. She connects with the feeling of being abandoned. She wants to fight for this "abandoned" woman's right - who is unlike her unable to fight for herself. Her son - Anami's brother. She is aghast at the thinking of LM, even Dadi.
Nor can be Satrupa. As we know, she had been placed into the marriage, whilst unknown of Sudha. Perhaps, Sudha was also behind the murder of her first set of twins. So she thinks of Sudha as sinister.
Yet, we could see the anguish, shock and pain in those wide eyes, as Baldev averted his eyes to Sudha's piercing and haunting questions.

And yet again, Satrupa has lost control for the first time - to an extent that she asks Anami to get lost off the premises of LM. Such anger, such fear. Badi Miya ki madam shouted at Anami - and she visibly flinched.

Therein, she must realize that something is wrong. Something was wrong. And that wrong was never corrected. Had it been corrected, there would have been peace, satisfaction. But it has just been forced to finish. Which she has to open, to heal the wounds.

There has to be some justification to Sudha as a person. Baldev's aversion shows that. She might use them - only if they allow her to. Baldev says that main tumhara baap nahin hoon, Satrupa says mein tumhari choti maa nahin hoon. Yet when asked by Anami, Dadi says he is Baldev's son.

An eccentric person, a mere fling cannot manipulate an entire family of their own will - unless they give the person a leeway or weakness. And if Baldev gave away that weakness - he is at fault, at least partially. He has a role to play. He cannot just ignore. As we saw - it was Baldev at the front. It is his fight to wage. Not Satrupa's.


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Posted: 7 years ago

I'm not going to judge BD harshly for dumping Sudha.

It takes time for certain mental illness to show up and people can get involved before that.
I know a real life BD, a man who thought he found the love of his life on a holiday and broke off after she started showing symptoms of her illness. He wasn't prepared for that & he felt cheated,that she didn't confide him in the first place.Alas!their few days romance resulted in her pregnancy & he had been paying child support.He has truly moved on, but bears the financial burden.
Living with a mentally ill partner is not for everyone & people with lesser strength will walk away and BD is one of them.
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Posted: 7 years ago
I also agree with Simran on that. If you watch the show beyhadh you will understand what I am telling. Maya the leading lady of that show is mentally disturbed and has pyschic problems, infact to be frank she is more or less like Sudha except for the fact that she doesnt make me feel creepy about her.

@ammu yes whatever happens the blame is always put on woman and it is the patriarchal society's way and there is a long way to go before it ends. Though we have started now talking about rape in open, atleast justice for victim etc which was unthinkable even some 10 years back. Coming to Baldev I wont give him clean chit, I wont place him villain, something has happened and yes @athene you dont know where to place things right now. Coming to Pujan, he has another enemy in Sudha and unknown enemy in Adhiraj. He doesnt understand he is playing with fire.
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Posted: 7 years ago
@Shruthi- I like Maya & blame the ML.

They've made Sudha very intriguing by adding the pagal tag to her.
She was sane enough to make a deal with them and dangerous enough to scare Satrupa.

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Posted: 7 years ago
@ Simran and Shruthi: I agree with that, but from everything that has been seen so far it doesn't appear that Sudha showed signs of mental illness. She was sent there to keep her away from Baldev and then Baldev later accepted this situation and moved on with Satrupa.

There's no need for him to accept Sudha after all these years or to accept that he promised to marry her, but the fact that suddenly he calls her mental and turns away from her completely is too much to digest.

Simran in the case of the man you know, at least he accepted that the child was his and is paying child support. I know both a man and a woman in similar cases and both took certain responsibilities for their relationships even after their better halves were sent to a mental institution.

But in this case Baldev is trying to wash his hands completely of the matter. And not only that he hasn't ever accepted Narottam or treated him as his son. I guess that's what makes it harder for me to accept what he's saying or doing.
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Posted: 7 years ago
@Athene- BD has to own up. Like you said, his family has been cleaning up the mess for him.He obeys Vikku, as he was prepared to adopt Avadhoot for him. In his book, he had paid the price for his folly and Sudha agreed to the deal, nothing more to it.

Narrotam being his son i've doubts.And I guess he has too.

He did promise her something ,what and how, like Anami was he blackmailed into promising something he never intended too?

I want to see the past unravel fully .
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Posted: 7 years ago
Guys I will provide my complete take tomorrow but just want to tell you that Vikram didn't call Anami as snake but Sudha. I think it was Satrupa who stopped harming Sudha and proposed her stay at asylum and Narotham being given shelter at LM. So Vikram is blaming Satrupa for sparing Sudha's life and kept her alive that resulted in this stage.
Will write more later
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: deejagi

Guys I will provide my complete take tomorrow but just want to tell you that Vikram didn't call Anami as snake but Sudha. I think it was Satrupa who stopped harming Sudha and proposed her stay at asylum and Narotham being given shelter at LM. So Vikram is blaming Satrupa for sparing Sudha's life and kept her alive that resulted in this stage.

Will write more later



Wow! Jaya, that's an interesting take. 👏
Vikku's dialogue did seem bit strange when applied to Anami, since it has been only few days she is brought to LM.

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