Originally posted by: -MIMOSA-
Thank you so much for your appreciation Ammu! 😊
Your comment is so poignant. I was full of emotions after reading it.
We in our life, always yearn for something which we either have lost, or couldn't achieve. The quest is almost inseparable from our beings. What we forget is that, along with that quest, life has given us numerous reasons to smile, laugh and contentment. And this is the imperfection of our lives, which makes us move in the life, strive for its betterment and make the best of it.
This show provides us a perfect example of imperfection. It tells us that life is not just black and white, it is more of greys, all shades of grey. Nothing is flawless, nothing is perfect. And that is life.
Thank you once again for this heartfelt comment and appreciation. Glad I met you here. 🤗
Oh My Pleasure !, @MIMOSA . I have no clue as to how to address you ! 😛
No truer words have been said. That is exactly what life goes on to show you ! Yes - with time - we all come to realize that bad can come from good and so can good from bad. We just have to find a grey scale to balance those. Our judicial symbol of justice is not a blindfolded lady for no reason - It is to show us to listen out people blindly ; without being judgemental - and to listen out on a fair basis - and then decide. We never know - had Satrupa taken into wing both the kids - maybe they would've both been murdered ; maybe we wouldn't have gotten a strong woman like Anami is right now - maybe she would be soft and of the same thoughts like Vatsalya - not enough to tackle the shackles of Lal Mahal. If Anami had been taken into wing and Vatsalya given away - in a family like theirs Anami would have been restricted, and more so because of her gender - end up being even more softer and diplomatic like Vatsalya ; And at the end of the day 'Avdhoot' 'biasedly' preferred. We can't blame Satrupa for taking the easy way out. If given a chance - we all would. Satrupa wouldn't even have thought in the wildest of dreams for all of this to happen.
If Satrupa were truly cruel at heart or even biased based on the gender. She would not have cared about where Anami ended up. She could have been abandoned at an orphanage, any where on the streets. But she was left to a family, a beautiful , stronger and awesome family - growing up with reality, with unrestricted yet taught freedom and a strong character.
I had initially been a silent reader on the forum - and was glad to be so - b'coz I am honoured to have read some beautiful insights from people of different POVs. I know that many people are as of now very annoyed with Anami as well to not listen to Satrupa - and to trust Narottam blindly . She might have had caught 'dhongies' back in banaras - but those frauds are nowhere close to the people at Lal Mahal.
Every relative - is a layered ; multi dimensional being with complex emotions coursing through them unlike the frauds back in Banaras - who were petty and solely focused on tricking people on a superficial basis. Here everybody out there has got a deep rooted motive and for a reason too - we can't judge them b'coz we all know that in real life - if meted out with similar strings of fate - we would do the same - somewhere in the back of our minds. They have etcvhed out their plans of deception to perfection b'coz it is not just a means of living for them - it's their life ; the justice to their 'supposed' injustice. It's the sole purpose of their lives.
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Satrupa" - got swayed when she saw the 'supposed' genuine actions of our very own Pujan - who is been on this field and playing for a long time. Anami, might turn out to be a much better player - but she just got here. She still needs to learn who she is dealing with. She needs to test the waters - and the makers have to show us her immediate failures to show us how dark and murky it is inside the so called "Lal" mahal - enough to have sucked the life out of Sudha. Only then can they show her learning preparing - and moving out into the necessary backstories - like Satrupa - Baldev , Baldev-Sudha, Pujan-Dheeru-Business and other crucial relationships. She needs to be played around to learn from her mistakes - Because let's be fair - all of us see that stubborn, emotional teenager in Anami and relate to. We relate to her b'coz she is unlike those sacrificial, naive, immediate;y understanding and annoyingly forgiving leads out there. She is selfish, sharp, unforgiving, stubborn yet a small teen who at heart is an emotional being - and will accept love from anywhere and protect the few she cares about like a lion protecting it's cub !
A 'real' human !
Edited by ammu3 - 7 years ago