anyone feel anami is more open with satrupa than paglipanditayin

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gaushiv13

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Posted: 7 years ago

i have mentioned in some episode that anami just dont feel any greatness to pandit parivar

but after watching all episodes i feel that anami was greatful like when she gave reason yesterday that why she call her pagli panditayin

it shows that somewhere pagli panditayin never was her mother in her thought she was greater than that as she not given her birth

sorry yaar i didnt like the reason of anami everyone is praising i dont feel

it shows that if we adopt any child then they will not consider us parent they will be always greatful to us only

on the day of birthday she remembered her mother it shows that she somewhere was missing her wanted to know about her

why i feel anami acted mature before age after getting some hint that they are not her birth parents

she not like other child started to trouble them like now a days when she is with her mother she dont feel any awkwardness even with her father she try to mock him although she knows that he doesnt consider gher his daughter here she simply live withright which she feel is her although she try to escape from here want to go there but here she live more freely

QUESTION

WHY INDIAN SHOW CANT SHOW THAT PARENT WHO HAS DONE YOUR UPBRINGING IS YOUR PARENT ONLY AND ONLY WHY THEY BECOME MORE THAN THAT?

ID ONT KNOW WHY EVERYONE IS SATISFIED WITH THE REASON I AM NOT AS CALLING SOMEONE MA IS JUST PEACEFUL LIKE WHENEVER I TAKE MY MOTHER NAME OR TALK TO HER I SIMPLYFORGET EVERYTHING

SORRY GUYS BUT MY QUESTION IS IF ANAMI HAS CALLED HER PAGLI PANDITAYIN ONLY IS SHE WAS HER BIRTH DAUGHTER?

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Posted: 7 years ago

It is not that Anami does not consider her adoptive parents as her real parents, or does not love them like a child loves his/her birth parents. For Anami, she detests her real parents and a mother or a father means nothing but a reminder of being thrown away for someone's selfish reasons. When Poonam had questioned her why she called her adoptive mother Pagli Panditain instead of Maa, Anami had replied with a, "Maa shabd bohot chota hai unke lie", I think that answer says it all. For Anami Maa is a meaningless word, that constantly reminds her of how her own mother never wanted her and discarded her the moment she was born. Calling pagli panditain 'Maa' would mean comparing her with a woman whom Anami considers nothing but a selfish, unkind woman who could never give Anami, the love she received from her 'Pagli Panditain'. 'Maa' to Anami is just like a bad, and completely foul word that she is not fond of uttering. While her adoptive parents are much above that, the love they showered on her, she is perfectly aware of that, the only reason why she is going through all this trouble. She is living with the people she completely despises, saying no to food and successfully continuing her hunger strike for 3 days even though she can not resist food, leaving her ego aside and breaking the fast, all that she does for her adoptive parents, that is how strong their bond is.

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gaushiv13

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Remsi
It is not that Anami does not consider her adoptive parents as her real parents, or does not love them like a child loves his/her birth parents. For Anami, she detests her real parents and a mother or a father means nothing but a reminder of being thrown away for someone's selfish reasons. When Poonam had questioned her why she called her adoptive mother Pagli Panditain instead of Maa, Anami had replied with a, "Maa shabd bohot chota hai unke lie", I think that answer says it all. For Anami Maa is a meaningless word, that constantly reminds her of how her own mother never wanted her and discarded her the moment she was born. While her adoptive parents are much above that, the love they showered on her, she is perfectly aware of that, the only reason why she is going through all this trouble. She is living with the people she completely despises, saying no to food and successfully continuing her hunger strike for 3 days even though she can not resist food, leaving her ego aside and breaking the fast, all that she does for her adoptive parents, that is how strong their bond is.

i know and understand that she love pandit parivar more than anything

but i dont understand even that if ma is only for the mother who give birth

because i think ma is made for anyone who give birth and take care of you even

ya i know and understand everything but never able to understand this deliemma of adopted children thats whu sometime i feel afraid to adopt any child in future because i want to adopt

its high time there are alot orphanit and alot are adopted it doesnt mean that they all will start making their own word as somewhere they all were thrown by their mother only

IT ONLY IMPLIES THAT HOW MUCH YOU LOVE CARE YOUR ADOPTED CHILD THEY WILL ALWAYS ONLY CONSIDER YOU GOD NOT MOTHER

like in some other serial forum i watch to justify the leads being real parent they just make taking care parent negative or even in forum everyone will say that the male lead is real parent as he was unknown of his child

ONE QUESTION AGAIN WHICH ARISE IN MY MIND ALWAYS

IF SOME CHILD WAS KIDNAPPED AND WAS GIVEN IN ANATHALYA AND SOMEONE ADOPT YOU AND TAKE CARE OF YOU UNKNOWN OF ANYTHING THAT HAS HAPPENED WITH YOU WHEN SOMEDAY YOUR REAL PARENT WILL COME ITS LAWFULL TO LEAVE YOUR ADOPTED PARENT LIKE EVERYONE GIVE EXAMPLE OF KRISHNA AND YASHODA BUT ACCORDING TO MYTH ONCE KRISHNA MET HIS REAL PARENT AFTER THAT HE NEVER GONE TO YASHODA THEN WHAT WAS UNIQUENESS

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

i know and understand that she love pandit parivar more than anything
but i dont understand even that if ma is only for the mother who give birth
because i think ma is made for anyone who give birth and take care of you even
ya i know and understand everything but never able to understand this deliemma of adopted children thats whu sometime i feel afraid to adopt any child in future because i want to adopt
its high time there are alot orphanit and alot are adopted it doesnt mean that they all will start making their own word as somewhere they all were thrown by their mother only
IT ONLY IMPLIES THAT HOW MUCH YOU LOVE CARE YOUR ADOPTED CHILD THEY WILL ALWAYS ONLY CONSIDER YOU GOD NOT MOTHER

It is not always the same. My aunt has an adoptive daughter and the child has never felt that way. Depends on the child and how he/she thinks or believes. In Anami's case while she may not call Pagli Panditain Maa, but she considers her the same and loves her unconditionally. It is the same relation any child shares with their mother, the bond is equally strong, so does it really matter how we name that relationship? Anami has her own reasons to not call Pagli Panditain Maa, for her Maa is a word she hates and calling Pagli Panditain Maa would be like abusing her to Anami, Also about considering them God instead of parents, aren't parents also considered God according to our culture. Just like any normal child is thankful of their parents for bringing them up, an adoptive child is also the same. It is not that much of a complicated relationship as it may seem. We may name it differently but the feelings are the same and in the end the name does not even matter.

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gaushiv13

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Remsi

It is not always the same. My aunt has an adoptive daughter and the child has never felt that way. Depends on the child and how he/she thinks or believes. In Anami's case while she may not call Pagli Panditain Maa, but she considers her the same and loves her unconditionally. It is the same relation any child shares with their mother, the bond is equally strong, so does it really matter how we name that relationship? Anami has her own reasons to not call Pagli Panditain Maa, for her Maa is a word she hates and calling Pagli Panditain Maa would be like abusing her to Anami, Also about considering them God instead of parents, aren't parents also are considered God according to our culture. Just like any normal child is thankful of their parents for bringing them up, an adoptive child is also the same. It is not that much of a complicated relationship as it may seem. We may name it differently but the feelings are the same and in the end the name does not even matter.

THANKS FOR CLEARING MY DELIEMMA