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Posted: 7 years ago
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Me and Sravani wearing Multi Colour Ghagra and dancing on "Delhi Sheher me mero ghagharo jo ghumoyo, aye ghumyo" :-D
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Abhay once said that when they met both were around 18ish. Diya at that point was very filmy her notions of love were based on those ideas. when she saw abhay do all those things for her, she thought it was love...or fell in love with the idea of love and the person she was bethroed by her parents to marry. abhay at this stage loved her truly and took the effort to know her likes dislikes but diya was in the movie zone.
then came the 12 year gap

a gap in which she hasnt thought of love or emotions much. she doesn't even recognise anymore when a person is giving her appreciative looks...there was a scene on this if you remember. the existing became protecting data hukum and looking for signs of foul play. suspicious was the only thing she knew.

within a blink of the eye that has changed. she hasnt been able to get her footing. much less thing about what abhay is like and whether she loves him still. while she might give the list and tell ratan abhay expects nothing, if you remember her conversation during prank call, she is stuck somewhere between the filmy diya and one who just wants to be with abhay because he loves her like crazy and she feels she loves him too...or at the least she feels the weight of what he feels for her and the 12 years he waited for her.

while she hasnt completely taken him for granted. she is no longer in a place where she knows what she feels either.

earlier she did things for baap ji sa, now she is more focused on making things up to her parents...with least bit of thought to what she wants in all of this.

hopefully diya and ratan will both come to stage when they realise that what they want now isn't what they thought they way. and what they feel for each other isn't what they claimed was friendship either.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: foresight

Abhay once said that when they met both were around 18ish. Diya at that point was very filmy her notions of love were based on those ideas. when she saw abhay do all those things for her, she thought it was love...or fell in love with the idea of love and the person she was bethroed by her parents to marry. abhay at this stage loved her truly and took the effort to know her likes dislikes but diya was in the movie zone.

then came the 12 year gap

a gap in which she hasnt thought of love or emotions much. she doesn't even recognise anymore when a person is giving her appreciative looks...there was a scene on this if you remember. the existing became protecting data hukum and looking for signs of foul play. suspicious was the only thing she knew.

within a blink of the eye that has changed. she hasnt been able to get her footing. much less thing about what abhay is like and whether she loves him still. while she might give the list and tell ratan abhay expects nothing, if you remember her conversation during prank call, she is stuck somewhere between the filmy diya and one who just wants to be with abhay because he loves her like crazy and she feels she loves him too...or at the least she feels the weight of what he feels for her and the 12 years he waited for her.

while she hasnt completely taken him for granted. she is no longer in a place where she knows what she feels either.

earlier she did things for baap ji sa, now she is more focused on making things up to her parents...with least bit of thought to what she wants in all of this.

hopefully diya and ratan will both come to stage when they realise that what they want now isn't what they thought they way. and what they feel for each other isn't what they claimed was friendship either.


Bold - bang on, she herself doesn't know what she feels either because if she is very sure that she loves him beyond anything and wants to get married to him then she should be having that happiness on her face which is completely not there.
In yesterday's episode also she was asking her dad if he is happy because his happiness matters the most, so if suppose he says he isn't happy diya too I guess will have no problem in breaking the marriage once again.


And I agree it's high time Dira start thinking what exactly they feel for each other because if u claim that u wanted to marry abhay then why are you so lost in your marriage when ratan comes to say goodbye
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sravani_Rao

I'm sure CT will like multicolour 😆

I don't need to think abt one colour.. wear all colours


I couldn't stop laugh reading this 🤣
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: foresight

Abhay once said that when they met both were around 18ish. Diya at that point was very filmy her notions of love were based on those ideas. when she saw abhay do all those things for her, she thought it was love...or fell in love with the idea of love and the person she was bethroed by her parents to marry. abhay at this stage loved her truly and took the effort to know her likes dislikes but diya was in the movie zone.

then came the 12 year gap

a gap in which she hasnt thought of love or emotions much. she doesn't even recognise anymore when a person is giving her appreciative looks...there was a scene on this if you remember. the existing became protecting data hukum and looking for signs of foul play. suspicious was the only thing she knew.

within a blink of the eye that has changed. she hasnt been able to get her footing. much less thing about what abhay is like and whether she loves him still. while she might give the list and tell ratan abhay expects nothing, if you remember her conversation during prank call, she is stuck somewhere between the filmy diya and one who just wants to be with abhay because he loves her like crazy and she feels she loves him too...or at the least she feels the weight of what he feels for her and the 12 years he waited for her.

while she hasnt completely taken him for granted. she is no longer in a place where she knows what she feels either.

earlier she did things for baap ji sa, now she is more focused on making things up to her parents...with least bit of thought to what she wants in all of this.

hopefully diya and ratan will both come to stage when they realise that what they want now isn't what they thought they way. and what they feel for each other isn't what they claimed was friendship either.


Bang on foresight. One thing I realized reading your post that like Ratan, Diya doesn't even know what is the real meaning of love according to her.I feel, the love between Diya and Abhay is not exactly the same love definition she gave to Ratan during the fake engagement period.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nancy505


Bang on foresight. One thing I realized reading your post that like Ratan, Diya doesn't even know what is the real meaning of love according to her.I feel, the love between Diya and Abhay is not exactly the same love definition she gave to Ratan during the fake engagement period.


There were always flaws in that definition because love is not when "you decide to spend your life with someone" love is when you cannot imagine your life without them.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Can i just say that I'm not so sure that Ratan would want Diya in a short dress when she's his wife! Ratan will fall in love with her the way she is. He will be very possessive over Diya.

Remember that men behave very differently with their wives, than with friends or even girlfriends.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gewels

Can i just say that I'm not so sure that Ratan would want Diya in a short dress when she's his wife! Ratan will fall in love with her the way she is. He will be very possessive over Diya.

Remember that men behave very differently with their wives, than with friends or even girlfriends.



You said something very interesting which implies to reality. Hope your say comes true.

Up to now Diya and Ratan's relationship is still in friendship zone which actually looks realistic from my point of view. And both Ratan and Diya are Kwob ke parinde (I think this is one of forum members name) those who made long list without acknowledging that it is not possible to have all the qualities in one person. So, Gewel I also think that when Ratan will marry, he will expect different things from Diya, not what he is imagining.

Another thing which can not be denied that men will be men.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: foresight



earlier she did things for baap ji sa, now she is more focused on making things up to her parents...with least bit of thought to what she wants in all of this.



THIS! 👏👏

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