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Pardon the title, I can not help my penchant for Classic literature. :-D
I think the reason for showing these scenes is to highlight the difference in Diya and Ratan's sensibilities. They can be good friends in a matter of short time but it will take a long time for them to come to terms if they are married.
While watching last couple of episodes, I noticed how Ratan's behaviour is showing some interesting traits.
I will make clear that I do not think Ratan is a stupid or dumb male lead. (Not always at least). He is smart enough to understand when there was a real danger and managed to change his behaviour according to it during Raghu kidnapped him.
But there is a difference in sense (common sense) and sensibility.
His behaviour with rings was not intentionally hurtful or malicious but it was result of a different sensibility. I will not attribute it to his age.
Diya was 18 when she took up the responsibility which alienated her from everything that was dear to her.
I guess it is also nurture (as well as nature). He grew up in a different mind set than Diya, Yash or even Ayush.
(If you see how Ayush is also shown as a mature one from the beginning thanks to his Mom being alone and they being penniless and appreciating the help given to him by Maan Singh.)
Ratan does not realize his offer to help with Diya's wedding, even though is a sweet gesture, he needs to take care of not stepping on toes of her parents.
They have been nursing the wound of her cancelled wedding and his taking away every special moment from them is inconsiderate.
It was contrasted beautifully with Yash by writers. While he was eating the burnt roti she made and giving her confidence, Ratan is busy talking to her as Abhay.
I think the reason for showing these scenes is to highlight the difference in Diya and Ratan's sensibilities. They can be good friends in a matter of short time but it will take a long time for them to come to terms if they are married.
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