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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know of late there has been a lot of bashing going regarding Ananya; watching the serial since day 1, she gets carried away with her emotions especially when it comes to her father. Because of her love for him, she can't see things logically. Why not look at it from her side. She feels the one person she loved as much or more than her dad, lied. Yes, I agree that he was forced to do what he did but at the end of the day, Kabir did lie to her. I know he did it to protect her but he lied to her and that too about a sensitive issue. I don't like her behaviour but the Ananya we know would act this way no doubt. During the first half of the serial both Kabir and Ananya were at each other's throats. For Ananya, her dad was her hero and now she knows a half truth and this half truth implicates her second hero. She is broken and every time she is such, she uses anger or irrational behaviour to protect herself. She needs some time to digest things and once she does she will learn the truth...everyone makes mistakes but the true winner is who learns from these mistakes. Given the track record, Ananya will come around. She needs to deal with these emotions now and not after they get married. I think it's not right to compare Ananya to Shreya and Ananya is her younger sister. In no way has Ananya proved that. Even Kabir pointed out to Shreya that she could never be like Ananya because she could die for him but not Shreya as Shreya is selfish. If Kabir was in a life and death situation, Ananya would still in her frustrated state, come to his rescue. The love is there but trust has taken a hit. Kabir himself had said that from now on no secrets and we shard everything with each other but the truth is he went against this promise and withheld the truth. His intention was good but this current situation could have been avoided. Shreya and Manav are the instigators. I understand Anita is hurt but she needs to be practical and instead of fueling Ananya's anger, she needs to reason with her and get her to listen to Kabir's story once...
Nothing is lost yet...they just need to sit down and clear things between them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Being hurt and angry is one thing..and going on hurling illogical baseless accusations like being sold..selling integrity and all is completely insane...and cant be justified..cvs want us to hate her...now they will redeem her
Anita was always a gone case..dont bother to write abt her...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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That's my point, doing all that is irrational...and one thing we know, Ananya is irrational...but Kabir did lie to her...
Edited by ek_aarzoo - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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We can tolerate bad that happens with us,but can't tolerate if it happens with our loved ones...and Ananya is feeling the same...she can forgive Kabir for his mistakes in the past which affects her but can't easily when its her father,though she will after sometime...
Edited by saarthi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I love kaya but m not understanding y cvs went so extreme with both kabeer n ananya... kabeer could have said about SK wen he was revealing his past ...n now Ananya shud give one chance to kabeer to say his truth...

CVs really played a big twist here with kaya characters to put forward 'sach' n 'insaf' angle...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know. Kabir isn't being as forceful as he has been in the past about getting his point across and Ananya isn't being as receptive to the truth as she has been in the past.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ek_aarzoo

That's my point, doing all that is irrational...and one thing we know, Ananya is irrational...but Kabir did lie to her...


Kabir didn't lie to her. It was a fib, not a lie. The definition of a fib on dictionary.com is a trivial or harmless lie. Now a lie, on the other hand, is defined as a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive or cheat.

Kabir just hid the fact for obvious reasons. He was threatened. His family was threatened. His nephew was kidnapped. His bhabhi threw him out. Only he knows what he has gone through. In those circumstances he couldn't bare the facts to her. He had no deliberate intention to cheat or deceive. It was done with good intention of protecting the family that he loves. He dreaded a repeat performance.

I do agree that Ananya is hurt. She has every right to be angry. But that does not give her the liberty to slap him and hurl baseless and strong accusations that hit him under the belt. Both physical and mental abuse. Did she ever give him a chance to explain? She once told Malavika that she builds her stories on evidence. What is she doing here? Isn't it contradictory?

One cannot mix bad words with bad mood. Because you will get many opportunities to change your mood but you will never get an opportunity to retrieve the words once spoken.

"Quarrels end but words once spoken never die" says an African proverb. We are all aware of the famous story of a boy hitting a nail on the wall every time he got angry. This story was going around the mails. Finally when he removed the nails, he couldn't remove the dent that they made on the walls.

I have great respects for the writer / CV's / director /and the overall show. Hurts to see that they have forgotten this basic Truth here"words once spoken cannot be taken back. Wish they had given a thought to this factor. It would've been more close to reality than Ananya behaving in this irrational manner. She doesn't need to be so harsh.

Yes, it's a fiction and we need not get so upset. But #Reporters, Ananya, Kabir and all other characters have been so close to reality that we could relate to them. We could identify with them. We got attached to them. We could accept them with their flaws. I could accept Kabir with his ONS. I could accept Ananya with her impulsive behaviour and her MU with Kabir on earlier 2 occasions. I even loved for her childish behaviour. But the way she goes on hurling baseless accusations on Kabir is very surprising. I can't stand her any more. There's a limit. Wish #Reporters team take a note of this and don't take it further.

Majority in the Forum have started hating her. It pains to see that this particular character Ananya who has been so endearing in all 100 episodes has suddenly been made to be hated by the audience. Was it a deliberate attempt by them or was it plain overlook? I'm not even talking about Anita here. Its not worth a dime.

Whatever be it, in my view, the character Ananya can not be redeemed.

Edited by Vayuputras - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I love Ananya and I want Kabir to get his life, his happyness and his everything, in other words his Ananya back.
But she is behaving in a very pigheaded and bullheaded way right now

We have had this debate so many times and I guess most if us agree that it's fine if she is angry but her judgemental ways and refusal to listen is not right


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am more irritated with Anita than Ananya. Anita the matured character should have explained to Ananya or calmed her down.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree
Now days annaya behaviour is irritating me


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