Why Ananya - Tarini meet has suddenly become so urgent? - Page 2

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

I want Tarini Ananya meet...cause i want to ses tarinis version of story...how she ll bond with Ananya... Ananya meeting kabeers best frend ll not dwindle her blind trust on him...its natural progression... but yes eventually it ll happen... need to wait for right epi...

This is exactly what I meant to say. Sometimes, a few things have to delayed or adjusted to create the maximum impact !

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

True but then there won't be any discussions here

Oh I love and enjoy the discussions. But sometimes the speculations scare the hell out of me !

Originally posted by: violette

Its not abt wen to meet or why not meet.. its more abt the flow of the story..

and btw its not abt Ananya its abt Anita.. the mother.. and also abt the responsible honest trustworthy damaad tht he wants to b and his principled best friend..😳 all things said and done, thr relation shud b put forward to Kashyaps as its the natural course for this story..

I find it odd tht its not taken up yet as per me its high time this plot is introduced to keep the flow of "story telling" smooth! 😳 (If u read Paradigm's stories/FF.. u will get what I mean)

I hope the writerji gets it.. in the end its all abt story telling and executing it.. thr is wer I find Reporters slackening a bit and gets me disinterested..

for me any serial or a novel is all abt story of characters.. whom I like to see running its full logical cycle of birth to growth to maturity to a logical end..

Its not abt an epi or two..

anyways its jst my way of looking at serials.. ppl may differ..

bt at least yesterday thy redeemed the plot abt Kabir's brother/family... and the execution of yesterday's epi was much better thn some recent epis..

its jst honest criticism..if writer/makers can take it its good.. if not.. well.. in cannot b forced upon!😳

To each his/her own!😳

I really respect some ppl on this forum who can give thr honest criticism - love it when thy find it excellent and pan it wen thy find it slackening.. it shows how much thy appreciate this serial to come here and give thr honest reviews..😳

Well, don't know about writer Saab but I enjoy reading all the reviews, criticism and fangirling around Reporters ! :) I have my own set of disappointments with the show as well ! It is just that my bandh dimaag is not finding much faults in this particular direction.

Actually, don't know why but I feel Tarini doesn't have much left to do ! Yes! Her version might give this story a completely differently angle but I don't see any urgency on Anita's part either to meet Tarini. What will happen if she meets Tarini? Kabir and Tarini had a physical relationship albiet a night's mistake. This fact cannot be changed. Anita naturally expects Tarini to defend herself. She knows the fact that Tarini is still a part of Kabir's life. Will meeting Tarini anyhow assure her that in future such a thing would not happen? Only option left for her is to command Kabir to sever all ties with Tarini, which she might do in future. But what's the guarantee that the adulterer Kabir would not seek solace in someone else's arms ?
Its just that I am not able to see a purpose for a protracted AAnita-Tarini or Ananya Tarini meet.

But then its just my opinion and people can obviously differ ! :)

@BedouinMe,

Originally posted by: BedouinMe

Well, don't know about writer Saab but I enjoy reading all the reviews, criticism and fangirling around Reporters ! :) I have my own set of disappointments with the show as well ! It is just that my bandh dimaag is not finding much faults in this particular direction.

Actually, don't know why but I feel Tarini doesn't have much left to do ! Yes! Her version might give this story a completely differently angle but I don't see any urgency on Anita's part either to meet Tarini. What will happen if she meets Tarini? Kabir and Tarini had a physical relationship albiet a night's mistake. This fact cannot be changed. Anita naturally expects Tarini to defend herself. She knows the fact that Tarini is still a part of Kabir's life. Will meeting Tarini anyhow assure her that in future such a thing would not happen? Only option left for her is to command Kabir to sever all ties with Tarini, which she might do in future. But what's the guarantee that the adulterer Kabir would not seek solace in someone else's arms ?
Its just that I am not able to see a purpose for a protracted AAnita-Tarini or Ananya Tarini meet.

But then its just my opinion and people can obviously differ ! :)

Originally posted by: Geetha_R

@BedouinMe,

Annaya may not need to meet Tarini to get clarification about her place in Kabir's life. She does know Tarini is Kabir's most cherished friend, isn't it normal for anyone to want to meet your significant other's dear ones? Kabir made friendship with Annaya's friends, and it is nature for Ananya to reciprocate the same. When the makers delay this natural progression in story, it raises suspicion in viewers, are they delving it give us some jhatka?

Anita as a mother should want to know everything about Tarini before consenting for the engagement, it seems totally unrealistic after Shreya told her about Tarini still being very close to Kabir.

Exactly. Its a natural progression. I don't think it needs any arrangements. Hopefully it will happen eventually.
About Anita , I have mentioned in the above reply to @violette's post as to why I feel a Tarini Anita meet may not be very reassuring ! Just my opinion though..

As for the jhatka, of course its coming ! Warna itna delay kyun karte ?

Originally posted by: BedouinMe

Exactly. Its a natural progression. I don't think it needs any arrangements. Hopefully it will happen eventually.
About Anita , I have mentioned in the above reply to @violette's post as to why I feel a Tarini Anita meet may not be very reassuring ! Just my opinion though..

As for the jhatka, of course its coming ! Warna itna delay kyun karte ?

Originally posted by: violette

U see its not abt Tarini's defense.. its abt respecting the relations and reassuring a kind mother like Anita abt thr relation, letting her know abt the relation thy share, and also valuing and giving the due respect to fship thy share!

From Anita's pov too its very essential to meet Tarini, know what Kabir thinks of her jst for her reassurance. She cant have a blind faith on Tarini as well! Its highly impractical! And we still don't know whether Anita is looking from Kabir's perspective of his past and yet she has blindly given her consent! Now thts highly absurd as well! Neither Kabir nor Ananya have even talked abt Tarini to her and this was the very concerning point for her while deciding on approving this rship. Its highly absurd considering tht Tarini will remain a permanent fixture in Kabir's life!

So the more Anita-Ananya-Tarini get acquainted with each other the more Anita-Ananya can know abt Kabir-Tarini relation and get clear idea abt wer thy stand. Till thn its jst blind trust tht thy r basing this new relationship on!

Also the thing tht this mistake is taken lightly by both Kabir-Tarini and Ananya-Anita is the very thing I m pointing out! Obviously K-T relation is of affection beyond fship or thy wudnt have engaged in physical relationship in first place. Things once done/felt cannot b changed. We jst either repress it or replace it with something better. Kabir here took a moral stance on it. Tarini made peace with this ruining fact of her life. Thy sat, talked, and sorted things out bet thm and took a principled and positive stance on it bt Ananya-Anita need to know thr present status first hand, rather witness it first hand!

Also for how long can Kabir keep supporting Tarini? He is starting a new life. He will have new responsibilities. Wud he able to give Tarini the justice in terms of time, money, affection, closeness in future? New relationships change the dynamics of old relationships and Kabir-Tarini's is much more of a dependent relationship and it will affect both thr futures and hence thy need to come out of it.

Tarini agreeing to this one-time physical rship was a big thing in itself and Ananya deserves to know abt thr rship tht night. It was a mistake bt Tarini too needs to take responsibility of tht mistake. She also needs to apologize to Ananya in order to move on her life.

I hope makers r not planning to show Ananya not getting affected by Tarini-Kabir's physically proximal and affectionate rship at all. It wud b highly unbelievable! Ananya is after all human and a woman. she is ought to feel more insecure abt Tarini thn Shreya. She wud never dbt Kabir's love bt in practical situations, she will feel pain seeing thm together. Remember tht day in the hospital! And also the way Kabir's familiarity with Shreya affected her in tht restaurant.

Anany wud need some time to come in terms of thr rship of fship and I feel Kabir-Tarini shud've started taking steps in tht direction.

Its not abt the villians taking advantage of this situation or thr relation its abt making ur loved one feel secured, reassured, and less hurt!😳 A frank honest discussion at right time never harms anyone!😳 It eventually leads to good thing in long term!

Thanks for this post...this is what I am unable to understand...how would Tarini meeting either Anu or Anita will change what happened.

Originally posted by: Geetha_R

I beg to differ in one point. I don't think Tarini needs to apologise to Ananya, because the ONS happened much much before Ananya's entry into Kabir's life, Ananya has nothing to do with that part of Kabir's life, but Tarini needs to clarify to Ananya that she doesn't have any residual romantic feelimhs for Kabir, Kabir already clarified it to Ananya, and she also needs to hear it from Tarini, otherwise she would always feel insecure about their closeness (which is very natural). Ideally I would like one of typical Tarini dialogue about how lucky Kabir is to have Ananya in his life and how he got back his lost smile after Ananya made her presence in his heart. That would soothe any lingering Insecurities in Ananya.

--Apologize in the sense tht she needs to own responsibility of tht mistake as well in front of Ananya and yes make Ananya understand why it happened from her perspective. Kabir has his own version of understanding Tarini and abt tht night bt Tarini's cud b different. Tarini is wise enuf to know tht Shreya can make Ananya insecure thn how come she doesn't consider her effect on Ananya? Rather on her mother as well? I found Shreya rather prudent enuf to tap on those insecurities of mother bt K-T not wise enuf to reassure the poor mother! I was highly disappointed with the way both K-T took Ananya-Anita for granted regarding tht mistake! From the episode of Shreya, Kabir shud know tht it wud take time for Ananya to accept Tarini the way he does in his life! I cant believe tht K-T are not even thinking abt it! I wud b happy if Shreya takes advantage of it.. at least.. K-T-A wud b forced to face the situation! Also I don't want K-T engagement to happen without clearing this T thing. I m hoping to see this dhamaka this Friday on the same lines!😈

Yes, the status quo between the friends would change after marriage, now Tarini barges into Kabir's house (and vice versa) any time of the day or night which has to change for sure.

--I am sure Tarini is wise enuf.. bt is Kabir too? He wud err and hurt Ananya like he did with Shreya! In real life, it will take a very large heart for any woman to accept a woman with Tarini's past with one's man to give free access into one's house, when we cant even compromise with the rights of one's relatives by law!😆

About Kabir financially supporting Tarini, I don't think he gives her any money from his own pocket, he only ensures that she is employed and gets paid.

--Tarini's income depends on Kabir to some extent. I jst want to point out the dependency of Kabir-Tarini and how thy will need to work on it as well in order to accommodate Ananya's first rights on Kabir as his life partner!😳