Everything we see is a perception/our perspective not the Truth
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When we come across people in life we do have a certain perception about them...& we are so used to form impressions of other people...not just impressions, but the different conclusions we make about other people based upon our perception...& eventually as we get to know them better sometimes our perception about them turns true ...sometimes wrong...
Its really important before being judgmental or form an opinion about a person...we make an effort to know that person...as its not necessary that every time how we perceive people & situations will turn accurate 😆😆...how the famous saying goes "jo jaisa dikhta hai, zaruri nahi woh waisa hi ho"😛😛he/she can be exactly opposite to what we assume about him/her 😊😊
What Kabir summed up in Jaane se Pehle ...jinhe jaante hai unhe pehchane bina rai banana hai.."Aparikwakta" hai.😆😆 & its not exclusively for Richa..for her its goes without saying..😆😆😆 .."bahut perceptive hai aap "😛😛 but it holds right for Ananya too, not to be perceptive of Shreya...afterall how much you know of her...Infact as far as Shreya is concerned...Richa's perception about her too, is an instant impression of what she saw on outer front...😆😆
As for Kabir his present perception about Shreya will always a lingering doubt from his past experiences...😆😆 no matter how much she tries to be good, & she actually might be good but its gonna be really tough for Shreya to change Kabir's perception about her...😆😆
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Richa ji, her character is beyond my understanding...as much as I try to find logic behind her actions & reactions for being against KabirAnanya relationship its really difficult to understand... 😕😕😕For Malvika, Shreya (if she is) being against KabirAnanya, they have their own reasons & logic but for Richa, I think its plain jealousy on seeing her friend getting everything so easily...😕😆
Somewhere psychologically I think she is getting complexed to see Ananya settling in her life professionally & personally both...😊😊 where as Richa herself I dont think she have her own personal relationship to handle...& being a girl she might be also jealous as she see two people falling for her friend Ananya, no one for her...😆😆😆
Even professionally she is still stuck with idea, that Kabir supported her all the way & in future too will support her only because she is Ananya's friend...no matter how much Kabir clears himself out.😊😊
Agreed, being a "bachpan ki dost" she has full rights to be concerned about her friend but I think she is going too overboard with her concern...😆😆😆 I mean, to a certain extent she can warn her friend, but once she is not paying heed to her warning...let Ananya face the consequences herself...if even 1% Kabir is a wrong choice of life partner for Ananya...let her suffer a heartbreak herself...why to let your friendship relationship ruin for it... 😕😕 {Hope no one gets a friend over protective & intruding Richa in real life...unless she is proven right by 120th episode}.
Richa darling, you got it wrong why Ananya didn't wanted her mother to be at party not because she wants to hide the fact Shreya being here at KKN...its because she didn't want her to trouble her unnecessarily...& most importantly it was official party just among friends not a family get together...like Ananya said...😆😆😆
As for hiding from Mrs. Kashyap is concernced she wud not have got a shocking surprise seeing Shreya around, its just she needs to know about Shreya's arrival in a calm way not in a melodramatic way at a party...😆😆😆 Someday or other Mrs. Kashyap will get to face Shreya...& its not like, Kabir or Ananya have kept mrs. Kashyap in dark about Kabir being a divorced... Aunty ji knows Kabir has a ex wife...so she will handle situation accordingly...😊😊
Aunty ji ka tension mat lo Richa ji...she is more matured than you & have seen life more than you...😆😆😆 For once I was wondering Richa's situation if Kabir would have invited Mrs. Kashyap as a surprise for Ananya...bolti band hojati Richa ji ki...
On second thoughts if Mrs. Kashyap wud have witnessed the whole drama wonder if she would have still said Richa is "achi dost".
Last but not the least, if Ananya has turned from friend to foe, its not because of Kabir, but its because your over intrusion in Ananya's life...& like last time Ananya had said "khushi nahi dekhi jati toh mat dekh"
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For once even if we give consideration to Richa's perception that Kabir is the worst person in the world...& the most wrong person to be Ananya's boyfriend ...wonder if its just simply her perception, her assumption...the confidently she said "aage jakar dokha milega toh yahi dost yaad aaegi"...😕
Does she really have a strong reason behind it?? 😕😕 Does she is know something which no one knows?😕😕
Has Kabir done some crime in the past...was he a criminal of sorts, 😆😆😆 did he killed someone & Richa knows it...😆😆😆 the way she is constantly & confidently negative about Kabir, she is making him look like a psycho killer...who will just kill Ananya eventually 🤣
There should have to have a solid reason behind her hatred...& her confidence about Kabir being wrong & so much grudge towards him Richa's confidence & so much negativity about Kabir...sometimes scares me...wonder how she is so confident?? 🤔🤔
Even if Richa knows some more details about Kabir, in dat case, I think she should reveal that reason to Ananya if not to anyone else, instead of just ruining childhood friendship...coz no matter how much Richa tries to oppose KaYa relationship & she doesn't approve of it...without any strong valid reason no one gonna support her or believe her accusations on Kabir ...
And yes Richa ji, please being a divorcee, or ex coming back into life is not a strong enough reason...its not a crime being a divorcee...& many exes do happen to cross paths in life...it's a small world we live in...
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As for Ananya, can only feel sorry for her she has to handle situation both as a friend & girlfriend...nothing gets embarrassing & complicated than a friend questioning your choice of partner & simply rejecting your choice that too in front of your partner... as a person it's a situation of dilemma where whichever person you support other one gonna be offended.
But I think Ananya should get more stronger "the sherni she is"😃😃 ... when answering back Richa...(don't listen to Kabir "thoda shant hojao" 😆😆😆😆...but Richa deserves a similar dose from Ananya, like Malvika got from Kabir...😆😆 coz I really doubt if it wud be appropriate for Kabir to jump in two of them...be it as boyfriend or Boss...its better he stays off as long as he can...😊😊 no doubts he is the reason for the fight...but still its better if Richa-Ananya sort it themselves without Kabir's interference... 😊😊
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Ananya was bang on giving it back to Richa 😆😆😆 "apne affairs ghar lejakar discuss karti hai" (lagi mirchi Richa ji)😈😆😆 ...though the way Richa reacted, wonder if she suffered a heartbreak in her own love story 🤔...if yes, then it can also be one of reasons of her being cynical about Ananya finding love & having a happy love life minus all complications around, agreed "rishte mein bahaar nahi hai" but for once if we keep Shreya aspect aside Ananya does have a good love life, with a caring understanding boyfriend, whom even her mother has given her consent.😊😊
It was thoughtful of Kabir, that he made efforts for party for both girls, he didn't showed any biasness just because Ananya is her GF & kept party only for her...even when Richa was all in accusing mode, he didn't let it effect on his relation...& he handled the whole situation maturedly...best part Ananya didn't let Kabir justify himself to Richa or & even Kabir being matured in not saying anything to Richa...when she accused "sab aapki wajah se ho raha hai, aapki wajah se meri bachpan ki dost sabse badi dushman ban gayi"
You really got guts Richa ji, 😲😆 logically she was literally offending her boss by showing so much attitude...really Richa went too far with her comments...irrespective of fact how much dislike she has for Kabir as Ananya's boyfriend...at end of day he is her boss...an editor in chief...if comes to use his authority it will not take him a second to take action against her... Ananya might be her friend or foe whatever, she can say anything to Ananya...but not to her senior, her boss...😕😕
As Richa doesn't accept Ananya's relationship with him...Kabir need not require to be considerate or soft towards her as a Boss...Richa ji should thank her stars that Kabir doesn't mix his professional & personal life else he wud have fired you right there & then...😆😆😆
Even while conversation with Ananya while dropping back home Kabir didn't hold any hard feelings for Richa...as he knows when people form perceptions without knowing anyone...its shows their immaturity...😛😆😆
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Irrespective how party turn out Promotion party, was a nice idea from best friend aur Boyfriend 😊😊...Ananya lucky girl...😃😳😳 waise I was expecting party at a better place, not at KKN itself...channel no.1 party bhi yahi, Trisha farewell party bhi yahi...not fair...😆😆😆 but still party toh party hai...🥳so Kabir does deserve a thank you with a kiss ... I mean a Thank you...😆😆 which I guess Ananya forgot to say to Kabir 😛 after Richa ji created the whole drama...
Kabir inviting Shreya to the party, was not too surprising, as if she would have agreed it wud have given a chance to Kabir to observe her actions more...but guess he missed the chance... & Shreya darling he was not just testing...even if she would have joined party it wud have been useful & when she didn't then too its useful for him to know her better...Kabir doesn't do anything without no reason...
As of now, Hugs to poor boy, so many difficult ladies to deal with...😆😆😆 as if only Malvika, Shreya were not enough Richa has to join the list...All the best Kabir...hope you along with Ronnie are able to sort out one single "mahila" ...& rest two handle singlehandedly...😆😆😆
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p.s."CVs... missing 9 baje kabir ke saath... let Kabir return to newsroom, dealing with all personal tsunami in life...professional life gone for a toss...😆😆😆 it will be a nice distraction for him from "do mahilas" 😆😆 plus recently added one more...
Greedy me, can we another disguise or news story by KabirAnanya... (Tinu/ Laxman come up with some good lead)😛😛😆
p.p.s"considering Kabir's this party didn't turned out the way he had planned, can boyfriend plan out another party exclusively for his girlfriend...
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Do not judge ME...until you Know Me...
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Episode 80
August 06, 2015
