--Dealing with Past--

It takes a lot of courage & trust to look past what you have been through...& trust someone all over again to not to put you through it again.

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Its a general advice we usually give to everyone...when "Past comes knocking on door, dont answer...but its easier said that done...coz when past comes & catches up with you its almost impossible to stay unaffected or just pretend to ignore it...& in order to deal with past, ideally we tell other person to let go bygone be bygone & just move on ...dont dwell into past...look into future & all philosphical things...but only person who goes through it, goes the situation of facing & dealing the past ...knows its not easy to let bygone be bygone when past has deeply effected you as a person emotionally...& just when you realize you have moved on from past...Past just catches up like a punch on your face...
Every individual has its own way of handling his/her own past...same goes for Kabir Ananya too...

Ananya feels Kabir should let go off his past grudge, his pain & just for once & for all face the past, & finish it off...which I guess had been one of the main reason Kabir gave in to one attempt to meet Shreya once again & ask her directly on her face "Kyun aayi ho tum yaha" ...so that he is in a much better position & more firm on whatever decision he takes.

Kabir's reaction, of just resigning no matter looks unprofessional & unethical on outer context...but its his way of dealing with past, he doesn't want past to make a presence felt in his present & future because if stays back in KKN no matter how much he tries sooner or later, Shreya will surely have an adverse effect...& I'm glad to see Kabir has reacted in a normal human reaction...& didn't tried to be heroic or portray himself unaffected when actually he is not...He cant fake up emotions...just for the heck of being professional.

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For Ananya I can say only one thing, infact want to request her something that whatever Kabir said to her "dil pe nahi lene ka" 😆 poor boy, he is just pissed off & irritated because of drastic changes in his life...he is expected to be frustrated to find himself & his life in a mess that too unprepared...where he is unsure what situations future gonna thow at him...to be precise "his past" throws at him...& his biggest irony is no one is making effort to understand his point of view instead everyone blaming him to be unprofessional, not being a man enough to face his past, face shreya, work with Shreya...but only he knows what he has gone through in past...& working with Shreya would just mean living with past day in & day out...working with ex-wife with whom you share a bitter past & be cool & unaffected by it in name of professionalism is easier said than done...😆😆

Can't blame Kabir to be frustrated...😆😆 his life was going smoothly, just when he thought nothing can go wrong for him...life just changes for him 360 degree...& unannounced past comes back in front of him & he is expected to deal with it like a ideal professional...but at end of day he is human being...& him resigning & staying away from his past is his natural reaction...I mean anyone else in his place wud do same...its not easy to deal with past & just be cool about it "koi fark nahi padta" when actually it really effects you as a person too much...Kabir just needs time & space to get back his wits & emotions to deal with Shreya, he is literally caught unaware this time round in his life...waiting & expecting for "The Kabir Sharma" we have known all along to strike back...who knows all the moves how to check mate his opponent even in adverse situations...

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Ananya may not be letting her defenses down in front of Kabir just to show her support & be his strength in these times...whether she accepts to Kabir in words or not but somewhere deep down Kabir also knows & Ananya herself knows that she is effected by Shreya's presence...only difference is Kabir is showing it openly "how past is effecting him"...& Ananya is not letting Kabir know her apprehensions & Shreya's effect on her...

Man was really pissed off "main us aurat ke saath kaam nahi kar sakta"...felt so sorry for him...when he wants someone to understand him...no one is understanding ...everyone is holding him guilty of being unprofessional...Kabir needs someone who can put self in his shoes & then see through situations...& for that its important that Ananya just for once sits & patiently hears out his past instead of just refusing...& if she doesn't want to listen the past then stay stuck to what she had said during confession "aankhein band karke yakeen" when he says he cant work with Shreya, then he simply cant...its as simple as that..😛😆 .so just let it be...why to force him back to join KKN...& question his decision of resigning from KKN...

Ananya is not seeing beyond the matter, like Kabir is seeing...Ananya is just looking at present picture...but Kabir is seeing the bigger & broader picture...its not as simple as it sounds, to just work under ex wife, or question of dealing with past practically & professionally...its about Shreya's effect on future...personally & his future with Ananya...

I guess, more than Kabir running away from past...its Ananya who is running away from Kabir's past...initially when immediately after confession she refused to know about past it showed her love & trust on Kabir...& infact it was her maturity that she had no issues with kabir's past...but now, with Shreya back in picture...I guess for once & for all Ananya should sit down hear it out what Kabir has to say about his past...considering man himself is always ready to share his past...It wud be better for Ananya to know why exactly its not easy for him to be just a professional with Shreya's presence in KKN...she will be in a better position to understand Kabir, his actions, his reactions...without knowing the past ...she cant just expect him to be cool about dealing with past...may be once if she knows about his past...even she may support Kabir's decision of not working with Shreya. ...Most importantly it will give both of them a common way of dealing of past instead of dealing it individually...😊😊

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I'm not being biased but Kabir does have a point that it because of only Ananya he changed his decision & accepted, signed the contract...😛agreed Ananya hadn't forced him to sign...neither never said that she wud be sad if he doesn't accept the contract...but the happiness & excitement she showed when Kabir told her...just showed the level of happiness she felt & will feel once he accepts the contract...& the fact remains that if not for her, Kabir was pretty clear in his head that he doesn't want more power, he is happy being just simply an editor in chief...as his priorities had changed...& he no more desired to achieve more power ...but because Ananya showed the happiness & excitement of being GF of co-owner...& somewhere Kabir felt just accepting the offer wud make her happier & he had promised Ananya's mother that he will keep her happy...& if just signing a contract & giving away 3 years of life makes her a happy girlfriend ...he let go off his own inner instinct & simply changed her decision...& even if now Kabir wud once again change his decision & takes back resignation it will be because of her

(I'm so reminded of dialogue from LRL ... *sigh* my captain---who have seen LRL, wud get the connection ---when pooja had said to Naina ---"capt kuch karte hai toh bhi tere liye karte hai...kuch nahi karte toh bhi tere liye karte hai")😆

The only point when Kabir went too far with his comment "tum logon ne kahin ka nahi choda" & it would have really pinched Ananya... I was like bechari ne kya kiya...😆 why to include her in same league like K L & Khalid...I mean she is not a fortune teller or mind reader or can forsee future like smarty Richa😛😆,...ab Ananya ko thodi pata tha, that immediately after signing contract Shreya would come back...It was mean of Kabir, to include Ananya in list along with K L & Khalid...for that one comment I think Kabir was being unfair...😕

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Everything said & done one thing dat was to be noticed that Kabir saab's GF is smart like him...but she is still in learning stage...she may have not accepted it to Kabir but she is slowly getting the point of Shreya's entry to KKN...& Kabir shouldn't have been kept in dark either by K L , Khalid & Shreya herself...its gonna be Ananya's first step to realization to delve into more into Shreya's ulterior motive...

K L, hope was serious when he said he gives an open space & enough time for Kabir to ponder over his decision & will not slap notice on him for breaching contract...but I really doubt how much Kabir gonna trust him after being feel cheated just a day back...& to add on Shreya's comment that she came back for him...Really feel sorry for Kabir...Hugs to him....as of now he is just going deeper into mess...where everyone is trying to just control him...poor boy he is stuck from all sides.

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Ronnie Baba, all the best to you too, I really wonder if you will be able to patch up Ananya & Richa...gradually I can see these two drifting apart...so no use of wasting time & energy...for once you might be able to handle Ananya...as she is easy to make things understand...but Richa, a tough nut to crack boy...afterall she is anti-Kabir... "Kabir ke khilaaf muhim chala rahi hai" 😆😆😆

I really like Richa's confidence...I mean the amount of trust & belief she has in Shreya...I'm starting to have doubts if Shreya & Richa are BFF & know each other since years... Richa's confidence on Shreya & her love for Kabir is commendable...i mean itna yakeen toh khud Shreya ko bhi nahi hoga...ki who Kabir se pyaar karti hai...& somewhere Richa's level of confidence scares me, if gradually it wud be second KaYa (Kabir Shreya) together instead of original KaYa (Kabir Ananya)... I really wonder if what Richa said gonna come true...& I wud love to see her face, when everything what she said turns false...& eventually she sees Kabir Ananya happily together being each other's strength & support.😃

But must confess girl really has to much trust & confidence on Shreya... the way she is confident about Kabir-Shreya's past...& their love...& she is Miss know it all, about "Kabir-Shreya's rishte ka sach" I wont be surprised if eventually its revealed that Richa is Shreya's BFF all along...that is something I leave it to future to unfold...but seriously her confidence is scaring me about the future...& an apprehension about worse of fears to come true...at this moment I wud like to as positive like Khalid till 120^th episode...

As of now, girl's face was worth watching seeing Ananya putting her in place & asking her not to interfere..."kaise ek second mein mujhe sunakar chali gayi" ...lady you deserved it long back...but it was just because Ananya was being sweet & calm all along... & you started taking too much liberties...& yes not surprised to the ambitious professional Richa, who was pretty happy & excited taking Kabir's place at 9pm slot...😛😆

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Lets see whats in store for Kabir-Ananya & for us...if this time round Kabir will be able to manaofy his GF without help of Baba Anuraag & Tarini...😆
If these two will be able to come together deal with Shreya...or if she will be manage to drift them apart...😕😕
Good Luck to Kabir Ananya...& hoping to see "The Kabir Sharma" be back soon in attack mode as soon as possible...😛😆 ..hope he is back with a bang with all the moves 😛😳& make your darling ex-wife regret her decision of joining KKN & coming face to face with you after all these years...

So, its showtime,
To face...both Sach & Haqeqat...😛😆& deal with both present & past simultaneously.😛😆


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Sometimes people with worst of past
end up creating best of future for themselves...as each struggle & pain in their pasts...guides & strengthens them.


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Episode 73
July 28, 2015

wow brilliant analysis...aaj aapka aur mallikaji ka analysis cha gaye...wonderful...abd the last quote super and Perrrfffecccttt

Purnima loved your opening remarks

Originally posted by: Winn

wow brilliant analysis...aaj aapka aur mallikaji ka analysis cha gaye...wonderful...abd the last quote super and Perrrfffecccttt

thanx for liking 😃😃
& glad to know you loved the post & quote 😳😳😳

as always i loved your post and will always do... coz it has so much depth and certain things which we as viewers dont understand on screen , you make it clear and perfect with your powerful use of words... it will be glad if you give a short explanation of jaane se pehle.. between reality and truth and comapring it with ananya and shreya. I hope yopu dont mind

Good analysis...
Ananya yeh thik nehi kr rahi hain.. kabir needs her.. but wo samjhti nehi..
Gussa dikha rahi hain.. yeh time gussa dikha ne nehi hain.. kabir ko support krna Hain..
Mera bp to bahut high ho rahi hain.. ab kya hoga?? No mu between kaya plzzz...
Writer ne to bola tha un dono ka love story peak pe hain.. but yeh kya ho raha hain...
Koi writer ji ko puchho plzzz.. mujhe kuch achha nehi lag rahi hain.

Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Purnima loved your opening remarks

But yaar aisa na kaho waise hi mere bp ki aisi ki taisi ho rakhi hai and you are talking abt other Kaya (Kabir Shreya)beats chest...

In kabir's words Handle nahin hota pls

But excellent review loved your advice for Anu ...fil pe nahin lene ka par usne le liya hai as per precap😆

Koi mujhe Shreya ki janam.kundali de do pls just want to see woh kiske haathon pitegi Ananya Kabir or Malvika

You are right at the moment Kabir needs someone to listen to his pov instead of judging him

Aur yeh Ronnie pe mujhe bahut doubt hai

Lets see what convo Kabir has with Shreya and what really made him come back ofcohrse Anu is one reason

thanks for liking & dropping in to leave a comment...
Lolz sorry for scaring with second KaYa 😆😆😆 but as I said, the level of confidence with which Richa spoke it really made my antenaas go high up in air...😆😆...I know I'm being illogical & unreasonable about possibility of second KaYa...but Richa darling scared me...more than anyone else the way she said "ek din sach saamne aaega & ananya pachtaegi" it got me thinking😕😆
Richa didn't raised a doubt about a possibility of Shreya loving Kabir, but she seemed to be 200% sure about it...as she just came back after chatting with Shreya 😆😆😆
I really want to know what exactly is basis of her such strong conviction all along that Kabir gonna cheat Ananya...& she will regret loving Kabir...
its no hard & fast rule that a divorced man cant stay committed in second time love...
I'm curious on what basis Richa has gone all anti Kabir, risking her friendship with Ananya, agreed she can have a difference on opinion about Ananya falling in love with Kabir...but so much conviction & confidence on Shreya's love who is as new to her as Shreya is for us audience...when we cant see the emotion named love in Shreya for her ex husband, how Richa can see it 😕😕😕

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shreya ki janam kundali ...I guess Richa wud have it considering she knows everything about her...& I'm betting on Kabir...it gonna be he who will put Shreya in her place 😆😆😆afterall ex wife hai uski...he knows how exactly to deal with her 😆😆😆😆
& guess I got late in giving advice to anu 😆😆😆😆 dil pe le hi liya 😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: yawfeh

as always i loved your post and will always do... coz it has so much depth and certain things which we as viewers dont understand on screen , you make it clear and perfect with your powerful use of words... it will be glad if you give a short explanation of jaane se pehle.. between reality and truth and comapring it with ananya and shreya. I hope yopu dont mind

thank you so much for liking & glad to know post really comes as a help 😃😃...& ofcourse thank u for kind words... *me blushes* 😳😳😳

As for JSP, more than anyone else it was for Kabir himself...
Sach for him is--- that he cant work with Shreya for whatever reasons...& he wud be hating her all through his life, irrespective of fact he has moved way ahead of his past...but truth will always remain that he can never stop hating her...dats sach of his life which will be with him forever...
He may run away from the past, from sach...but not from Reality... .he will have to work with Shreya, he will have to deal with her...because of contract...&as by signing contract he almost committed himself to KKN.

in context of Ananya---Sach is Shreya , Kabir's past is back in their life & unconsciously affecting either of them irrespective how uneffected Ananya potrays herself to be...but Shreya is here thats the truth & reality both...& she will have to live with & face it... she will not be able to support Kabir as a partner in his decisions unless she knows his whole past...she refusing to know the past is Ananya's way of escape from Kabir's past...from his sach...but the reality is the past is here to effect them...& its effecting both of them individually & as a couple too...

Shreya's sach is I guess yet to unfold...as of now her reality is she is back to work with her ex husband & will have to bear his consequences 😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: -purnima-

thank you so much for liking & glad to know post really comes as a help 😃😃...& ofcourse thank u for kind words... *me blushes* 😳😳😳

As for JSP, more than anyone else it was for Kabir himself...
Sach for him is--- that he cant work with Shreya for whatever reasons...& he wud be hating her all through his life, irrespective of fact he has moved way ahead of his past...but truth will always remain that he can never stop hating her...dats sach of his life which will be with him forever...
He may run away from the past, from sach...but not from Reality... .he will have to work with Shreya, he will have to deal with her...because of contract...&as by signing contract he almost committed himself to KKN.

in context of Ananya---Sach is Shreya , Kabir's past is back in their life & unconsciously affecting either of them irrespective how uneffected Ananya potrays herself to be...but Shreya is here thats the truth & reality both...& she will have to live with & face it... she will not be able to support Kabir as a partner in his decisions unless she knows his whole past...she refusing to know the past is Ananya's way of escape from Kabir's past...from his sach...but the reality is the past is here to effect them...& its effecting both of them individually & as a couple too...

Shreya's sach is I guess yet to unfold...as of now her reality is she is back to work with her ex husband & will have to bear his consequences 😆

awesome and thanks once again... what do you think will shreya drift them apart? or they will fight back together? since only 47 episodes are left , lot to show..any gueses or ideas?

nice analysis... but I have no sympathies for kabir for being mean to ananya... he was frustrated truw...but he put ananya in league with shreya by saying u women always enjoy showing off... wasnt his past always shown saying kabir u r a failure... so he knows shreya always wanted to be in limelight n kabir cudnt give her that... he feels ananya's i will be a co-owners GF is in similar lines.. in his anger n frustration he doesnt realise ananya had said that she will be co-owner's GF in a light way...fun way... she just told him to rethink be cause she thot that was his dream... n she dint want to be the reason for his change of dreams...