Is it just me or Kabir Sharma's defenses are melting down??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hadn't seen the epi at 9 PM tonight and when I read the forum I really thought that Mr. Sharma has manipulated our girl real bad. Ofcourse this man so knows how to use his charms to keep women around him under control! So I thot whats the big deal if he manipulated Ananya too? 😳

But dude! watching the epi I am in a fix. Dunno is it just me or someone else too felt that Mr. Kabir Sharma's defenses were melting down...though only by a centimetre may be but they were! And this in itself is a big thing for a man like him!! He lifted her in his arms, he treated her foot, he almost pulled her onto himself and twirled his leg around her (*Shittt cvs I <3 u for this*) ☺️ And all this while he even knew somewhere she is getting affected by their closeness and he tried to use the same trick he uses with other women...by forcing them admit to his charms...but amidst all this, I LITERALLY saw him getting so affected by her and that too not once but multiple times. He was trying hard to tease her by repeatedly asking what was she thinking, but did someone actually feel that this was more of a defense mechanism to divert himself from the unexpected strange affect this girl was having on him!! I felt this so many times. Specially when they bent down and were in lying position, gosh he was just mesmerized. It was so there in his eyes. But again he diverted the topic by putting it onto her.

@Rinni - You asked in another post of yours that are you really shipping for KaYa? And my answer is YES!, specially after tonight's epi, its a BIG YES!! You know why...because from the looks of it, we feel that for Ananya handling so much of baggage and coping with Kabir's manipulative and complex nature will be a a huge task at hand and this will take away the innocence from her life...her true self. But I feel this is because we perceive it to be a one big task which it is not. It shall be a gradual process. As time will pass, Kabir's experience, his complexities, the understanding of why he reacts to certain situations in a certain way will make Ananya strengthen her steel. Ananya is someone who will never shy away from learning the difficult things from him. She will burn but glow under the heat of his passion - both professionally and personaly. And slowly, gradually, the warmth of her goodness, her support, her trust will continue to bring down his defenses, will continue to open his knots. It wont be one drastic event. It will take a hell lot of time but I feel none of them will need too much effort for this change...they will simply evolve to suit to each other and fit into each other like pieces of a puzzle to make a beautiful picture. Yes she will have to face a lot, his insecurities, his daemons, his complexities, but it wont be even that tough. Coz all this while, under the warmth and tenderness of her sweet company, his wounds will themselves begin to heal. And her wings will themselves spread apart, as he will become the unseen wind beneath them 😳 And till the time will come when they will have to pass the testimony of fire, I am sure they must have come a long way. At that time, she wont any longer just be a stupid fangirl and he at that time wont any longer just be a shrewd manipulative senior journalist. Both of them would have evolved to become a more amalgamated version of each other till then. There will be a lot of Ananya in Kabir and a lot of Kabir in Ananya. And that will just ensure the blow even if rips them but never destroys them. They will suffer, they will be in pain, they will really burn but by then their bond and the mutual sync would be so strong they will withstand any deadly blows.

At the end I would say, it wont be about his effort or her effort, its about their 'togetherness' that will sail them...their mutual impact on each other will do the needed good. Which is much evident from tonight itself...srsly I never expected Kabir Sharma will ever have to do that 'extra' effort to stay in control 😆😆 And really he was working hard tonight...working hard to stay in control of his emotions, which is a really good sign IMO

PS I hope I made some sense with this post...may be i am just seeing too much or it is the effect of going to work afteran extended weekend 😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very Well written analysis!!
I agree, Mr. Sharma is melting down, I think so is Ananya, the thing to be seen is who gives up first!! :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well of course he is affected by her - projection is a known psychological phenomenon - what you can't face in yourself you project onto others by accusing them.

Now that it is typically used for negative feelings and judgements but given Mr Kabir Sharma's resistance we can make a special case and interpret it his unwillingness to face his attraction/feelings for Ananya. LOL


Completely agree with and love your comments to Rinnie - it will evolve with grace - beautifully written an analysed
Edited by eternalasha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You have actually made PERFECT sense with this post. In fact I was thinking the same after watching today's episode. He was constantly teasing her only to pacify his racing heart, "No Kabir u are not getting affected, its just your regular flirting".. But mannn !!! This time it was not. He was literally lost in her eyes, when they hid themselves behind that log. Did u notice his intense expressions of pain and concern when Ananya sprained her foot !!! Then, when he lifted her, he was restraining himself from looking straight into Ananya's eyes.. But ultimately when he's unable to resist her glance, he ends up cracking a joke, only to divert his own mind.
Kal tak lag raha tha that he's doing all to distract Ananya but today it kinda seemed he himself needs some distractions.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: archpai

Very Well written analysis!!

I agree, Mr. Sharma is melting down, I think so is Ananya, the thing to be seen is who gives up first!! :)
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Thanks buddy!
As of now he is mellowing process hasnt even started, just that he is a bit too much affected by a girl after a long time. And he probably doesnt even realize the deep consequences of the affects she is having on him. As I said its quite gradual. This reminds me of a quote..."Its strange how one day after another nothing changes in life, but if we look back at it after a while, we realize how far we have come along"...it will be the same for Kabir! Till he will be able to put the pieces together and realize where he has come, the beautiful damage will already be done! 😳
Edited by Malika - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I beg to differ with you here.
I don't think Kabir is falling for her or having any sort of romantic feelings towards her as of now.
But he is evidently much more comfortable with her now.

We have seen a different side of Kabir in this particular track and I feel that is because of two things , firstly the kind of preposterous situations they both were trapped in, and secondly he spent every moment with Ananya the past week which put him at ease with her, I feel.

Having said that, Kabir has definitely dropped his defenses a bit, not in the way you are saying but in the way he is behaving with her. He is teasing her, joking around with her.. I don't think he shows this side of him to any other woman\girl.
This is just my opinion.

Keeping all that aside, the day Kabir starts falling for Ananya I will become a true Kaya shipper. That does not mean that I am not their fangirl 😳 Rajeev and Kittu look hot together <3 I feel there is a lot of time for them to actually treat one another as equals and then only will they be able to love each other. Kabir falling for Ananya will be epic. Seeing that side of him will be amazing. I am just waiting with baited breath for that day to come.

P.S I don't give such long replies to anyone. I have no idea why I wrote so much shit here 😆 Pardon me if it didn't make any sense. I haven't slept in over 24 hours.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: supriya.ipkknd

I beg to differ with you here.

I don't think Kabir is falling for her or having any sort of romantic feelings towards her as of now.
But he is evidently much more comfortable with her now.

We have seen a different side of Kabir in this particular track and I feel that is because of two things , firstly the kind of preposterous situations they both were trapped in, and secondly he spent every moment with Ananya the past week which put him at ease with her, I feel.

Having said that, Kabir has definitely dropped his defenses a bit, not in the way you are saying but in the way he is behaving with her. He is teasing her, joking around with her.. I don't think he shows this side of him to any other woman\girl.
This is just my opinion.

Keeping all that aside, the day Kabir starts falling for Ananya I will become a true Kaya shipper. That does not mean that I am not their fangirl 😳 Rajeev and Kittu look hot together <3 I feel there is a lot of time for them to actually treat one another as equals and then only will they be able to love each other. Kabir falling for Ananya will be epic. Seeing that side of him will be amazing. I am just waiting with baited breath for that day to come.

P.S I don't give such long replies to anyone. I have no idea why I wrote so much shit here 😆 Pardon me if it didn't make any sense. I haven't slept in over 24 hours.


Hey supriya! Thanks for the amazing reply and I totally appreciate your view. No you didnt say anything that doesnt make sense, rather it makes complete sense. And actually that's what I meant when I said he has begun to drop his defenses. I am not saying he is romantically into her. But he is surely intrigued by her. When I say he was mesmerized by her, I don't mean her beauty or her physical proximity. But the overall impact of her presence. It definitely stirs him, whether he accepts it or not! It is totally subconscious as of now. He isn't even aware of it or hasn't even remotely thought of it. He is a man who likes to remain in full control of his emotions. He knows women go weak in knees just by one affectionate look of his and well he uses that trick unabashedly too! But NEVER have I seen him get least affected by any of the women he flirts with. He is in perfect ease with even Malvika. All this hugging and flirting goes on with her too, BUT never does his expressions waver there. Then why with Ms. Kashyap? There is definitely more to what he feels for her. Its not romantic, love is far off. It's something about she unknowingly playing with the hidden strings of his heart. She is attracted to him, idolizes him, believes in him and trusts him too, but still while doing all this she never loses her own identity, she shares his ethics, his values, that he masquerades behind his shrewd self, she is as emotional and attached as he once used to be, and most of all, she shares his manzil and is happily ready to be his humrahi. 😳No woman has ever done all this for him. That too so casually. And the whole of it DOES affect him. He has himself let his guards off for her that I doubt he would do if it were someone else. Her enigmatic personality has forced him to do it...subconsciously though. And I can bet on this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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A wonderful post and a superb analysis of both the characters...I too would like to add a few points...
Kabir is definitely affected by Ananya...He has always seen \her as a person who is different from others...Her values, her willingness to fight for the right...to bring to task wrong-doers...all may be reminding him of what he was when he started off...something seems to have happened which has taken that innocence and drive out from him and made him the calculating, manipulative person is today...this has been seen in two instances clearly...one when he says something similar to Malvika...and recently in the 'jaane-se-pehle' part about emotions...

He does have emotions/feelings for her but will definitely try to suppress them...maybe because of his divorce..or whatever had transpired in his past...He may have even realised that Ananya has started getting attracted to him..or even falling for him...He definitely will not respond by expressing his feelings so soon...in the process he may even hurt her feelings...

As for Ananya I agree with your analysis...I also feel she will be the first to show her feelings...on Kabir not responding she definitely will be hurt...she may even turn to Ronnie for emotional support...but i hope it ends there...she may be emotional but she is a girl who has her head firmly screwed on to her shoulders...she will not accept defeat...she will try to find out why he is as he is...and proceeding from there with her understanding she'll definitely change his way of thinking and reacting...and finally emerge the winner...

Just hope it all happens in a mature way without negative characters surfacing...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh yes, baby!! 😎
Errm.. or it's the fangirls in us wishing for something to start brewing between them..
Anyhow.. who cares!

Malika, I think it's too early to say that his defenses are melting.. but yes she is definitely affecting him, and not in a romantic way, as much as we'd like that to happen..
By the looks of it, he hasn't allowed himself to get close to anyone, or vice-versa ever since his divorce.. Even Laxman and Tarini being good friends and well-wishers of his, it feels as though he holds back a part of himself -the one that has survived those traumatic experiences..

Like he said in a Jaane se pehle moment few days ago, this jungle mein mangal is going to bring to the fore a lot of hidden emotions too..
Yesterday we saw him laugh openly.. And mind u, there was not one ounce os fakeness there..
He thoroughly enjoys teasing her, watching her get all flustered, and yet he has started feeling protective of her, for reasons we've described before..

Now with the phone convo and cooking skills demonstration, looks like he's allowing himself to slip into a comfortable zone with her, unknowingly..
But we know KS doesn't blink without a purpose.. soo maybe it's not the guilt or maybe ut isnt as bad as RN.. Coz if it was, he would have withdrawn from her.. But he doesn't..
In fact, he's relishing their newly made friendship.. That in itself gives me hope..

Yes, there will be setbacks when her father's case is brought up, but am darn sure that he will be her guiding light, and she is ray of hope.. ❤️

Their love story, has yet to start.. Socho humara kya hoga.. 🤪
Anyway.. but this journey towards companionship is a delight to watch and live thru..

A fantastic post, my friend.. my shipper heart sprang to life.. 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very nice post Enjoyed reading everyone's views
But me too feel he is still not there as we are expecting yes he is now comfortable with her he is enjoying her company and caring well I think he would have shown that for even Richa or Trisha if they wete caught in such situation
But the real feelings of Kabir Sharma will only be known once his past is revealed
As we allhave now understoodhe night not be that guilty in Ananya's father case else he would have withdrawn from her so may be he might help her and that wpuld bring Anu even more closer to him not that she is not now she is totally completely smitten by him

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