is that only me about paro..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes i do know parud love is pure, and they have understanding.
but i feel paro forgets what rudra is in her life, she sometimes gives more importance to others that rudra.
when MASA entered ,her preference shifted from rudra to MASA , now it looks she is drifting towards shantanu,
No i am not doubting her love or trust for rudra, but she cannot balance.

where rudra is very clear and he does not care a damn when it comes to paro.

paro is weak as a character to me, it good to be naive, and caring but she needs to draw line.
she cannot give equal weight age to others and rudra.

it does creates issue in relationship.

if i can see that drift am sure rudra can too.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post..totally agree with you. .paro baisa again come back on same mod...she lives in her own self believe and can't think beyond that but rudra is very clear whatever he does...koi baat nahi rudra hai na. .
Edited by sukhminderkaur7 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly.😲I too feel the same. Paro is over trusting😡. But not trusting her husband's intuition🤢.Why cant she just focus on Rudra like his focus on her.Trusting a complete stranger is ridiculous even in real life.That to when ur a army officer's wife with a clear threat chasing behind u.Sure she is going to regret it later like in Laila's case.Hope its not too late then😭.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: multimediaa

Exactly.😲I too feel the same. Paro is over trusting😡. But not trusting her husband's intuition🤢.Why cant she just focus on Rudra like his focus on her.Trusting a complete stranger is ridiculous even in real life.That to when ur a army officer's wife with a clear threat chasing behind u.Sure she is going to regret it later like in Laila's case.Hope its not too late then😭.

Yes, but shantanu is much more dangerous then laila. .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro has always been like that,, Trusting everything under the sun over Rudra,, and especially those ppl who Rudra is suspicious abt,,
She has done the mistake twice,, First in the form of Tejawat and then laila,, but she does not seem to learn,, One has to just sing his/ her sob story and Paro is all game,, The moment she says BHAROSA , it rattles me to the core,,
CVs ur definition of innocence is really skewed and shallow,, It doesnt hav to be correlated with ignorance always,,
It is too much difficult to understand n connect urself to someone as white as Paro,, Its like questioning a general viewer's intelligence,,

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Posted: 11 years ago
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How is she shifting her balance? CVs specifically made her answer your question today, nobody equates with her Major sahaab.
Today everyone was in character, Paro is trusting by nature and Rudra is suspicious. The latter is also a BSD officer they have to make him ask questions otherwise Rudra's characterization would be killed.

Why blame Paro for believing Shantanu's story the rest of the family did too including Danveer. Shantanu came with VK Singh's recommendation letter, Aman says he did background check, said to be a decorated BSD officer with impeccable record so why blame Paro on this. It the faulty investigation of the BSD if they cannot figure out an intruder despite background check.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sukhminderkaur7

Yes, but shantanu is much more dangerous then laila. .

Exactly.That what is making it more frustrating.Angry
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro is an Indian telly heroine so he has to think that everyone is good only... But today she said no one can equal her Major...For her the guy is in house by VK singh order so she trusts him since she thinks BSD officers are good by seeing Aman and VK singh. But Rudra is suspicious.
Even Paro has to grow up from being so naive...may be this time its her turn to grow up a little :)


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I felt they were both very much in character ... Paro is trusting by nature, and family is her weakness ... yes, they haven't brought that out in long sob scenes, but it's been shown time and again in small dialogues. Shantanu has come recommended by VK Singh, they knew of his arrival ... Aman is unsuspicious of him, so is Danveer and they are two BSD officers. If the elders in the family accept Shantanu, then it would be strange for Paro to question him.

Paro knows Rudra finds it difficult to trust anyone ... she knows his nature ... and she herself always tries to look for the good in people, never the bad.


And Rudra is suspicious by nature ... so again in character for him to be suspicious and question all the discrepancies. I can only be glad he didn't lose his brains here.

But yes, I would like her to ask Rudra why he is suspicious, if he has any reason to be suspicious ... and ideally I would like it if the cvs made Rudra and Paro work together to find out Shantanu's motives.
Then again ... the cvs always like to make Paro dumb ... so not much hope for that one.

And then they wonder why the TRPs don't come in! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: showviewer

How is she shifting her balance? CVs specifically made her answer your question today, nobody equates with her Major sahaab.

Today everyone was in character, Paro is trusting by nature and Rudra is suspicious. The latter is also a BSD officer they have to make him ask questions otherwise Rudra's characterization would be killed.

Why blame Paro for believing Shantanu's story the rest of the family did too including Danveer. Shantanu came with VK Singh's recommendation letter, Aman says he did background check, said to be a decorated BSD officer with impeccable record so why blame Paro on this. It the faulty investigation of the BSD if they cannot figure out an intruder despite background check.


You may be right. Its true that everyone believed Shantanu and so did Paro. But the problem is she keeps repeating her mistake, not once or twice but its the third time this is happening. Even if she is trusting by nature as you said then she should keep her belief and trust to herself. Why she has to force that trust upon her husband? This is what she was doing today. I believe as has always happened, she'll again force Rudra to believe and trust a stranger. That's not the right way. She never gives space to Rudra for trusting anyone since the time he showed and declared his love for Paro. That's what irritates me.

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