Today's Take - Reverse Psychology - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sangs49

Loved your post, I like Paro's approach.

She may not know words like "Reverse Phycology", but all mothers in the world - rich, poor, educated, uneducated, from village or from city knows how to handle kids. Mothers sometime trick kids to make them do what they want by little "manipulation". This is what Paro is doing ... (after all Rudra acts like one sometime or may be most times)

It is not the first time she is using tactics with Rudra - during fake marriage period- she tempted him to think of all his dreams, after all he must have some dreams about his marriage. How had he imagined his wife, her laughter, smile etc...? When that greener pasture could not gave the effective results she changed her tactics and agreed for the marriage and toppled Rudra's plan to get any confession.

Similarly, in current track she pursued her gently telling her cross over the boundaries you yourself have created, there is happiness across there... greener pasture, I am with you "hamesha" and along with us there will be entire family we all will be together & happy.

But did he understand? No. KCM has correctly named him "Unt" ie camel. He just does not understand when you talk to him straight and simple.

Paro baisa need to change strategy, after all you cannot extract ghee with straight figure (seedhi ungali se ghee nahi nikalta).

Re precap, CV need to open new track if MALA saga is ending don't we want to have more of RR.?

Originally posted by: Malini1

Wonderful post as always, Diya. Loved reading it. Not sure what the audience really want, i for one is enjoying the show and will watch it till it ends, hope the makers give it a proper closure.
Paro is sure a smart stubborn cookie, who is not the one to give up. Sure she is succeeding in backing out from the front and attacking from behind, it was a treat to watch everyone flummoxed.
What's with the precap, Paro seems to be having gala time making Rudra slave in the sbs.
Malini

Originally posted by: nerina

Diya I love to read your analysis, so true to the episode and lovely read as always.

I loved the way Paro put Rudra in a fine dilemma yesterday making him unable to comprehend Paro and at the same time confused at the dormant love bursting from within wanting him to desperately reach out to his mother...and with this ...a stop perhaps to the reconciliation track. Great to witness another shade in Sanaya"s act... She is excellent and the best.

Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi Diya,

Great analysis as usual and it was a different kind of episode because roles were switched today.😊

Major Paro- He cannot let go of his past no matter what and it scares him to move on so Paro Bai Sa has no other option but to go in reverse gear.😊

First, she tells Mala to come to the Mandir with her, refuses her help in the kitchen, and is very well aware that Major is around😊 She even asked him to remove the almirah, put all the photographs in one cloth, which hurt Mala and Major. She also tells Mala that she is a guest in the house which shocks the Ranawat except for KCM.

Major can't take it any more so he snaps at Paro and asks her about her behavior and then she says Maasa. Major is shell shocked and he does say how come you made such a big turn backwards?😊 Till yesterday, you were on her side. Paro Bai Sa reminds him that yesterday she was her Maasa but today she is her mother-in-law, whose son doesn't love her, who left her son and went away. I have a question for Paro Bai Sa. What kind of juice did she drink today?😆

Did it affect Major? It affected him more than he thought and hoping things are going to change in the positive direction from here.😊 He is going to speak sooner or later because he is feeling it from inside. Remember how he never liked Paro at that time but nevertheless took a slap for her. I do see him speaking up soon on this matter and this thing has to settle down before we can get any Parud moments so hopefully things will move on from here and we can get some Parud scenes.😊

Precap- Hoping Paro Bai Sa is safe and nothing happens to her.😊

Originally posted by: princessunara

lol as I said in FB di, both Rudra and some members on the forum so needed this! 😆

You know there is a saying that 'keep praying you just might get what u asked for!' and lol so now they r getting it and will understand how utterly unnatural and wrong it feels!! 😆

Writers pulled out a fab one out with that cz every1 was like Paro should stop and be mad on his behalf n there u go this is how it looks like!!!

Awesome take di!! loved reading it!! :D

PS: This is like that villain act she did with Shyamu abt wanting revenge! Like that this is another shade of Sanaya's acting I have never seen before n she pulled it off fabulously!!

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

Hi Diya ,

Loved reading your post ... I have mixed feelings about the epi ... Will wait for the track to unfold before passing any judgements ... Here is an edit for you ...

Originally posted by: VancouverBC

Very good post.

Paro has evolved very wonderfully. From a quiet timid girl to a person in charge. She knows what she wants and is going for it. If it doesn't work this way, let me try another way. Never giving up. Fully focused on her goal of making her husband free of past demons, she is on a roll. Go Girl!

I like the current Paro, strong and determined. Rudra is sharp as well (at least most times), he should get what Paro is up to. I hope he realizes it is okay to let go.

Originally posted by: bkamber

Paro is quick!!! She doesn't miss an opportunity!! She grabs every line that is thrown her way to make things better for her Rudra.

Reverse Psychology, manipulation, a little trickery...whatever...if a specific goal needs to met I say go for it. It is used by parents, siblings, friends, bosses, spouses and sweethearts. I use it on my boyfriend and he does the same...we just don't admit to it!! 😆

Of course it has to be subtle, used rarely and as a last resort for good and positive results.

Rudra finds himself alone (at least he thinks he is) and goes down happy memory lane and is "caught" by Paro.

Paro listened to all Rudra had to say and has said to her already about what matters to him.

For him everything starts and ends with Paro. She is all he needs and does not want his old wounds to surface.

So she gave him exactly that. Now all that matters to her is his happiness; she understands that only she can give it to him, apologizes to him for forgetting that love cannot be forced and she will see to it that he is happy.

Segregation in the family - Paro-Rudra and "them".

Paro takes several steps to exclude Mala and old memories because they clearly make Rudra unhappy.

Paro's openly rude behavior to Mala in the storeroom leaves everyone in shock.😲

KCM is the only one brimming with glee. Oh wow Paro just made her job easier. Both will be thrown out-two less deaths to plan. She couldn't wait to give her "mausam" ding.

Mala cleans up nice...fancy chappals and all. No one assisted her!!

Rudra follows Paro to their room and confronts her. What was all that...her behavior to "that woman" is not acceptable to him. She apologizes if he feels that she was wrong. Paro explains and he listens to her... that woman is her sasuma, the one he doesn't want or care for and the one who causes him pain.

Paro created a practical visual presentation of what he wants and is wishing for.

She has given him choices and he will need to be the one to choose. All is not perfect, but he has to take steps to heal himself, for him, for them and their future. He has Paro and he is her first priority, but their family matters even when they are not perfect.