Sushpective: Intervention! - Page 4

well sush you are right...what next ? but then i guess this is the beginning of a complex twisted love tale...my heart goes out to rudra...i cried for him last night...i know its silly...though things looked sweet from the surface but it was a dark episode...n i loved the bit rudra questioning his parents...bang on...!!! enjoyed ur post...infact i always enjoy...!!!😊

Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi Sush- Thanks for writing a thoughtful post. It was a sad episode.
Shweths- Wonderful Collage as usual.
It was a beautiful but a sad episode and then finally things start moving at the end. These are some of my thoughts.

1) All-important moment- Mala and Paro realize that Major has heard her story and they are not sure of how he is going to react. Major is devastated to say the least and he gets flashbacks of Mala's words of every day violence, not living under one roof, who took defeats on his wife. I felt very sad for him but he needed to her side of the truth no matter how much it hurt him.

2) Relevant moment- Paro follows him and asks him that did you hear why Maasa left? And Major is quick to remind that she is lying, and the next line was very relevant. Paro says to Major that you know she is not lying.😊

3) Pressing moment- Major is disturbed and says to Paro that she went away for 15 years, she didn't care and Dilsher lied to him for 15 years. And I loved what Paro said to him. She said "Go ask her, question her, that is your right".😊

4) Moment of conflict- Major says that he doesn't want to question Mala and asks Paro whose side is she on? Mine or that Aurat's side? He also said that Mala gave birth to him but gave him life worse than death. Paro Bai Sa did say that she is on Major's side, on your family's side because we are all on one side.😊 Thanks Bai Sa for saying that.

5) Possessive Moment- Major did not like listening to this and makes his stand clear. For him, Life and family begins with Paro Bai Sa. However, for you it is not like this. Major is getting obsessed day by day and Paro Bai sa has this challenging coming up. Can she handle an obsessive Major? Well, so far she has and hopefully she will be able to balance it out in future too. He further tells Paro that he wished that she had that kind of feeling.

6) Critical moment- Major hands Dilsher the drink and asks him is Mala right on her statements? Did she run away because you two couldn't get along? Because of you? I am glad that Major was up front with him and didn't beat around the bush.😊

7) Accountable moment- Dilsher admits that he was also responsible for what happened and he was equally responsible for breaking the marriage. Thanks Dilsher for being honest today.😊

8) Crucial moment- Major retorts back saying that you kept on feeding me burnt rotis, kept on poisoning me for the last 15 years, and today you are admitting your mistake. Dilsher affirms his mistake and Major asks him why he didn't tell him 15 years ago? Bang on, Major.👏

9) Not so sure moment- Dillu said that he didn't realize that he was committing such a big mistake. How could you do this Dillu?😕

10) Biting moment- Mala steps in and explains the meaning of marriage between 2 people and he doesn't want Rudra to blame Dilsher. Major lashes back that there was a 3rd person in the family too and that was me. You didn't pick me from the gutter but I was born. What kind of parents are you all that destroyed your child's life? The dialogue writer deserves a big round of applause here.👏

11) Significant moment- I loved this part when Major told Mala that why did she put up with all this? She could have told anybody or taken somebody's help. Also, she should have tried a little bit more to him away but no.😕

12) Self-condemnation- Major said that he doesn't want to hear anything and it would have been better had she thrown him away or left him somewhere or you have throttled me? If marriage is between 2 people, did anybody think of me?😲 It would have been better if he was never born or would have been an orphan.😭

13) Moment of Regret- Mala breaks down and says what did we do with our child? Dilsher's glass drops and he has tears of regret in his eyes too. (It was about time for that)

14) Vulnerable moment- Major is playing with the candle flame and Paro steps in and asks if Mala told him everything. Major says that he feels that he is fighting a battle and he and Paro are standing in front of each other. Loved what Paro said, that this is not a battle, only there is a boundary in the middle and she wants to take him on the other side of the boundary where there is just happiness. She also said that Major is not in a position to understand so let it go. Don't suppress it inside and let it go. Way to go, Paro Bai Sa.👏

15) Numero uno moment- Major asks Paro what would have happened if she was not in his life? All the happiness and sorrows are with you. Paro says that the thread was tied to you the day she threw the doll.😛 That actually put a smile on Major's face and uplifted him a little. When Paro Bai Sa is calm, then it works as Major's balm.😊

16) Cute moment- Paro says that we have to thank Bholenath that she had a doll in her hand and it would have hurt him if she would have thrown it with force. She further says "How can I hurt you?" I love you so much.😉 Did people love the Parud stare at this time? major asks about the doll and she said that she would have been the back up factor had Major not listened. Thanks Bai Sa for keeping the doll.👏 May Bholenath always keep our Parud happy.😊

17) Cracking up Major- Paro reminds him what if she had thrown the Imli then he couldn't have saved it and it would have rotten. Major finally starts smiling.😊

18) Emotionally dependent moment- Major loves those cute talks and holds Paro's hand and lays his head on her shoulder and Major holds Paro's hand too. Did you all love this scene?😛 Major is getting dependent with each passing day and Paro Bai Sa knows this. 😛

19) Super-duper moment- Paro says that it's time to sleep and she promises not to leave his hand and Major cutely lays his head on her lap, Paro caresses his hair smiling to herself. Major falls asleep and Paro holds her hand (Major loves pampering by Paro Bai Sa)😉 Paro Bai Sa is looking beautiful with her hair open.

20) Weighty moment- Major offers to help her with the furniture and says that it carries more weight than her.😛 When did Major take her weight or how does he know her weight?😛

21) Recapturing moment- It was a very noble gesture by Paro Bai Sa to take Major down the memory lane and she was successful to some extent. However, Major says that his present is not attached to all this, it doesn't make a difference to him. Dilsher, Danveer, Mala and Paro tried so hard to make Major talk and he did talk a little but the scar is too dark and too heavy guys. Yes, he admitted to Samrat giving him the color but he will take time to open up. Paro Bai Sa does tell him to talk to Maasa. Will he? We have to wait for tomorrow.😛

Some random thoughts- Major cannot get back his past, but he can look to a future with Paro Bai Sa who is an epitome of courage, love and confidence.😛

Since today's episode was all about hurt and pain, I chose "Damaged" as the acrostic.

D- Disturbing (Major asked Dilsher if Mala was right about her claims)😊
A- Accepting (Dilsher accepts his fault in destroying their marriage)👏
M- Massive (Major asked Dilsher why did he feed him poison for the last 15 years)⭐️
A- Absolute truth (Major said he was the third party present in their marriage)👏
G- Guilty (Mala accepts her fault for destroying her child's life)👏
E- Enough ( Major says that he has had enough and he should have been dead)
D- Desperate (Paro Bai Sa is desperate to heal Major's hurt and pain)😊

Precap- CVs- Can you please spare Paro Bai Sa's eyes? Not her again. I hope that it is just a prank and nothing else.

Brilliant acting by the leads.👏 Excellent dialogues and they were delivered perfectly today.

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Hi Shwets...I am sure it took a lot from you to post that picture...

Appreciate it buddy! 🤗

Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi Sush- Thanks for writing a thoughtful post. It was a sad episode.
Shweths- Wonderful Collage as usual.
It was a beautiful but a sad episode and then finally things start moving at the end. These are some of my thoughts.

1) All-important moment- Mala and Paro realize that Major has heard her story and they are not sure of how he is going to react. Major is devastated to say the least and he gets flashbacks of Mala's words of every day violence, not living under one roof, who took defeats on his wife. I felt very sad for him but he needed to her side of the truth no matter how much it hurt him.

2) Relevant moment- Paro follows him and asks him that did you hear why Maasa left? And Major is quick to remind that she is lying, and the next line was very relevant. Paro says to Major that you know she is not lying.😊

3) Pressing moment- Major is disturbed and says to Paro that she went away for 15 years, she didn't care and Dilsher lied to him for 15 years. And I loved what Paro said to him. She said "Go ask her, question her, that is your right".😊

4) Moment of conflict- Major says that he doesn't want to question Mala and asks Paro whose side is she on? Mine or that Aurat's side? He also said that Mala gave birth to him but gave him life worse than death. Paro Bai Sa did say that she is on Major's side, on your family's side because we are all on one side.😊 Thanks Bai Sa for saying that.

5) Possessive Moment- Major did not like listening to this and makes his stand clear. For him, Life and family begins with Paro Bai Sa. However, for you it is not like this. Major is getting obsessed day by day and Paro Bai sa has this challenging coming up. Can she handle an obsessive Major? Well, so far she has and hopefully she will be able to balance it out in future too. He further tells Paro that he wished that she had that kind of feeling.

6) Critical moment- Major hands Dilsher the drink and asks him is Mala right on her statements? Did she run away because you two couldn't get along? Because of you? I am glad that Major was up front with him and didn't beat around the bush.😊

7) Accountable moment- Dilsher admits that he was also responsible for what happened and he was equally responsible for breaking the marriage. Thanks Dilsher for being honest today.😊

8) Crucial moment- Major retorts back saying that you kept on feeding me burnt rotis, kept on poisoning me for the last 15 years, and today you are admitting your mistake. Dilsher affirms his mistake and Major asks him why he didn't tell him 15 years ago? Bang on, Major.👏

9) Not so sure moment- Dillu said that he didn't realize that he was committing such a big mistake. How could you do this Dillu?😕

10) Biting moment- Mala steps in and explains the meaning of marriage between 2 people and he doesn't want Rudra to blame Dilsher. Major lashes back that there was a 3rd person in the family too and that was me. You didn't pick me from the gutter but I was born. What kind of parents are you all that destroyed your child's life? The dialogue writer deserves a big round of applause here.👏

11) Significant moment- I loved this part when Major told Mala that why did she put up with all this? She could have told anybody or taken somebody's help. Also, she should have tried a little bit more to him away but no.😕 Major finally talked to his mom today and even empathised with her.

12) Self-condemnation- Major said that he doesn't want to hear anything and it would have been better had she thrown him away or left him somewhere or you have throttled me? If marriage is between 2 people, did anybody think of me?😲 It would have been better if he was never born or would have been an orphan.😭

13) Moment of Regret- Mala breaks down and says what did we do with our child? Dilsher's glass drops and he has tears of regret in his eyes too. (It was about time for that)

14) Vulnerable moment- Major is playing with the candle flame and Paro steps in and asks if Mala told him everything. Major says that he feels that he is fighting a battle and he and Paro are standing in front of each other. Loved what Paro said, that this is not a battle, only there is a boundary in the middle and she wants to take him on the other side of the boundary where there is just happiness. She also said that Major is not in a position to understand so let it go. Don't suppress it inside and let it go. Way to go, Paro Bai Sa.👏

15) Numero uno moment- Major asks Paro what would have happened if she was not in his life? All the happiness and sorrows are with you. Paro says that the thread was tied to you the day she threw the doll.😛 That actually put a smile on Major's face and uplifted him a little. When Paro Bai Sa is calm, then it works as Major's balm.😊

16) Cute moment- Paro says that we have to thank Bholenath that she had a doll in her hand and it would have hurt him if she would have thrown it with force. She further says "How can I hurt you?" I love you so much.😉 Did people love the Parud stare at this time? major asks about the doll and she said that she would have been the back up factor had Major not listened. Thanks Bai Sa for keeping the doll.👏 May Bholenath always keep our Parud happy.😊

17) Cracking up Major- Paro reminds him what if she had thrown the Imli then he couldn't have saved it and it would have rotten. Major finally starts smiling.😊

18) Emotionally dependent moment- Major loves those cute talks and holds Paro's hand and lays his head on her shoulder and Major holds Paro's hand too. Did you all love this scene?😛 Major is getting dependent with each passing day and Paro Bai Sa knows this. 😛

19) Super-duper moment- Paro says that it's time to sleep and she promises not to leave his hand and Major cutely lays his head on her lap, Paro caresses his hair smiling to herself. Major falls asleep and Paro holds her hand (Major loves pampering by Paro Bai Sa)😉 Paro Bai Sa is looking beautiful with her hair open.

20) Weighty moment- Major offers to help her with the furniture and says that it carries more weight than her.😛 When did Major take her weight or how does he know her weight?😛

21) Recapturing moment- It was a very noble gesture by Paro Bai Sa to take Major down the memory lane and she was successful to some extent. However, Major says that his present is not attached to all this, it doesn't make a difference to him. Dilsher, Danveer, Mala and Paro tried so hard to make Major talk and he did talk a little but the scar is too dark and too heavy guys. Yes, he admitted to Samrat giving him the color but he will take time to open up. Paro Bai Sa does tell him to talk to Maasa. Will he? We have to wait for tomorrow.😛

Some random thoughts- Major cannot get back his past, but he can look to a future with Paro Bai Sa who is an epitome of courage, love and confidence.😛

Since today's episode was all about hurt and pain, I chose "Damaged" as the acrostic.

D- Disturbing (Major asked Dilsher if Mala was right about her claims)😊
A- Accepting (Dilsher accepts his fault in destroying their marriage)👏
M- Massive (Major asked Dilsher why did he feed him poison for the last 15 years)⭐️
A- Absolute truth (Major said he was the third party present in their marriage)👏
G- Guilty (Mala accepts her fault for destroying her child's life)👏
E- Enough ( Major says that he has had enough and he should have been dead)
D- Desperate (Paro Bai Sa is desperate to heal Major's hurt and pain)😊

Precap- CVs- Can you please spare Paro Bai Sa's eyes? Not her again. I hope that it is just a prank and nothing else.

Brilliant acting by the leads.👏 Excellent dialogues and they were delivered perfectly today.

Hello ladies! Sush, as usual i love your post and Shweta's collages. And I felt this was the best place for me to leave my thoughts - I hope you don't mind!

So, I have a confession to make, and I'm hoping I won't be judged. I wept today. And I don't mean sniffling into the tissue weeping. I mean full-on, tears streaking the cheeks weeping! The kicker - I don't know why I was so affected! All I know is that I cried for Rudra, I felt his pain. If I wasn't an Ashish fan before (so untrue!), today I've converted in all earnestness!

I was deeply hurt just thinking of how hurt the poor boy behind the gruff Major's facade must've been. All his confusion, all his questions - why was he so deceived? First he thought it was his mother that abandoned him - today he found out that his father has been lying to him for 15 years, to boot! And when he seeks answers, he's shut up by the husband-wife duo of his parents standing up for each other. Is that all he deserved today? I saw the man and woman defending himself/herself or each other, but I saw neither parent confessing guilt or regret to their son. All the questions he asked of them were those that I, as a viewer, wanted answers to. Alas! we are both left wondering.

But what hurt me most was that he received no solidarity from his wife. Don't get me wrong, I'm a complete PaRud shipper - but I was left wanting more from the wife Paro today. She is in a hurry to make everything alright between him and his parents, and is only interested in doing so by employing the methods she thinks fit. I only wish she had given him a tight hug when he was slapped by Dilsher! Instead she followed him and reprimanded him for badmouthing his mother. She is right, but I only wish she had tried to understand him for a second, tried to soothe him before chiding him. I don't know, maybe I'm asking for too much - maybe her words would not have been as effective if she had tried to explain the same thing to him tenderly. I have a feeling they would've, because he would follow her to the end of the world (like her odhni ka moti, as she herself said), but what do i know.

After all that internalizing, i think I understand my underlying problem. After watching the last scene in today's episode, I feel like Rudra's problem is being belittled. Everybody is trying to make him laugh and think of happier times, but I think they fail to understand the extent to which he has been hurt. They want him to feel treasured by reminding him of stories from his childhood that he himself has forgotten, Paro being the catalyst - but isn't that too little too late? Am i alone in thinking so?

Originally posted by: hm2630

Hello ladies! Sush, as usual i love your post and Swetha's collages. And I felt this was the best place for me to leave my thoughts - I hope you don't mind!

So, I have a confession to make, and I'm hoping I won't be judged. I wept today. And I don't mean sniffling into the tissue weeping. I mean full-on, tears streaking the cheeks weeping! The kicker - I don't know why I was so affected! All I know is that I cried for Rudra, I felt his pain. If I wasn't an Ashish fan before (so untrue!), today I've converted in all earnestness!

I was deeply hurt just thinking of how hurt the poor boy behind the gruff Major's facade must've been. All his confusion, all his questions - why was he so deceived? First he thought it was his mother that abandoned him - today he found out that his father has been lying to him for 15 years, to boot! And when he seeks answers, he's shut up by the husband-wife duo of his parents standing up for each other. Is that all he deserved today? I saw the man and woman defending himself/herself or each other, but I saw neither parent confessing guilt or regret to their son. All the questions he asked of them were those that I, as a viewer, wanted answers to. Alas! we are both left wondering.

But what hurt me most was that he received no solidarity from his wife. Don't get me wrong, I'm a complete PaRud shipper - but I was left wanting more from the wife Paro today. She is in a hurry to make everything alright between him and his parents, and is only interested in doing so by employing the methods she thinks fit. I only wish she had given him a tight hug when he was slapped by Dilsher! Instead she followed him and reprimanded him for badmouthing his mother. She is right, but I only wish she had tried to understand him for a second, tried to soothe him before chiding him. I don't know, maybe I'm asking for too much - maybe her words would not have been as effective if she had tried to explain the same thing to him tenderly. I have a feeling they would've, because he would follow her to the end of the world (like her odhni ka moti, as she herself said), but what do i know.

After all that internalizing, i think I understand my underlying problem. After watching the last scene in today's episode, I feel like Rudra's problem is being belittled. Everybody is trying to make him laugh and think of happier times, but I think they fail to understand the extent to which he has been hurt. They want him to feel treasured by reminding him of stories from his childhood that he himself has forgotten, Paro being the catalyst - but isn't that too little too late? Am i alone in thinking so?

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

Hope...good narration of the episode, I like how you have mixed the narration with your own thoughts and feelings, you always do this but it feels especially nice to read it today because I'm glad people feel Rudra's pain 😆

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

I'm with you...I wanted to/want to see more emotional solidarity from Paro. I also want to see a scene of her crying thinking of Rudra and the little boy in him that went through so much crap for 15 years. Maybe she doesn't want to cry in front of Rudra, fine, she wants to be strong in front of him and does not want to make him feel his pain even more by showing him her pain at his pain. But we can be shown a scene of her crying in private, and maybe Maithili catches her and talks to her, Paro tells Maithili how hurt she feels thinking of all the pain Rudra went through as a child.

Rudra's problem/pain is being belittled. And I also think it's too late, but since this is a desi soap, everyone will be singing "hum saath saath hain" very soon. 🤢

Thank you! Good to know i have company :) I was really wishing RR doesn't go the typical soap route, but you're right - I think a happy-family-group-photo is imminent. I'm fine with that, i was only hoping the redemption is played out convincingly before that. Which I don't see happening because a new track seems to be in the works already!

Originally posted by: hm2630

Thank you! Good to know i have company :) I was really wishing RR doesn't go the typical soap route, but you're right - I think a happy-family-group-photo is imminent. I'm fine with that, i was only hoping the redemption is played out convincingly before that. Which I don't see happening because a new track seems to be in the works already!

Originally posted by: Hope

Zee, Thank You...😃. Glad that you liked my post... I too feel Rudra's pain.. I always did with respect to Mala.. No child should go through what he went through.. I feel really sorry for him and that little boy from 15 years ago. I am more angry at Dilsher than Mala. He could have made Rudra's life less painful and more lively but he chose to boost his ego instead...... I really want Rudra to question him for his abuse and 15 years of lies... Ok, will stop before I start ranting 😆