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Posted: 11 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: msin



This is what I feel too... Somewhere mala is being given a long rope...I now want tejawat to come back for just a week and show the cosy realities of their wedded bliss to Ranawat which paro has forgotten...then later he may be killed off or arrested ... Don't know...but he should be back ASAP..


Yes it's like everyone (but Mohini and even Rudra) is living in this little bubble in the Ranawat haveli, they are not in touch with reality and Teju should come back to pop this little bubble and give a reality check to both Paro and Dilsher!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Sush😛...Good to have you back...same here, I have been so busy lately...haven't got a chance to explore the thread.
Hi girls😛...

Domestic violence is incarceration of a woman in the truest sense and this is the utmost reality. Once abused the woman or the man ( yes men are victims too) should walk out and never turn back...it never gets better...it actually gets worse more than we can imagine. We think that we can make it better if we change ourselves for our partner...we believe that one day it will be all fine and there will be light at the end of the tunnel but alas we never see the light...it's darkness all the way.

So, what does a person do in such a situation? The person needs to walk out...if children are involved...you take your children with you...if, under circumstances fail and you have to leave them back...you come back and rescue them the forts chance you get.

As a woman Mala had every right to walk out...Dilsher was physically and mentally abusing her...alcoholism worsened it. She had to walk out. But, she should have comeback for Rudra. How can a mother leave the son with an abusive alcoholic? Being a mother, I cannot relate to this at all.

Adultery is something I have strong reservations for..it's not acceptable to me as a mistake from either side when they are not in an abusive relationship but when a person is abused it's a different state of mind. So I will not pass any judgements on Mala until they reveal the whole story.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

Fantastic thread!!!
Loved the way all the things are falling in place
Love the pace too, because I dont want this track stretched any more.

Today I was totally floored by PaRud punchbag scene, the highlight for me being Sanny's flawless dialogue delivery and the intensity with which she delivered them. I felt the punch of her dialogues more than bannasa's punches😆

I was also very impressed with KaliPrasad Mukherjee, he is a fantastic actor.

I am in a rush and will not be around on IF much for next 6 weeks starting tomorrow.
Off on a vacation to Cincinnati and then India.

Enjoy!!!



Have fun at your vacation Anisha! Both Sanaya and Ashish did a fab job today ...so did Kali Prasad and the actress playing Mohini...The actress playing Mala did fall a little flat today...as Himu also pointed out in her post...her dialogue delivery is rather flat for emotional scenes ...can use more punch...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Episode had great dialogues and excellent acting by Sanaya and Ashish - in that order. Mohini's dialogues also were classic

"BENDNI HAI.. USKI SAAMNEY EK DUSRE KE BAAHON MEIN NA CHALE JAAYEN"

Lost all respect I had for Mohini (I am not taking her evil part into consideration here) Mohini is pining for such a loser ? Still ? Isn't Danveer anyday better ?

Just seeing Paro changed Dillu upside down ? Usually hero changes looking at heroine - Pehle Nazar Mein Hi. First time ever - Bapusa changing. Kya Baat Hai

And just like Dillu changed in a moment, CVs want us to change in an episode and start disliking Dillu and loving Mala. Nahin Hoga Mujhse.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hey sush and all the wonderful ladies
very nice posts:-)
i agree its not a white or black situation , it never was in RR , it can be argued anyway depending upon who is arguing , whether mala , dilsher , mohini , paro or ofcorse rudra
the arguments will deffer , that makes it interesting
in fact i made a post on this a week back 'how important is it to be right'
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4064730

mala my take , she was a very confident woman , beautiful , intelligent , classy may be , happy with her self when a man raises a hand , it hampers the same confidence , self respect , and for a woman like mala she serched security , reasons to feel better outside this relationship , that is the definition of infidelity , i agree with a lot of posts here that she is not right , she is a victim who could not tackle her situation or raise above it ,she tried to by moving on i am biased towards mala because i loved it that she dared to move on and be happy that was right , i cant think of another alternative here but i cant deny that she has committed a big mistake , leaving her son with an alcoholic that was wrong , so yeah we have a interesting situation here where the mom is right and wrong
and paro and rudra having strong reasons to accept or reject
now that the truth is out , lets see how rudra deals with it

IF i dont get a lot of time IF these days , but i loggin for a few mins to check a few posts your post SJs a few other 😃
congrats goldie party time🥳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: -Sush-


Congratulations Shwets! Minnu Love your images today!!!

People love to be over dramatic...in Indian Telly...when the give credit...it is like the person has no less power than the GOD himself...and when they talk about somebody being bad...he could be the satan himself...

Anyhow...
TEJAWAT the poet...🤣 Imagine this...



OMG! Sush... You cracked me up... BIG TIME... This pic is literally imprinted in my brain now... Bang ON! 🤣 🤣 🤣

Thank You. Happy that you liked the pics... I am learning from you...😛

@Bold, Perfectly said... Extremists 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
#57
There are no right answers in this story... It just is...the way it is...
awesome post..
*green 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
#58
The beauty of the story is...
There are no right and wrong answers in this story...
Thats just the way it is...


Sush!

That answer is the right answer. It is the moment under the peepul tree. Its the apple falling on newtons head. Its the moment of enlightenment. Its is stark, it is simple, its the truth.

I salute this simple sentence that sits on top of the mt. Everest of positivity, romanticism, negativity, passion, fangirling, bashing, prejudice and pride that is this forum!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Heya sush..😳 Thanks for the post...loved your take on the episode..the title is totally appropriate.. Yes everything is tangled..
Rudra totally surprised that dilsher slapped him???? But for what??? Where is he wrong??? Wasnt he the one who filled him with poison against his mother... Now does he hold the right to tell him how to talk to his mother...his mother whom he refused to address as mother... Rather beautiful women was the name fed to him by dilsher rather than maasa...at that point in the episode i was filled with sadness for rudra.. He is completely in a turmoil as to what is happening in his family.. Something that his family members are not able to understand..

Next dilsher wanted to tell everyone that stop blaming mala.. She alone is not responsible for the situation.. Its his fault also..whatever he did was out of anger and dissapointment.. The word he spread around about mala was not entirely true.. She is being blamed for sins that have not been committed by her... But mala stops him.. She can bear the rebukes she has been getting but wont be able to tolerate if dilsher recieved the same... Enough of this... It is quite evident dilsher is guilty and he should be..no situation in this world is fault of a single person..as said to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.. Same has happened here..dilsher's ruthlesness resulted in mala taking the extreme step..

Now coming to the paro rudy scene... Finally the punching bag put to use.. And rudra was looking hot i must say...on a more serious note For the first time i saw that old paro surface back... The rudra she defined was actually the rudra we all know and fell in love with.. He was filled with hatred for women but never once did he disrespect them.. Never backed off from protecting the weak.. Then what happened now... If he thinks This about mala then how is paro different.. What name will he give her... Loved paro's argument.. She has to do this to knock sense into rudra...His anger is justified but he was being disrespectful.. Right now i feel only paro can help rudra..she is one person for whom he mellows down..

The revelation of the mala dilsher story was the high point.. Yes dilsher was a bad or one can say an evil husband.. He was an egoistic man, disrespectful towards his wife.. Men who assume their wives to be nothing short of an object that is to be used as per their wish... Mala tried hard to ressurect the marriage but failed again and again.. Next she thought maybe a child will change the situation.. And thus rudra was born.. It did change the situation but for the worse.. This one thing i have seen the most.. People with failed marriages think a child will bring the love back.. And seldom does this happen.. Rather even the child suffers.. Begins to question his existence..and truely what is the fault of that child? Why should his life be destroyed by the same people who brought him into this world..seriously a very sensitive issue i must say.. Nd next was the part from where mala's fault actually started.. She fell in love.. But can one totally blame her? How long can one stay in a hateful marriage.. Hence she decided to take the extreme step of leaving dilsher...

Cvs did full justice to the story.. We are at such a point that we cant blame any one person for the situation... But who suffered the most in all this... Just one person rudra... Really heartwrenching.. Good going cvs..

-sheena
P.S even i was surprised.. Teju a poet????????? But suits his personality i would say.. Quite a ladykiller ...
P.P.S m in love with mohini's one liners...sarcasm mixed with humour at its best...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin



This is what I feel too... Somewhere mala is being given a long rope...I now want tejawat to come back for just a week and show the cosy realities of their wedded bliss to Ranawat which paro has forgotten...then later he may be killed off or arrested ... Don't know...but he should be back ASAP..




Hi girls.. I am a mother of 2 wonderful boys... married for 20 years... and I love my husband.

I can completely understand why mala left... for some unfortunate ones life is not rosy.. I have experienced hell myself when my husband was injured and was not able to walk for few months... I knew that he will be okay in few months... so i survived.. but there were week moments I felt.. I am going to break.

Egoistic males are very dangerous when they know their wife is more smarter than them.. You will see many smart and intelligent woman do not speak in the gathering when husbands friends are around.. It is not that they are scared .. they just want to avoid conflicts.


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