Finally I can relate to Mala and her story .. - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Glad how the revelation of the past panned out.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved reading your take Jyoti
Lot of couple keep the facade of marriage so that children dont suffer they hide their feelings from them but here looks like it is opposite.Mala left Dilsher who is cruel and hurtful unable to bear his physical and mental torture.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Struggler

Mala's past has been revealed and her reasons for the grand departure. However Mala still does not get any sympathy from me. I do understand that Dilsher was an abusive husband and no woman should be subject to such cruelty but what about Rudra? I don't know something seems majorly amiss. Lets see ahead!



I guess she did try to take Rudra but mayb she could hv tried harder and went the legal route if she knew her husband is abusive and alcoholic .. plus she used to handle business and all , so it means she will hv good knowledge about legal procedures too ... 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Struggler

Someone above mentioned about the divorce or legal separation, I don't know if such a thing exist in the rural areas. If it does than certainly that was the way to go.


However there would be not much of a drama as needed for a prime time show 😆😆



Though its rural area but the family looks like a royalty and well educated ... Also Mala used to handle the business after Dilsher's accident .. so divorce and law procedures should not b alien to them .. I mean the family is not illiterate here ..so Mala could hv gone for divorce and mayb legal custody of Rudra later on 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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thanks dear 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jollyjoy

Nice analysis... 😊



glad u liked it dear 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarita_barun

Glad how the revelation of the past panned out.



true .. at least we dont hv anymore doubts regarding Mala's past story now .. story can move ahead now
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PutijaChalhov

Loved reading your take Jyoti
Lot of couple keep the facade of marriage so that children dont suffer they hide their feelings from them but here looks like it is opposite.Mala left Dilsher who is cruel and hurtful unable to bear his physical and mental torture.



yeah its actually a bold step taken by Mala , a woman , which I appreciate .. the only problem here is she could hv fought harder to get her son's legal custody too if she knew that Dilsher was a abusive and alcoholic guy

But again mayb its a blessing in disguise too because at least under Dilsher , we see Rudra becoming a BSD officer and not a terrorist like Tejawat .. if Mala got Rudra's custody in childhood then mayb under Tejawat , we would hv seen Rudra becoming a terrorist too 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lavalina

Finally truth is out :)



yup a huge sigh of relief with the truth all out in open now and thank god Rudra too overhears it all .. so no time waste 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

So finally the Mala-Dilsher mystry is solved and somewhere I m relieved now 😆😃 ; It was bothering me that what exactly happened between both and I m so glad CVs finally made it all clear without any doubts 👏👏👏


Now finally I can feel for Mala's character without any assumptions 👍🏼 ; I guess any woman in her place would hv walked out from such a bad marriage ; Mala did try to make their marriage work and even took responsibility of the business when Dilsher lost his leg , but it seems Dilsher never really valued her importance but instead kept taunting her and even physically abused her ; Dilsher was actually a drunkard who lost evenrtything due to his alcohol habit and he also had a male chauvinist kind of attitude towards Mala and so could not tolerate her success later on 🤔

Mala did have a extra marital affair with Tejawat but the affair happened because she was suffocating in a loveless marriage filled with physical violence and so she actually found some peace in Tejawat plus like she said , their love for writing also developed that connection and rest I guess Tejawat was good with his brainwashing act too and so he was smart enough to trap Mala looking at her emotional state of mind 🤔...

So overall I will no more blame Mala now because she did made efforts to make their marriage work but no efforts came from Dilsher and then I guess every woman has the right to walk out on such bad marriage and start a fresh life with someone who actually loves her but mayb it was Mala's bad luck that she got the love from someone like Tejawat who turned out to b a terrorist ...

Coming to Dilsher , I guess he realised Mala's value only after Paro entered Rudra's life and then Dilsher could understand the worth of a wife in any man's life the way Paro handled Rudra and brought him back to life , reason why today we see Dilsher actually feeling guilty for whatever he did to Mala ; He knew that its his fault that the marriage dint work and then just to satisfy his typical male ego , he made Mala look like a vamp in the eyes of his son Rudra since childhood

In short Rudra is the main victim here ... He suffered the most because of a bad marriage between a husband and wife .. He was fed all sort of lies against his mother by his own father and then today when he finally knows the truth , he feels like a lost kid between his mother and father and wonders why was he born in the first place which is so natural for him to think that way 😭😭


If I see from Rudra's POV , then for him both his mother and father r wrong .. His father is wrong for all the lies that he told to Rudra all these years against his mother and his mother is wrong for not making enough efforts to get her son back which she could hv via legal route especially when she knew that her husband was an alcoholic ; So now if Rudra feels both his parents r selfish and never thought about his emotions , can we blame him ?? Its always the child who suffers the most in such cases because both father and mother expects the child to understand their inidividual POVs and in the process the child feels all divided between both 😭😭


I also liked what Paro told Rudra today when he was venting his anger on that punching bag ; Paro tried to make him realise that he may continue to hate his mother but he has no right to talk to a elderly woman in that manner since thats not the Rudra she loved , she loved that Rudra who hated women but always made sure to protect and respect them even if they r wrong 👍🏼 ; Though I m not sure if Paro's nonstop comparison between Mala and her own life is right or not but at least it makes Rudra realise that he should not hv spoken in that tone to an elderly woman who gave him birth ; At least now that Rudra knows the truth , he might see his mother from a different POV and will try to understand her 🤔 ...

Overall I m glad CVs cleared out the Mala story now ... No more confusions left and its only a matter of time Rudra accepts his mother 😃

You know Jyoti, I suspected from the beginning that Dilsher must have been the aggressive and wife-abusing type when his wife left him ... because he is now showing sudden excessive forgiveness of her for returning to him!
If it was normal behaviour from Dilsher before, he may have had resistance to taking back his wife after she lived with Tejawat, but the way he is now so ready to forgive Mala shows some culpability is surfacing in him making him terribly guilty and ready to make amends ...
... for he has in a way spoiled his son's life by chasing Mala away with abusive behaviour, na?
Now that Rudra seems to be getting to the truth about his father we have to see if he amends his feelings for his mother or he starts hating both his parents!
Edited by skanda12 - 11 years ago

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