Sushpective- Relationships - Page 7

Originally posted by: Hope

@ashwink630, Thank You... If you don't mind me saying, I just want to add... It is important that Dilsher and Mala two to come to terms with their past in-order for them to help Rudra heal. There is not going to be any love between them as of now... (I Seriously hope not 🤔)... The slap to Rudra... Not at all fair. I didn't like it. I think they are slowly building a high point for the past revelation... Let us see.

@JJ, Missed you this weekend... How was it? Sorry, no VM ... I truly tried but those darn ads distracted me and killed my mood... Thank You so much, for the Acrostic... (Hoping, the Hope is me?? 😉)

@T, thank you for the reply... I am loving PaRud... They are getting more comfortable with each other by each passing day... I liked Rudra's letter and him wanting to have Paro all to himself...☺️

@misn, I thought the Male negative entry is for the next villain... You said Male 'Lead'.. I am confused😕... Is the new guy going to be next parallel Lead or the next Villain??

Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi J- Thanks so much for nice comments and your acrostic. Your acrostic rocks. Can we ask for a positive quote from you if it is not too much to ask for? Thanks J.😊

"THE BUDDHA once told a story about a young man who was a trader and had a beautiful wife and baby son. Sadly, his wife fell ill and died, and the man poured all his love into his little child, who became the sole source of his happiness and joy.

Originally posted by: Hope

@JJ, Missed you this weekend... How was it? Sorry, no VM ... I truly tried but those darn ads distracted me and killed my mood... Thank You so much, for the Acrostic... (Hoping, the Hope is me?? 😉)

Originally posted by: JJKKL

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Unfortunately I do not have a quote. I have something better. A story for you

"THE BUDDHA once told a story about a young man who was a trader and had a beautiful wife and baby son. Sadly, his wife fell ill and died, and the man poured all his love into his little child, who became the sole source of his happiness and joy.

Once while he went away on business, bandits raided his village, burned it to the ground and captured his five-year-old son. When he returned and saw the devastation, he was beside himself with grief. He found the charred corpse of a small child, and in his desperation, he took it for the body of his son. He tore at his hair and beat his chest, and wept uncontrollably.

At last, he arranged a cremation ceremony, collected up the ashes, and put them in a very precious silk pouch. Whether he was working, sleeping or eating, he always carried that bag of ashes with him, and often he would sit alone and weep, for hours on end.

One day his son escaped from the bandits, and found his way home. It was midnight when he arrived at his father's new house and knocked on the door. The man lay in bed, sobbing, the bag of ashes by his side. "Who is it?" he asked. The child answered, "It's me, daddy, it's your son. Open the door."

In his anguish and confusion, all that the father could think of was that some malicious boy was playing a cruel trick on him. "Go away," he shouted, "leave me alone." Then he started to cry once more. Again and again, the boy knocked, but the father refused to let him in. Finally, he slowly turned and walked away. The father and son never saw one another ever again.

When he came to the end of his story, the Buddha said, "Sometime, somewhere you take something to be the truth. But if you cling to it too strongly, then even when the truth comes in person and knocks on your door, you will not open it."

Originally posted by: msin

Running away from your dysfunctional in laws family is an easy way out...but what if it happens with your own parents...will u still leave them in the lurch and run for your own happiness..

That is not how indian value systems is supposed to be.. Though I admit the reality is it's happening everywhere..

Another point to note a child from a broken home is more susceptible to have failed relationship.. So next time when parud will fight which may happen..for any issue if paro does not listen to rudra.. He may show her the door out his dad and he could survive on their own..his mother could rebuild her life.. So paro and he can also be happy with other partners..

I thought it was commendable what paro was trying to mend bridges between her in laws.. She is not pushing them to romance.. But she is pushing them to be civil friendly with each other..take solace I. Their happy moments..

If mala has to live in the house as Rudra's mom and parud babies grand mom.. It is important for the erstwhile couple to live as friends rather than as strange bedfellows..

I have seen divorced couples being friendly with each other and a lot of them do make up in twilight years... Because the need for companionship is greater...

After a lot of years the issues which were bitter between seems trivial.. And u are able to see both the sides... Which dilsher is doing after years of loneliness he realises he was horrible to his wife so he does not bear the revulsion that rudra feels that she ran away with another man, tejawat..

Tennesseean ur post was super,

And Shweta fantastic collages thank you..

Originally posted by: JJKKL

Unfortunately I do not have a quote. I have something better. A story for you

"THE BUDDHA once told a story about a young man who was a trader and had a beautiful wife and baby son. Sadly, his wife fell ill and died, and the man poured all his love into his little child, who became the sole source of his happiness and joy.

Once while he went away on business, bandits raided his village, burned it to the ground and captured his five-year-old son. When he returned and saw the devastation, he was beside himself with grief. He found the charred corpse of a small child, and in his desperation, he took it for the body of his son. He tore at his hair and beat his chest, and wept uncontrollably.

At last, he arranged a cremation ceremony, collected up the ashes, and put them in a very precious silk pouch. Whether he was working, sleeping or eating, he always carried that bag of ashes with him, and often he would sit alone and weep, for hours on end.

One day his son escaped from the bandits, and found his way home. It was midnight when he arrived at his father's new house and knocked on the door. The man lay in bed, sobbing, the bag of ashes by his side. "Who is it?" he asked. The child answered, "It's me, daddy, it's your son. Open the door."

In his anguish and confusion, all that the father could think of was that some malicious boy was playing a cruel trick on him. "Go away," he shouted, "leave me alone." Then he started to cry once more. Again and again, the boy knocked, but the father refused to let him in. Finally, he slowly turned and walked away. The father and son never saw one another ever again.

When he came to the end of his story, the Buddha said, "Sometime, somewhere you take something to be the truth. But if you cling to it too strongly, then even when the truth comes in person and knocks on your door, you will not open it."