Sushpective- Relationships - Page 5

Originally posted by: malsub

Sorry for abruptly jumping in. I am Malobika.

Just wanted to say 'shaant', ab sab kuch thik hoga. Dilsher's slap to Rudra will open the can of worms. Looking at the brighter side, this Mala-Dilsher love fest was necessary (i) to bring Rudra to the edge; and (ii) force Mala-Dilsher to spill the beans.

This track is also for Disher's atonement. Ever since the show started, we have always seen guilt in Disher's eyes whenever a discussion of the past has come up or when he has seen what Rudra has become because of the poison he fed him. He probably asked for Mala to be brought back into the haveli to seek forgiveness for his actions. He may have been an abusive husband but we do not know the full back-story yet. Was there an MU created by Mohini which caused bitterness in the Mala-Disher relation? In the flashback yesterday, it seemed like Disher was not on crutch - did the accident occur after marriage? In one of the episodes, Disher said that "Rudra ki ma aur main apne rishtey o sambhaal nahin paaye". Let us wait and watch what exactly happened.

The beauty of RR is that the characters are flawed and therefore believable. Everyone makes mistakes and our lives are a result of the actions we take. Just hang in there, the past will be out soon.

Originally posted by: msin

Another point to note a child from a broken home is more susceptible to have failed relationship.. So next time when parud will fight which may happen..for any issue if paro does not listen to rudra.. He may show her the door out his dad and he could survive on their own..his mother could rebuild her life.. So paro and he can also be happy with other partners..

I thought it was commendable what paro was trying to mend bridges between her in laws.. She is not pushing them to romance.. But she is pushing them to be civil friendly with each other..take solace I. Their happy moments..

If mala has to live in the house as Rudra's mom and parud babies grand mom.. It is important for the erstwhile couple to live as friends rather than as strange bedfellows..

I have seen divorced couples being friendly with each other and a lot of them do make up in twilight years... Because the need for companionship is greater...

After a lot of years the issues which were bitter between seems trivial.. And u are able to see both the sides... Which dilsher is doing after years of loneliness he realises he was horrible to his wife so he does not bear the revulsion that rudra feels that she ran away with another man, tejawat..

Originally posted by: msin

Running away from your dysfunctional in laws family is an easy way out...but what if it happens with your own parents...will u still leave them in the lurch and run for your own happiness..

That is not how indian value systems is supposed to be.. Though I admit the reality is it's happening everywhere..

Another point to note a child from a broken home is more susceptible to have failed relationship.. So next time when parud will fight which may happen..for any issue if paro does not listen to rudra.. He may show her the door out his dad and he could survive on their own..his mother could rebuild her life.. So paro and he can also be happy with other partners..

I thought it was commendable what paro was trying to mend bridges between her in laws.. She is not pushing them to romance.. But she is pushing them to be civil friendly with each other..take solace I. Their happy moments..

If mala has to live in the house as Rudra's mom and parud babies grand mom.. It is important for the erstwhile couple to live as friends rather than as strange bedfellows..

I have seen divorced couples being friendly with each other and a lot of them do make up in twilight years... Because the need for companionship is greater...

After a lot of years the issues which were bitter between seems trivial.. And u are able to see both the sides... Which dilsher is doing after years of loneliness he realises he was horrible to his wife so he does not bear the revulsion that rudra feels that she ran away with another man, tejawat..

Tennesseean ur post was super,

And Shweta fantastic collages thank you..

Originally posted by: ashwink630

I agree with you msin. The run Paro run was just a joke. See the laughing smiley with it?

Originally posted by: malsub

Sorry for abruptly jumping in. I am Malobika.

Just wanted to say 'shaant', ab sab kuch thik hoga. Dilsher's slap to Rudra will open the can of worms. Looking at the brighter side, this Mala-Dilsher love fest was necessary (i) to bring Rudra to the edge; and (ii) force Mala-Dilsher to spill the beans.

This track is also for Disher's atonement. Ever since the show started, we have always seen guilt in Disher's eyes whenever a discussion of the past has come up or when he has seen what Rudra has become because of the poison he fed him. He probably asked for Mala to be brought back into the haveli to seek forgiveness for his actions. He may have been an abusive husband but we do not know the full back-story yet. Was there an MU created by Mohini which caused bitterness in the Mala-Disher relation? In the flashback yesterday, it seemed like Disher was not on crutch - did the accident occur after marriage? In one of the episodes, Disher said that "Rudra ki ma aur main apne rishtey o sambhaal nahin paaye". Let us wait and watch what exactly happened.

The beauty of RR is that the characters are flawed and therefore believable. Everyone makes mistakes and our lives are a result of the actions we take. Just hang in there, the past will be out soon.

Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi Khushi Paro- Thank you so much for your kind comments every day.😊

Yes, Rudra and Paro are moving ahead and they are getting quite comfy with each other which is a good thing for us. I just said that Major doesn't need slaps. He needs to know why Mala left 15 years ago and it has to come from Dilsher's mouth. Till Dilsher doesn't clarify things, Major will feel the pain no matter what. Dilsher is the man here who knows what happened and I hope he comes clean so that everybody can move on.😊