Why is Mala's backstory not being revealed? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Struggler

I don't want Rudra to give in so easily. The fact that Mala does not have a reason other than love makes it all sound so unlike the typical picture laid out for eastern women. Further this will never be good enough for Rudra to forgive his mother. I do wonder though what could a genuine reason other than love be for Mala.

I have a feeling that senior Ranawat hates Mala (if at all), I get confused at times 😆, is it only because she left them or is it also because she wanted to leave him alone and even separate him from his son.

Certainly the evil aunt has alot to do with the drama.

I don't want Rudra to give in easily either...I want every bit of the angst, the pain, the bitterness to play out, to be EXPRESSED...but then going by the usual pattern of this show I can't have high hopes if this will live up to its potential so braced either way.

Yes ultimately he will definitely forgive her cuz he loves her...but the bitterness bottled up since many years first has to flow out in order for love to come to the forefront and give him the strength to forgive...it will only make him the bigger person...

I think Dilsher really loved Mala a lot or he wouldn't have spent so many years stewing in bitterness after she left...but currently I feel like he's reached a point where he too has healed in a sense and might be more willing to forgive her easily than Rudra is...cuz Mala seems so repentant now and will probably try to reconcile with Dilsher too since her second husband turned out so evil😆...how very convenient for her all around.

Mohini will be ever present to add mirch masala to all these equations and yes no doubt she also must have had a major role to play in tearing the family apart all those years back to begin with...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't want Rudra to give in easily either...I want every bit of the angst, the pain, the bitterness to play out, to be EXPRESSED...but then going by the usual pattern of this show I can't have high hopes if this will live up to its potential so braced either way.

Yes ultimately he will definitely forgive her cuz he loves her...but the bitterness bottled up since many years first has to flow out in order for love to come to the forefront and give him the strength to forgive...it will only make him the bigger person...

I think Dilsher really loved Mala a lot or he wouldn't have spent so many years stewing in bitterness after she left...but currently I feel like he's reached a point where he too has healed in a sense and might be more willing to forgive her easily than Rudra is...cuz Mala seems so repentant now and will probably try to reconcile with Dilsher too since her second husband turned out so evil😆...how very convenient for her all around.

Mohini will be ever present to add mirch masala to all these equations and yes no doubt she also must have had a major role to play in tearing the family apart all those years back to begin with...

It will be, when she goes to the castle with her evil sister there, then I guess we will see the real reason why she left, or at least this is what I think, but if they spend too long on her back story I might become bored. I prefer to see romance. 😆

Originally posted by: Struggler

Ultimately he will, he has to not just for Mala but even for himself. The agony and pain has been slowly killing him inside and some day it all has to stop. It will certainly make him a bigger and a better person. As of now too, I find Rudra to have immense honour and loyalty in him as a person. Not a big fan of familial relations as yet.

I agree about Dilsher, as I stated earlier I get confused about his precise and recent feelings regarding Mala. His hate might resurface when he sees, don't know as yet. That said, his venom never came across as strong as that of Rudra. You know I found Dilsher to be much more menacing and bitter before he came in this mansion. He seemed sober and better as a person, is it because he met his brother and his family?

Mohini will get the popcorn ready and be witnessing the drama with us 😆. Later when things will be getting positive, she will add her own drama 😆😆

Yes, Rudra will ultimately have to forgive Mala for his OWN peace of mind...to close this chapter in his life that still keeps on eating away at him...only then will he TRULY be able to move on otherwise this will thorn will forever keep pricking his soul and will never let him rest in peace.


@bold: Yes, Dilsher was definitely shown much more bitter before he entered the haveli...his early scenes with Rudra in the flashbacks show his state of mind...once he entered the haveli though, it seems meeting the family and then Parvati turned him around...lol...Paro's innocence won him over almost INSTANTLY despite HIM having been the one to hammer in the mistrust of beautiful women into Rudra's head...#irony...Rudra even said this to him once that how come he is the one so easily believing a beautiful woman now? But I guess Paro's magic worked instantly on Dilsher...took a while to work on Rudra...lol...so yes all jokes apart, a child's mind was more damaged by all that happened...so the aftereffects show on Rudra more...even Rudra himself told Dilsher at one point that it is TOO LATE for him to emerge from this poisonous bitterness that Dilsher himself filled him with...Dilsher has lived most of his life and with age comes the wisdom to mellow, forgive, forget...Rudra hasn't yet reached that stage so it's harder for him to exorcise those demons.

But let's see if the writers capitalize on the potential and tackle both Rudra and Dilsher's demons on this issue.

Mohini's popcorn is ever ready...but she will mess with the equations first chance she gets...let's not forget that a big part of Rudra's memories also include the taunts about his mother that MOHINI drilled into him.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, Rudra will ultimately have to forgive Mala for his OWN peace of mind...to close this chapter in his life that still keeps on eating away at him...only then will he TRULY be able to move on otherwise this will thorn will forever keep pricking his soul and will never let him rest in peace.


@bold: Yes, Dilsher was definitely shown much more bitter before he entered the haveli...his early scenes with Rudra in the flashbacks show his state of mind...once he entered the haveli though, it seems meeting the family and then Parvati turned him around...lol...Paro's innocence won him over almost INSTANTLY despite HIM having been the one to hammer in the mistrust of beautiful women into Rudra's head...#irony...Rudra even said this to him once that how come he is the one so easily believing a beautiful woman now? But I guess Paro's magic worked instantly on Dilsher...took a while to work on Rudra...lol...so yes all jokes apart, a child's mind was more damaged by all that happened...so the aftereffects show on Rudra more...even Rudra himself told Dilsher at one point that it is TOO LATE for him to emerge from this poisonous bitterness that Dilsher himself filled him with...Dilsher has lived most of his life and with age comes the wisdom to mellow, forgive, forget...Rudra hasn't yet reached that stage so it's harder for him to exorcise those demons.

But let's see if the writers capitalize on the potential and tackle both Rudra and Dilsher's demons on this issue.

Mohini's popcorn is ever ready...but she will mess with the equations first chance she gets...let's not forget that a big part of Rudra's memories also include the taunts about his mother that MOHINI drilled into him.

Anu- Another thing is- NOW Mommy sa cant go anywhere- whatever Rudra says to her- Chali jaa, hate you...She's also a witness for Tejawat's case now and under BSD protection- so Rudra kitna bhi peeye, roye, chillaye- Maala is here to stay- coz the BSD bosses cant and shouldnt let her go! The only thing is how soon is she getting back in the Haveli- thats to be seen and who's getting her back?! I just dont want it to be Paro- thats it- but its most likely that it will be her! Though I would really prefer Mohini acting all bleeding heart to see her long lost sister, because that would be just like her and fit into her machinations!

First of all hats off to Ashish for such a wonderful acting... Loved Paro today... She was in total control... Telling Rudra to face his demons, to confront his mother... Loved it that she didn't tell him to forgive his mother rather asked him to confront her and ask the very questions, which are nagging him and killing him from inside since childhood... Her putting Laila in her place and clearly showing her place in Rudra's life and family to Laila was cherry on top... And her compassion towards Mala was good... I agree to your point ( I was thiking the same since Mala's re-entry in the show)... She always pointed the fact the she pines for her son and feels guilty for abandoning him... But not once she said that she was guilty of commiting adultery and running off from her marriage... Why she is only answerable to Rudra? And why not Dilsher? As far as I know, Dilsher still refers to her as his wife and Rudra too mentions that she has ruined his and his father's life by running away, then why she is not bothered about Dilsher? Hope I'll get my answers once Mala's backstory is revealed...

Seems that Mala does not have any remorse for her actions. Its as if, she has done the right thing by running away with another man and abandoning her husband, in fact she is only feeling guilty for not taking her son along with her. Seriously??? how can she behave as if her husband never existed😕 and how can a married woman and a mother take such a drastic step and be so casual about it? How can she feel that she is answerable only to her child and not the husband?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh I also loved that he went to his father first...I want the writers/makers to stress on this PAIN that Rudra and Dilsher SHARE...this is what has bonded them all these years...their pain over Mala leaving them, the POISON that simmered in their hearts all these years as a result, the bitterness that binded them...these are lovely shades to explore characterization-wise...notice even in the precap, Rudra says HUM...him and Dilsher are a team in this...THEY managed to SURVIVE Mala leaving them...and I hope we get to see more of this.

Lullaby se yaad aaya...oh that moment when Mala singing "heli mhaari" echoes in the bg so HAUNTINGLY as Rudra remembers all his moments with his mother...the tears in his eyes...that moment was nailed by the editors today as well...good job.

Originally posted by: CyberOstrich

Anu- Another thing is- NOW Mommy sa cant go anywhere- whatever Rudra says to her- Chali jaa, hate you...She's also a witness for Tejawat's case now and under BSD protection- so Rudra kitna bhi peeye, roye, chillaye- Maala is here to stay- coz the BSD bosses cant and shouldnt let her go! The only thing is how soon is she getting back in the Haveli- thats to be seen and who's getting her back?! I just dont want it to be Paro- thats it- but its most likely that it will be her! Though I would really prefer Mohini acting all bleeding heart to see her long lost sister, because that would be just like her and fit into her machinations!

Another thing- So Maala knew that Paro is ALIVE? Tejawat couldnt have gloated over that- ki Paro baisa literally made me impotent with laal mirch powder- would he? She wasnt even showed surprised at Paro being there- so she knew? I dont know - I find these gaps a little jarring or maybe my ffing tendencies through all Laila parts made me miss these details?

Vaise- whats going to happen to Laila now? What do you think? Is she really going to go after Sumer now to get into the 'phamily' picture?

LOL yeah Mala is here to stay in BSD's protection if not at the haveli...she's a prime witness too now who knows Tejawat's hideouts.

I think Mala already know that Paro was alive, that is why she was giving money to some guys to go look for Paro, no? Or was it all so long ago that I can't remember anymore? lol

Re: Laila...I think she will deffo try to go for Plan B i.e. Sumer now since Paro has effectively put up a No Entry board in her face...she might try to play to Mala's sympathies too but then right now Mala doesn't have many fans either that can help her get into the haveli😆