Why is Mala's backstory not being revealed? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Crystal29

This is IT? Oh no I feel they are either going to show Dilsher in bad light or Mohini to be the reason Mala left. Now how she ended up marrying Tejawat, that is another story.

@bold - Thank God. Because I felt today Paro was in character there and did the right thing. But when she talks to Mala about her being Rudra's mother is all that is required to be forgiven...

That is what I was thinking too...but epis keep on passing and they don't show ANY sign of showing that...cuz the obvious solution is to show that Dilsher was not treating her well, that is why she turned to another man and ran off...and Mohini probably instigated her, no doubt.

But pata nahin kab dikhaayenge...

Yaar Paro is simple minded in many ways as we well know😆...so not surprising that she thinks that Mala being Rudra's mother is enough for him to forgive her...Paro deals in black and white, simple rights and wrongs😆...also I think she was trying to console Mala cuz Mala herself looked upset over the situation.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL they are just showing Paro standing as an audience in these so that she can then have something to say to both Rudra and Mala after Rudra leaves the scene...I don't think she will talk in b/w...she's going to simply be a spectator to Rudra's pain and it's good that they are showing Paro witnessing this...he will probably have some kind of breakdown after this I think and Paro will console him...

And even if Paro talks in b/w...I dunno but it doesn't bother me...I have no expectations from her either way, maybe that's why?😆

See I knew they would show the Mala-Paro bond on the side...Paro has been shown to be forgiving of bigger sins...and Mala toh has brought her up...so if they are both busy giggling over being saas-bahu for a bit...let them be😆...Paro has always been able to compartmentalize well that way😆...you can tell that she's been brought up by Mala only😆...except that she chose the RIGHT man to love😆

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

i did expect Paro to bond with Maala and be her shield, i never had a second doubt that Paro would not do it. And now i am feeling better if you are predicting that her witnessing the whole tandav of Rudra will lead to a consoling act.

What i dont prefer her doing is that she assures herself, Maala and Rudra that Maala gave birth to Rudra and she deserves a place in his life, this comes off as very wrong at this time.

Actually this time i dont care what Paro does and what laila does, i was happy that what Rudra did, he backed off, he backed off from his mother and went to his father..👏👏.. Gosh, i did not expect that to happen, but it did happen, and then he comes to Maala again, and what the hekc Maala was like aww my Rudy baby you are here ? did she really expect her baby Rudra to be all coming for a lullaby ?😕

Let her face his tandav and actually have a knowledge the wounds he has buried up which she once again has put salt on.. Uggghhh Maala, tonight i am seriously all 😡🤢

and hope Dilsher supports Rudra, no need of listening to one or two lectures of Paro or even Danveer and being all the so mahaan pati of Maala, plss no CVs.🤢

Oh I also loved that he went to his father first...I want the writers/makers to stress on this PAIN that Rudra and Dilsher SHARE...this is what has bonded them all these years...their pain over Mala leaving them, the POISON that simmered in their hearts all these years as a result, the bitterness that binded them...these are lovely shades to explore characterization-wise...notice even in the precap, Rudra says HUM...him and Dilsher are a team in this...THEY managed to SURVIVE Mala leaving them...and I hope we get to see more of this.

Lullaby se yaad aaya...oh that moment when Mala singing "heli mhaari" echoes in the bg so HAUNTINGLY as Rudra remembers all his moments with his mother...the tears in his eyes...that moment was nailed by the editors today as well...good job.

My opinion:

Originally posted by: Tiangka

My opinion:

Rudra is in a state of shock which brings on unbearable pain which he has been trying to put a handle on and nurse for fifteen years, his actions and reactions in today's episode reflects his deep attachment to his mum.

The more he tries to hurt his mother with words for her bitter betrayal towards him. which is actually equivalent to hurting himself, he will expect/wish/ and want to be consoled, loved by paro, in short whatever he lost through his mother, he will wish to redeem it through paro. I think in his heart he will be happy to know that paro is there to support his mum which though he wish but he can't. I think his greatest fear is that he might forgive his mum, his heart wish to forgive but not his mind. He is fighting within himself (he remembers his mum kissing him then he remembers his classmates taunting him, he remembers his mum singing a lullaby , then he remembers his father's harsh words).

But beyond this battle within himself and with his mother , he will definitely want his paro with him, just be with him, he won't be able to get angry with her. I WOULD VERY MUCH LIKE TO KNOW PARO'S POSITION IN THIS EQUATION, NOT EASY BEING THE MIDDLEPERSON,, SHE LOVES BOTH MALA AND RUDRA, SHE WILL BE DEVASTATED IF EITHER ONE OF THEM IS HURT.

IT WILL BE A GOOD TWIST, IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO PARO BECAUSE OF THE BATTLE BETWEEN THE SON AND MOTHER , BOTH OF THEM UNITE FOR OR BECAUSE OF HER. A COMMON FACTOR BETWEEN MOTHER AND SON (OTHER THEN THEIR EYES!) IS THEIR LOVE FOR PARO.

Lets wait and watch how cvs intend to unfold or rather untangle the episodes in the coming week. I hope cvs keep to their track record of wrapping up a TRACK IN A WEEK! WE STILL HAVE LAILA TO GIVE A TRACK, HOPE NOT TO SEE HER NEXT WEEK.😡

Hey,

Originally posted by: Struggler

Hey,

Really well put. I agree, they have not asked the kind of questions or attempted to answer them. It could be that they are saving the answers for later which in a way is not a bad idea.

However there are two things, one that the writers are intending to not have any concrete reason other than her love for the Thakur which will be quite sad and a big let down.

Another thing is that the way things move in this show, it seems unlikely that the reason if any other than the blatant one, if pulled out, would it ever be good enough to compensate for Mala's conduct.

Gearing up. Ashish was splendid today! Good job on the post once again.

P.S: Having fun with the fonts today 😆😆

Hey thanks!

Yes they do seem to be saving the answers for some high point...I can't say if that's a good idea or a bad idea...only the actual execution of the scenes will tell how that goes...but I just feel that these vague explanations have gone on long enough and now it's time for some CLEAR answers...hopefully the coming week will bring those.

As of now yes sadly it's just seeming as simple as Mala having fallen in love with Tejawat...but I'm most curious to know what her equation with Dilsher was...so far none of these reasons seem good enough to justify Mala's actions...and I'm starting to wonder if the writers intend to do that at all or just continue showing her as this shallow/insensitive regarding her son and what she did to him.

Originally posted by: Tiangka

But beyond this battle within himself and with his mother , he will definitely want his paro with him, just be with him, he won't be able to get angry with her. I WOULD VERY MUCH LIKE TO KNOW PARO'S POSITION IN THIS EQUATION, NOT EASY BEING THE MIDDLEPERSON,, SHE LOVES BOTH MALA AND RUDRA, SHE WILL BE DEVASTATED IF EITHER ONE OF THEM IS HURT.

IT WILL BE A GOOD TWIST, IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO PARO BECAUSE OF THE BATTLE BETWEEN THE SON AND MOTHER , BOTH OF THEM UNITE FOR OR BECAUSE OF HER. A COMMON FACTOR BETWEEN MOTHER AND SON (OTHER THEN THEIR EYES!) IS THEIR LOVE FOR PARO.

Lets wait and watch how cvs intend to unfold or rather untangle the episodes in the coming week. I hope cvs keep to their track record of wrapping up a TRACK IN A WEEK! WE STILL HAVE LAILA TO GIVE A TRACK, HOPE NOT TO SEE HER NEXT WEEK.😡

Hey nice prediction there...and it's likely that something like that just might happen...cuz as you said...Paro is the only binding factor b/w them right now...they both love Paro and that is what might bring them together ultimately. ...

Re: Paro's stance...I think she's in a bit of a wait and watch mode...she's letting mother-son have it out b/w themselves first...she'll probably decide how to tackle them after this Rudra-Mala confrontation is done with.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Hey thanks!

Yes they do seem to be saving the answers for some high point...I can't say if that's a good idea or a bad idea...only the actual execution of the scenes will tell how that goes...but I just feel that these vague explanations have gone on long enough and now it's time for some CLEAR answers...hopefully the coming week will bring those.

As of now yes sadly it's just seeming as simple as Mala having fallen in love with Tejawat...but I'm most curious to know what her equation with Dilsher was...so far none of these reasons seem good enough to justify Mala's actions...and I'm starting to wonder if the writers intend to do that at all or just continue showing her as this shallow/insensitive regarding her son and what she did to him.