Decoding Paro... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

I love ur post!!! Was waiting for someone to post something on paro!!! I totally got her naive behavior today. What she said was wrong and she realised it, but she can't just ignore the fact that she saw a completely different side to Takurian sa.

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

I genuinely think there is a ounce of people who understand paro. Happy to be one of them lol

I totally agree and I think that is because we know about Thankur, Mala, Rudra more than Paro that we want and expect her to react like we react to those characters.

Example When Paro blindly trusted Thakur... We all were devastated along with Rudra... We wanted her to see sense. But truly speaking we are sure of Thakur because we saw his evilness and Paro didn't. So when she didn't believe believe what she was told that too against a father figure was right on her part but viewers expected her to understand and smell the coffee.

Why Paro? Let me give my example. I was outraged when Mala admitted that she left her son and husband for her love. Then as I read other forum members thoughts I thought to give her benefit of doubt till the whole truth comes out. Why??? Because for me and many of us, Mala doing something like that without a strong reason doesn't make sense. So even when she herself admitted to it, we are hoping that there is more to her story. And we just saw her in few episodes but Paro, was bought up by her. So for her to straight away say Mala is bad for her deeds is very wrong.

Ok, I might be over doing it a little. Let me stop.😆

Perfectly said
Paro has seen a side of Mala none of us have seen, that too for 15 years.
She has seen Rudra's pain only for last 6 months.
She is his wife and soul mate, but that does not mean she can forget the compassion and love that she got from Mala.
So her gut reaction is what we saw.
But later she realized she was insensitive and had hurt Rudra in the process and apologized
Rudra also realized that Mala holds a special place is Paro's heart.
I think we should wait before judging Mala.
Paro too was not wrong in her reaction.

Originally posted by: surabi

I agree with all the points mentioned. I don't think paro wanted to hurt Rudra either... But the way she spoke those words was insensitive. Until that moment, she was worried about rudra's pain. the moment she hears about this, she is lost in her own world... She is not sensitive to the feelings of the person who is opening up in front of her... Like you said, she is thinking of her experience.. she did not pause to think about the pain and feelings or experience of the person who is sharing his deepest wound with her... In simple words, she was selfish at that moment! If she had loved Rudra as much as she claimed, she would have been worried about his feelings... No matter how you justify her thought process, it was wrong. Especially for someone like paro who has been shown to be sensible and wise beyond her age... She does not have to blame Mala or say anything- just listening to him patiently would have been enough instead of telling him how she might have loved tej without understanding his darker side... That was so 🥱

But they showed her apologizing later, which means she realized her fault... To me, it is human to make mistakes and to try to make amends is applause worthy.

That is my POV. I am not bashing Paro or you... Just sharing my differences in opinion with you...

Wonderful post 👏

Guys I will reply to every post tomorrow. 😳 Right now Goodnight to all..! 🤗

Lovely post and nicely said.

👏 Much needed post

I agree that Paro is non-judgemental and that's why she did not judge Rudra's mother.

Originally posted by: Hope

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I totally agree and I think that is because we know about Thankur, Mala, Rudra more than Paro that we want and expect her to react like we react to those characters.

Example When Paro blindly trusted Thakur... We all were devastated along with Rudra... We wanted her to see sense. But truly speaking we are sure of Thakur because we saw his evilness and Paro didn't. So when she didn't believe believe what she was told that too against a father figure was right on her part but viewers expected her to understand and smell the coffee.

Why Paro? Let me give my example. I was outraged when Mala admitted that she left her son and husband for her love. Then as I read other forum members thoughts I thought to give her benefit of doubt till the whole truth comes out. Why??? Because for me and many of us, Mala doing something like that without a strong reason doesn't make sense. So even when she herself admitted to it, we are hoping that there is more to her story. And we just saw her in few episodes but Paro, was bought up by her. So for her to straight away say Mala is bad for her deeds is very wrong.

Ok, I might be over doing it a little. Let me stop.😆
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Hi hope, I always love your views and enjoy reading your takes in sushspective...
Here, I agree that she may be unable to accept that thakurain is a bad person because of her experience and to come up with a defense is also natural... But isn't there such a thing as sensibility and sensitivity... What to say and what not to say at the right moment. You don't need education or experience for that... It should come naturally to a nice person. I cannot imagine saying something similar to a random person opening up in front of me much less the love of my life... What more, whether what thakurain did was right or wrong, it still does not take away the fact that it hurt her son deeply... Whether she truly loved tej does not matter to Rudra... It's her abadonment that was his issue. If paro had said that there might be a strong reason for mala to leave him and defend her like that I would have been still with Paro ...